曾經有一個SP, 維持了一年, 當中有苦有樂
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曾經有一個SP, 維持了一年, 當中有苦有樂
但後來我有男朋友
就結束了
你們曾經試過嗎
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meiaa
我試過因為怕太投入而放棄
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未試過..
你地一星期見面多唔多?
難唔難維繫?
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明志決定
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KK replied at 2011-01-23 3:54 pm
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meiaa
我試過因為怕太投入而放棄
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對
好容易就出左真感情
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Meiaa,
Yup..have similar experience
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It is so easy 出左真感情 ar...but in fact..if have no 真感情..i think i cannot sex with her happily...
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雖然知道男人係可以有性冇愛
(當然女人都可以)
但那時我常常想,
一年了
難道當中真的沒有過愛?
那時自己很傻
常常問自己, 問朋友這個問題
當然是愛得不夠
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So far..me and her still a close fd that could meet and chat...i think there must be love in between..just not more than normal bf and gf...
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學會苦中做樂, 梗就祗有樂..
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right now u do not have SP/SL la..i think you dun need to think about this questions anymore.
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女人沒有怠感覺的話, 根本就不可能維持關係
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只要大家享受,大家都有滿足....
咁咪夠law..
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just4fun replied at 2011-01-23 3:55 pm
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未試過..
你地一星期見面多唔多?
難唔難維繫?
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2星期見一次左右
大家那時都SINGLE
其實唔難維繫
當中曾經在半年時吵過STOP左
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我都試過,維繫左半年
因對方老公知知地,STOP左
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:02 pm
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right now u do not have SP/SL la..i think you dun need to think about this questions anymore.
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JUST TALK TALK~
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我覺得sp / sl 關係入面
就算真係「愛」左
都唔可以講出口
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你們男人的心態是什麼
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smMansm,
I don't think a realtionship could be simple like that....
just my opinion..
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男人會放感情的少之又少
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我sp要結婚, 所以散咗
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心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...
not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.
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所以話呢...
SP...係一種關係. PARTNER 嘛!
初初唔岩既, 又邊會走埋一齊..
所以分開既時候...又係會傷心既..
加上你地都一齊左一段日子..
點都會有感情啦..
人黎架MA..
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心態係想有個人ENJOY SEX
平時可以係好好朋友,或者SL咁
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是
做得SP
就要懂得GAME的RULE
其實他條件很好
是受異性歡迎類型
我常問他為何還不快快找個女仔拍拖
他說有靚的性格好的
但就是冇 "FEEL"
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sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..
for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:14 pm
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心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...
not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.
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對~ AGREE
我付出左真感情
明知不應該但完全控制不到自己
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same here....
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係架,搵女朋友係要有FEEL
有時你對個女仔有FEEL,反相又未必岩佢
但SP唔駛咁要高REQUIREMENT,唔駛十全十美
對SP都會有容忍
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:20 pm
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:14 pm
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心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...
not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.
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對~ AGREE
我付出左真感情
明知不應該但完全控制不到自己
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Ok ka..付出左真感情 will make both get closer..feeling in sex also more excited...however, most important is both will obey the rule ma..
But..finally when separate or stop sp/sl relationship, there is still a feeling of "lost"..
to me..after stop..can do back fd is good ar^^
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:18 pm
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sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..
for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..
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那我不會
我只有過他一個SP
在SEX上其實沒有分別
我會好似女朋友咁咩都OK~
我愛一個人就是完全付出
又坦又勇那類型
SO同男朋友SEX方面不會有什麼不敢的~
我覺得一樣啊
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:26 pm
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:18 pm
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sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..
for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..
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那我不會
我只有過他一個SP
在SEX上其實沒有分別
我會好似女朋友咁咩都OK~
我愛一個人就是完全付出
又坦又勇那類型
SO同男朋友SEX方面不會有什麼不敢的~
我覺得一樣啊
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then..it is my own case lor..heee..for example..i wanna try some kind of toy or role play uniform for so long time..but i only dare to suggest to my sl in the past..heeee
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我絕對不會與他做回朋友
太危險了吧
我跟很有SP 經驗的人不同
我不是高手
只是一個曾經試過一段這樣的關係
你們男人或者不知道
那時雖然我是SINGLE
但我有很大很大的羞愧心
覺得自己很不好
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覺得自己很不好?為什麼呢?
你地大家都係SINGLE , SP只係LABEL
實際上同男女朋友冇分別
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可能我只有一段
所以我又不會降低要求...
HAHA
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:31 pm
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我絕對不會與他做回朋友
太危險了吧
我跟很有SP 經驗的人不同
我不是高手
只是一個曾經試過一段這樣的關係
你們男人或者不知道
那時雖然我是SINGLE
但我有很大很大的羞愧心
覺得自己很不好
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oic...wish u do not feel yourself like that right now...
start a secret relationship surely impact your moral standard la...
but if started already, make the relationship clearly separate from your normal life should be ok..
i am not a 很有SP經驗的人 but i just know the rule only..
So, u stop the sp/sl relationship after u have bf..coz u feel it is bad to keep 1 more sp when u have bf?
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如果我與他不是SINGLE
我100%不會同他開始....SP
我會覺得大家不是情侶
有SEX就不對咁
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:12 pm
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smMansm,
I don't think a realtionship could be simple like that....
just my opinion..
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當然,
大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,
好在乎各自的心態,
感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷
講係易,
而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....
sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,
又大家能夠滿足大家
如果要搞到咁複雜....
點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....
ps, 個人意見..
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:34 pm
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可能我只有一段
所以我又不會降低要求...
HAHA
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yup ar..why need lower the standard for having sp lei?
have feel sin consider la..
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm
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如果我與他不是SINGLE
我100%不會同他開始....SP
我會覺得大家不是情侶
有SEX就不對咁
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oic..that meant u can more or less treat him as "bf" like relationship lor..
大家不是情侶, 有SEX就不對咁
This is most ppls thinking ar^^
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有男朋友
當然不會再要這段關係
或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別
有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊
NO LA
我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?
在街上當然不會拖
不會見彼此的朋友
是好似FD咁
只是多了SEX呢PART
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:42 pm
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有男朋友
當然不會再要這段關係
或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別
有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊
NO LA
我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?
在街上當然不會拖
不會見彼此的朋友
是好似FD咁
只是多了SEX呢PART
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Right...that is really a SEX FRIEND relationship..level higher than SP!!
I like such relationship more:P
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:44 pm
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:42 pm
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有男朋友
當然不會再要這段關係
或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別
有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊
NO LA
我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?
在街上當然不會拖
不會見彼此的朋友
是好似FD咁
只是多了SEX呢PART
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Right...that is really a SEX FRIEND relationship..level higher than SP!!
I like such relationship more:P
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You said "有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊"
Maybe coz u both single...u feel that is more ok to have sex relationship with him and will not shame too much..
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當然,
大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,
好在乎各自的心態,
感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷
講係易,
而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....
sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,
又大家能夠滿足大家
如果要搞到咁複雜....
點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....
ps, 個人意見..
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所以, 我從來都覺得
SP變不到做情侶
就是因為愛得不夠
坦白說
我當然期望過與他真的一起
因為我付出了真心
其實那時不是不痛苦的
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meiaa
作為男人
我覺得一段sp / sl 關係
用以彌補自己生活上的不足
但唔可以影響固有生活
亦唔可以傷害任何人
以平常心同相信為基礎
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:46 pm
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當然,
大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,
好在乎各自的心態,
感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷
講係易,
而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....
sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,
又大家能夠滿足大家
如果要搞到咁複雜....
點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....
ps, 個人意見..
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所以, 我從來都覺得
SP變不到做情侶
就是因為愛得不夠
坦白說
我當然期望過與他真的一起
因為我付出了真心
其實那時不是不痛苦的
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As i said, the feeling is quit "lost" when stopping the sex relationship and become normal fd ka at that moment..
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其實可能我跟一般人不同
我跟他其實是初戀情人
分開N年了, 一直沒有聯絡
某一年, 我們大家都剛各自分手
在某一天晚上, 就發生了
那時大家都沒想過會變成SP
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm
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如果我與他不是SINGLE
我100%不會同他開始....SP
我會覺得大家不是情侶
有SEX就不對咁
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totally agree!! same case, same feeling!!
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:52 pm
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其實可能我跟一般人不同
我跟他其實是初戀情人
分開N年了, 一直沒有聯絡
某一年, 我們大家都剛各自分手
在某一天晚上, 就發生了
那時大家都沒想過會變成SP
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So, as i said lor..no feeling really cannot sex ka..
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cc replied at 2011-01-23 4:52 pm
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm
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如果我與他不是SINGLE
我100%不會同他開始....SP
我會覺得大家不是情侶
有SEX就不對咁
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totally agree!! same case, same feeling!!
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So, cc, do u have sp right now?