曾經有一個SP, 維持了一年, 當中有苦有樂
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曾經有一個SP, 維持了一年, 當中有苦有樂<br />但後來我有男朋友<br />就結束了<br />你們曾經試過嗎
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meiaa
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<br>我試過因為怕太投入而放棄
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未試過..
<br>你地一星期見面多唔多?
<br>難唔難維繫?
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明志決定
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KK replied at 2011-01-23 3:54 pm
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<br>meiaa
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<br>我試過因為怕太投入而放棄
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<br>對
<br>好容易就出左真感情
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Meiaa,
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<br>Yup..have similar experience
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It is so easy 出左真感情 ar...but in fact..if have no 真感情..i think i cannot sex with her happily...
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雖然知道男人係可以有性冇愛
<br>(當然女人都可以)
<br>但那時我常常想,
<br>一年了
<br>難道當中真的沒有過愛?
<br>那時自己很傻
<br>常常問自己, 問朋友這個問題
<br>當然是愛得不夠
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So far..me and her still a close fd that could meet and chat...i think there must be love in between..just not more than normal bf and gf...
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學會苦中做樂, 梗就祗有樂..
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right now u do not have SP/SL la..i think you dun need to think about this questions anymore.
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女人沒有怠感覺的話, 根本就不可能維持關係
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只要大家享受，大家都有滿足....
<br>咁咪夠law..
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just4fun replied at 2011-01-23 3:55 pm
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<br>未試過..
<br>你地一星期見面多唔多?
<br>難唔難維繫?
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<br>2星期見一次左右
<br>大家那時都SINGLE
<br>其實唔難維繫
<br>當中曾經在半年時吵過STOP左
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我都試過，維繫左半年
<br>因對方老公知知地，STOP左
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:02 pm
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<br>right now u do not have SP/SL la..i think you dun need to think about this questions anymore.
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<br>JUST TALK TALK~
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我覺得sp / sl 關係入面
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<br>就算真係「愛」左
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<br>都唔可以講出口
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你們男人的心態是什麼
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smMansm,
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<br>I don't think a realtionship could be simple like that....
<br>just my opinion..
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男人會放感情的少之又少
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我sp要結婚, 所以散咗
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心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...
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<br>not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.
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所以話呢...
<br>SP...係一種關係. PARTNER 嘛!
<br>初初唔岩既, 又邊會走埋一齊..
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<br>所以分開既時候...又係會傷心既..
<br>加上你地都一齊左一段日子..
<br>點都會有感情啦..
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<br>人黎架MA..
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心態係想有個人ENJOY SEX
<br>平時可以係好好朋友，或者SL咁
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是
<br>做得SP
<br>就要懂得GAME的RULE
<br>其實他條件很好
<br>是受異性歡迎類型
<br>我常問他為何還不快快找個女仔拍拖
<br>他說有靚的性格好的
<br>但就是冇 "FEEL"
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sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..
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<br>for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:14 pm
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<br>心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...
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<br>not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.
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<br>對~ AGREE
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<br>我付出左真感情
<br>明知不應該但完全控制不到自己
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same here....
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係架，搵女朋友係要有FEEL
<br>有時你對個女仔有FEEL，反相又未必岩佢
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<br>但SP唔駛咁要高REQUIREMENT，唔駛十全十美
<br>對SP都會有容忍
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:20 pm
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<br>Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:14 pm
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<br>心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...
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<br>not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.
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<br>對~ AGREE
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<br>我付出左真感情
<br>明知不應該但完全控制不到自己
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<br>Ok ka..付出左真感情 will make both get closer..feeling in sex also more excited...however, most important is both will obey the rule ma..
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<br>But..finally when separate or stop sp/sl relationship, there is still a feeling of "lost"..
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<br>to me..after stop..can do back fd is good ar^^
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:18 pm
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<br>sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..
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<br>for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..
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<br>那我不會
<br>我只有過他一個SP
<br>在SEX上其實沒有分別
<br>我會好似女朋友咁咩都OK~
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<br>我愛一個人就是完全付出
<br>又坦又勇那類型
<br>SO同男朋友SEX方面不會有什麼不敢的~
<br>我覺得一樣啊
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:26 pm
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<br>Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:18 pm
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<br>sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..
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<br>for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..
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<br>那我不會
<br>我只有過他一個SP
<br>在SEX上其實沒有分別
<br>我會好似女朋友咁咩都OK~
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<br>我愛一個人就是完全付出
<br>又坦又勇那類型
<br>SO同男朋友SEX方面不會有什麼不敢的~
<br>我覺得一樣啊
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<br>then..it is my own case lor..heee..for example..i wanna try some kind of toy or role play uniform for so long time..but i only dare to suggest to my sl in the past..heeee
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我絕對不會與他做回朋友
<br>太危險了吧
<br>我跟很有SP 經驗的人不同
<br>我不是高手
<br>只是一個曾經試過一段這樣的關係
<br>你們男人或者不知道
<br>那時雖然我是SINGLE
<br>但我有很大很大的羞愧心
<br>覺得自己很不好
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覺得自己很不好?為什麼呢？
<br>你地大家都係SINGLE ， SP只係LABEL
<br>實際上同男女朋友冇分別
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可能我只有一段
<br>所以我又不會降低要求...
<br>HAHA
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:31 pm
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<br>我絕對不會與他做回朋友
<br>太危險了吧
<br>我跟很有SP 經驗的人不同
<br>我不是高手
<br>只是一個曾經試過一段這樣的關係
<br>你們男人或者不知道
<br>那時雖然我是SINGLE
<br>但我有很大很大的羞愧心
<br>覺得自己很不好
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<br>oic...wish u do not feel yourself like that right now...
<br>start a secret relationship surely impact your moral standard la...
<br>but if started already, make the relationship clearly separate from your normal life should be ok..
<br>i am not a 很有SP經驗的人 but i just know the rule only..
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<br>So, u stop the sp/sl relationship after u have bf..coz u feel it is bad to keep 1 more sp when u have bf?
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如果我與他不是SINGLE
<br>我100%不會同他開始....SP
<br>我會覺得大家不是情侶
<br>有SEX就不對咁
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:12 pm
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<br>smMansm,
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<br>I don't think a realtionship could be simple like that....
<br>just my opinion..
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<br>當然,
<br>大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,
<br>好在乎各自的心態,
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<br>感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷
<br>講係易,
<br>而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....
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<br>sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,
<br>又大家能夠滿足大家
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<br>如果要搞到咁複雜....
<br>點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....
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<br>ps, 個人意見..
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:34 pm
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<br>可能我只有一段
<br>所以我又不會降低要求...
<br>HAHA
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<br>yup ar..why need lower the standard for having sp lei?
<br>have feel sin consider la..
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm
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<br>如果我與他不是SINGLE
<br>我100%不會同他開始....SP
<br>我會覺得大家不是情侶
<br>有SEX就不對咁
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<br>oic..that meant u can more or less treat him as "bf" like relationship lor..
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<br>大家不是情侶, 有SEX就不對咁
<br>This is most ppls thinking ar^^
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有男朋友
<br>當然不會再要這段關係
<br>或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別
<br>有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊
<br>NO LA
<br>我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?
<br>在街上當然不會拖
<br>不會見彼此的朋友
<br>是好似FD咁
<br>只是多了SEX呢PART
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:42 pm
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<br>有男朋友
<br>當然不會再要這段關係
<br>或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別
<br>有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊
<br>NO LA
<br>我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?
<br>在街上當然不會拖
<br>不會見彼此的朋友
<br>是好似FD咁
<br>只是多了SEX呢PART
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<br>Right...that is really a SEX FRIEND relationship..level higher than SP!!
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<br>I like such relationship more:P
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Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:44 pm
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<br>meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:42 pm
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<br>有男朋友
<br>當然不會再要這段關係
<br>或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別
<br>有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊
<br>NO LA
<br>我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?
<br>在街上當然不會拖
<br>不會見彼此的朋友
<br>是好似FD咁
<br>只是多了SEX呢PART
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<br>Right...that is really a SEX FRIEND relationship..level higher than SP!!
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<br>I like such relationship more:P
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<br>You said "有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊"
<br>Maybe coz u both single...u feel that is more ok to have sex relationship with him and will not shame too much..
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當然,
<br>大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,
<br>好在乎各自的心態,
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<br>感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷
<br>講係易,
<br>而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....
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<br>sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,
<br>又大家能夠滿足大家
<br>
<br>如果要搞到咁複雜....
<br>點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....
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<br>ps, 個人意見..
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<br>所以, 我從來都覺得
<br>SP變不到做情侶
<br>就是因為愛得不夠
<br>坦白說
<br>我當然期望過與他真的一起
<br>因為我付出了真心
<br>其實那時不是不痛苦的
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meiaa
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<br>作為男人
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<br>我覺得一段sp / sl 關係
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<br>用以彌補自己生活上的不足
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<br>但唔可以影響固有生活
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<br>亦唔可以傷害任何人
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<br>以平常心同相信為基礎
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:46 pm
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<br>當然,
<br>大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,
<br>好在乎各自的心態,
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<br>感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷
<br>講係易,
<br>而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....
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<br>sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,
<br>又大家能夠滿足大家
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<br>如果要搞到咁複雜....
<br>點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....
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<br>ps, 個人意見..
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<br>所以, 我從來都覺得
<br>SP變不到做情侶
<br>就是因為愛得不夠
<br>坦白說
<br>我當然期望過與他真的一起
<br>因為我付出了真心
<br>其實那時不是不痛苦的
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<br>As i said, the feeling is quit "lost" when stopping the sex relationship and become normal fd ka at that moment..
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其實可能我跟一般人不同
<br>我跟他其實是初戀情人
<br>分開N年了, 一直沒有聯絡
<br>某一年, 我們大家都剛各自分手
<br>在某一天晚上, 就發生了
<br>那時大家都沒想過會變成SP
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm
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<br>如果我與他不是SINGLE
<br>我100%不會同他開始....SP
<br>我會覺得大家不是情侶
<br>有SEX就不對咁
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<br>totally agree!! same case, same feeling!!
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meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:52 pm
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<br>其實可能我跟一般人不同
<br>我跟他其實是初戀情人
<br>分開N年了, 一直沒有聯絡
<br>某一年, 我們大家都剛各自分手
<br>在某一天晚上, 就發生了
<br>那時大家都沒想過會變成SP
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<br>So, as i said lor..no feeling really cannot sex ka..
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cc replied at 2011-01-23 4:52 pm
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<br>meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm
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<br>如果我與他不是SINGLE
<br>我100%不會同他開始....SP
<br>我會覺得大家不是情侶
<br>有SEX就不對咁
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<br>totally agree!! same case, same feeling!!
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<br>So, cc, do u have sp right now?