4. 會考失敗後, 出黎做佐6年野, 儲佐D錢, 而家想讀番書, 專上課程果D, 但俾家人話我用讀書逃避工作, 昨天和家人吵佐一輪, 好心淡..

會考失敗後, 出黎做佐6年野, 儲佐D錢, 而家想讀番書, 專上課程果D, 但俾家人話我用讀書逃避工作, 昨天和家人吵佐一輪, 好心淡..

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  • K

    可以既, 讀part time la

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  • R

    自問成績唔好, 當年考唔到中六..
    <br>之後我出黎做野, 六年時間,
    <br>唔算長, 也唔算短, 總算儲到d錢,
    <br>打算讀下夜校, 考番個會考,
    <br>但昨日我去探我外公,
    <br>我舅父剛好在家, 佢問我最近點,
    <br>我話番工, 遲d讀番書,
    <br>佢當堂起身, 指住我罵, 話我唔自量,
    <br>明知當年會考炒佐, 而家又讀番書,
    <br>分明係逃避現實,
    <br>又話我爛泥扶唔上柄, 點讀都係做番文員,
    <br>
    <br>我當時真係好嬲, 但都忍住
    <br>我一出門就喊佐出黎,
    <br>覺得好委屈,
    <br>以前我係貪玩, 會考唔好,
    <br>之後呢幾年, 我都好俾心機做野,
    <br>我只係想考番五科合格,
    <br>點解佢咁睇我..
    <br>我同呢個舅父一年都見唔到一次面,
    <br>佢一直都覺得我仲係咁貪玩,
    <br>就連我做學生果陣, 浦disco既野,
    <br>佢都會拉番來講,
    <br>話我賺埋d錢咪去disco
    <br>自出黎做野之後, 我已經冇去過,
    <br>我好努力改變自己, 但家人仍然用我以前既野, 去抹煞我的努力, 包括我想讀書, 都要俾佢地罵?
    <br>
    <br>
    <br>家人係咪都唔會了解自己?

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    RITA <br>我建議你堅持你自己既計劃<br>你的家人是做錯了

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    我情況同你一樣，中五畢業，家人都唔支持我再讀書，但我堅持，用四年時間去讀一個高級文憑，同埋一個degree, 五月就可以再投身工作啦，時間過得好快，今年就大學畢業啦．

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    如果你因為佢一句話而放棄讀書.....
    <br>你呢世都會俾佢睇唔起
    <br>
    <br>用行動證明俾人睇你係得既
    <br>支持你~

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    yup~~~
    <br>
    <br>為自己而活！
    <br>
    <br>我２９歲才第一次踏足大學，非常珍惜，極度回味．
    <br>
    <br>他一番話可以是冷水潑熄你的火，亦可以是加強火力的x油，完全是你個人的選擇．
    <br>
    <br>但你的火一旦熄了，後悔一生的亦只有你自己．
    <br>
    <br>１００％　支持你

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    "明知當年結唔成婚, 而家又再結婚,
    <br>分明係逃避現實,
    <br>又話我爛泥扶唔上柄, 點都係一世一個人"
    <br>
    <br>點解讀書係爛泥扶唔上柄??
    <br>
    <br>一年都見唔到一次面, 你又洗乜理佢? 可能佢自己D仔女都係中五唔合格, 無野做.
    <br>

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    Rita,
    <br>
    <br>You don't need to care what others say. It is your life and you should follow your heart. How about your parents? Do they think the same as your uncle?
    <br>
    <br>Follow your heart! Go back to school! Support you!

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    全力支持你
    <br>
    <br>我覺得你的諗法無錯，仲好上進0添
    <br>有0的人諗野較偏激，唔好理佢

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    我個case同你一樣呀!
    <br>
    <br>我自己又係做左成十年野! 幾年前, 我決定放棄做野, 讀返書, 想讀個degree返黎! 因為以前會考又係無好好咁讀書, 所以考得唔好!
    <br>
    <br>咁後來同家人傾下呢件事, 我家�堥鉹中@位成員, 極力反對我用咁多錢去讀書, 仲話你想去進修, 唔一定讀書呀.... blah blah blah..... 跟住大家都吵左一大餐!
    <br>
    <br>後來我都堅持己見, 今年都就黎畢業了! 好開心自己無放棄到呢個機會, 因為唔剩自己那個時候已的起心肝, 那時的上進心, 可能到再過幾年後, 你未必再有心想去讀書! 同埋這幾年讀書的過程, 不謹可以學到知識, 仲有機會比自己去擴濶自己的視野, 識到唔同的人..... 得到比失的多!
    <br>
    <br>所以呢, 剩自己還後生, 想做就去做吧, 不要再唸咁多! 青春一去不覆再呀!
    <br>
    <br>有時家人親戚係唔會了解自己, 只有自己才了解自己! 你要自己幫自己, 幫自己行條好的路, 你又唔係殺人放火, 依家係去讀書, 所以呢, 抓緊機會呀! 唔係你將來可能會後悔!
    <br>
    <br>雖然我地唔相識, 但我都好支持你!

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    Hi, RITA,
    <br>我好少會係呢度留言，
    <br>但好想話你知，你的諗法絕對正確…去馬~~
    <br>100%支持
    <br>^.^

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    趁自己仲有呢份上進心, 就要去馬啦, 再老d可能會有心無力啦, 我今年大學畢業都42歲, 但係距離60歲退休, 仲有好長時間, 如果我唔去讀書, 會被淘汰, 我唔甘心, 時間好快過, 四年大學課程都就黎讀完啦.
    <br>
    <br>家人都話我為左逃避先去讀書, 又幾十歲人, 不過, 佢地讀得書少, 我唔怪佢地, 對於佢地既說話, 一於當佢地狗吠.

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    support you
    <br>study harder and further your study,
    <br>gain higher qualification and proud of yourself
    <br>make your uncle jealous your hard working
    <br>
    <br>if possible, may by you could start with part time course and earn more money to support yourself to further your education
    <br>
    <br>you're right, everyone's educational background has been raised, you should equiped yourself with higher qualification while you're still able to

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    其實果個只不過係你舅父, 仲要係一年都唔見一次果隻, 難聽d講句, 你當佢狗吠囉, 佢唔了解你, 根本無資格去批評你d乜野. 呢種人, 你無需要當佢係"家人".

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    不需要把唔重要既人既說話放係心
    <br>
    <br>做自己要做既事, 好好的讀好成績比佢睇
    <br>
    <br>我當年要repeat form 5, 後母話唔好, 因為女仔唔好讀咁多書....浪費金錢, d 親戚話我個學位係靠關係的, 好好笑, 我係經Japus 入學的, 心裡只笑佢地無知
    <br>
    <br>結果我讀完中7,讀完大學...今年打算讀master

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    好多謝你地既留言呀!
    <br>我好感動, 原來咁多人都同我有一樣既經歷,
    <br>果日返屋企真係好唔開心,
    <br>好似俾人狠狠打佐一餐咁...
    <br>因為我講俾人聽讀書果陣, 係好有信心,
    <br>好有誠意去講,
    <br>不過過後思量, 自己原來真係冇乜自信,
    <br>一句說話可以差d改變自己既志向,
    <br>爸爸媽媽都支持我, 佢地仲要我俾心機去讀,
    <br>但千祈唔到讀到一半, 又無心機, 咁樣佢地講明一定會好唔鐘意了,
    <br>我發覺, 原來了解自己都係身邊既朋友和父母, 甚至係同事, 有時都會支持自己一下,
    <br>
    <br>至於舅父, 其實我都唔係佢係點的, 由細到大, 每次見到佢都講, "我當你係女架, 你有咩都可以同我講既"但當我講佐, 佢就會鬧我, 比如說, 我想讀書, 佢就話嫁左佢咪仲好, 又成日話我樣衰, 讀書唔成, 總之講好多野都係中傷人既說話, 但我舅父說, 係因為家人, 先至講呢d話, 但佢唔知道傷害人, 家人係可以講真話, 但都有個底線, 但我相信好好地一個人, 幾十年俾同一個人, 仲係"親人", 踩到自己一文不值, 我相信冇咩人係會開心, 所以我好耐都冇同佢講自己既野...估唔到佢個人十年如一日, 冇變過, 有d失望la...
    <br>
    <br>正如你地所講, 我學會唔理佢ga la, 我亦下決心, 下次無論佢講乜, 我都唔會再喊, 唔嬲, 我唔會再俾佢打擊到..
    <br>
    <br>我一定會俾心機!! 你地既留言令我對自己有番d信心, 同埋俾我知道, 自己一定要珍惜學習時間, 而唔好花時間在一堆冇謂既人身上!!
    <br>
    <br>

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    RITA
    <br>你舅父講呢d說話,証明佢係低下階層?
    <br>對嗎?
    <br>
    <br>你話讀夜校,又唔係quite左份工,佢講乜野逃避喎...
    <br>我果時想再讀,俾家人話讀乜能野...
    <br>你唔好理佢,佢d低下階層識乜...

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    讀書唔係唔正經的事，唔需要理人地點諗，你又唔係叫佢俾錢你讀。
    <br>
    <br>如果你打算搵份好ｄ的工，係應該充實自己，我個學位都係part time讀番黎，雖然出黎做野已有一定年資，但冇張沙紙真係差好遠，起碼人工唔嗌得高！

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    係呀，你千祁唔好放棄呀。
    <br>我個仔都係咁， 細個唔識諗，冇心機讀書。大個做咗野就知道進修嘅重要，佢半工半讀，好辛苦架，不過佢而家有碩士學位啦，我好以佢爲榮呀。
    <br>你而家讀書係你自己要讀，你自己有動力，唔同細個係父母要你讀，所以你會好俾心機架。

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  • W

    <br>hi Rita,
    <br>If you are not working, would it affect the life of your uncle?
    <br>Does your uncle need to pay for your studies?
    <br>
    <br>If your uncle has nothing to do with your life, why are you so affected by what he said.
    <br>
    <br>Pls go and prepare for your course.
    <br>Stop wasting time about your uncle. He's just a very low class man who only knows how to scold a niece. How helpful can he be? If your neighbours dog is barking for no reaosn, would you care?
    <br>
    <br>Get on with your life.
    <br>Make sure you are serious this time.
    <br>Good luck to you.
    <br>

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  • 支

    支持你

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  • M

    唔好意思呀, 我想問, 我會考都考得唔好架, 英文仲好差添, 出黎工作後, 英文都係咁差, 無進步過呀, 我想問下你地, 你地都話自己當年會考考得唔好, 但係你地點讀到個學位番黎呢? 會唔會跟得好辛苦? 大學係咪通常都係會用英文教架?? 咁你地係resign左份全職, 跟住o個幾年就全部時間用黎讀書???
    <br>
    <br>我都唔想成世都係咁呀, 我只得中五學歷, 英文又差, 唔想成世都係做死一世文員仔, 比人睇唔起!

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    版主你都好丫, 做左六年野儲到d錢, 我就儲唔到錢喇, 差唔多個個月都用哂咁滯, 好難儲到錢, 介唔介意話我知你幾錢人工, 儲到幾多錢? 每個月又儲幾多? 我現在一個月得7千五人工, 比二千元家用, 其餘既用黎搭車食飯行街買衫買護膚品等等, 不過我係同bf搬了出黎住的, 可能就加埋要買日用品o個d囉, 所以我好難儲到錢! 我做左咁多年文職, 不過係轉過好多份工, 當中有d時間又失業無野做, 係呢一兩年先定番d, 但係份工都幾受氣囉! 我只係做receptionist咋!

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