無性=無愛？
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我同我老公拍拖兩年之後結婚，宜家結左一年，岩岩生左個B<br /><br />初時佢係一星期有三、四次，最多試過一日七次<br /><br />宜家...幾星期都無一次<br /><br />佢話攰.....我都FEEL 到佢對我無興趣....<br /><br />唔知係咪生完之後身型變左，為左照顧個B又無咁著緊外型同打扮...<br /><br />最近佢俾我見到佢上友緣人睇女人相、又睇陳法拉網頁、又睇facebook 既女人(都有睇男人)....<br /><br />於是我知道，佢唔係對女人無興趣，只係對我無興趣o者<br /><br />我立即將屋企d condom 丢晒掉垃圾桶，我唔希罕佢既垂清，我同佢講，以後都唔會同佢有肌膚之親<br /><br />當我見到佢睇友緣人果陣，真係好嬲，將結婚証書都渣皺埋，佢就撕碎埋佢，丟掉廁所沖左佢<br /><br />佢既解釋就係：友緣人只係八卦睇下，因為個front page 好colourful，無login 無開acc 無傾計，唔算係玩；陳法拉只係好奇睇下，係yahoo見到；facebook 只係睇下舊同學近況(我見佢睇某女人既相片，睇晒咁制)<br /><br />
<div class="topic_body" id="message43690085">睇過一本書話，男人唔掂你，即係唔太愛你....呢樣我都幾相信<br /><br />我都預左離婚，為左個仔有個完整家庭，同一個唔愛自己既人一齊，就算表面幸福都係假既！<br /><br />趁自己後生，快趣修身，執好自己既心境外型，搵過第二個好過<br /><br />唔通真係等佢係出邊搵到一個女人，再黎拋棄自己咩<br /><br />都係要為自己打算下好！<br /><br />p.s. 真係唔知點解，我平時好鍚好錫個仔，今日係咪受佢個衰老豆影響，我對個仔都冷淡左好多，一黎個仔真係好難湊....呢個係生左佢之後第一次有咁既感覺<br /><br />
<div class="topic_body" id="message43690413">我以為結左婚，就可以穩穩定定，唔洗再尋尋覓覓，可以專心湊好個仔....<br /><br />但事與願違，原來世上並無穩定的關係，人的一生都係在不停的尋尋覓覓中打轉，無野係一生一世，一張婚紙既價值=零！<br /><br /></div>
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事情未必係咁差
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everythings have 2 different side...
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<br>u think no sex = no love?? have sex also not = have love!!!
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<br>just hanging around the net watch girls dun mean he wanna do anythings...peoples man or woman also like to see pretty things...
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<br>the problem between u2 will be leak of Communication!!! I can tell guys will act like a baby which need care , u must be too forcus on ur son but forget about him..
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<br>it's never too late to fix up u2 relationship, sit down and talk about it...
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佢未必唔愛你 大膽d講做女人點都係keep下好
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你地都講得好有道理
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<br>不過...係我主動approach佢，佢都係唔想掂我
<br>宜家知佢咁樣，令我自專心受創
<br>我只知道，未婚前我都算係好索，我唔需要佢，世上有大把人會欣賞我
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<br>我為佢付出左咁多，換黎既係咁
<br>我有點唔甘心咁講，之後我變返索之後，我都絕對唔會益佢
<br>我會向外走....！
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... replied at 2010-06-19 8:58 pm
<br>你地都講得好有道理
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<br>不過...係我主動approach佢，佢都係唔想掂我
<br>宜家知佢咁樣，令我自專心受創
<br>我只知道，未婚前我都算係好索，我唔需要佢，世上有大把人會欣賞我
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<br>我為佢付出左咁多，換黎既係咁
<br>我有點唔甘心咁講，之後我變返索之後，我都絕對唔會益佢
<br>我會向外走....！
<br> reply to thread
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<br>I know u still mad at him but think twice b4 doing anythings...as I said b4 try to claim down and talk with him...things wont be as worst as u think!!
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... replied at 2010-06-19 8:58 pm
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<br>你地都講得好有道理
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<br>不過...係我主動approach佢，佢都係唔想掂我
<br>宜家知佢咁樣，令我自專心受創
<br>我只知道，未婚前我都算係好索，我唔需要佢，世上有大把人會欣賞我
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<br>我為佢付出左咁多，換黎既係咁
<br>我有點唔甘心咁講，之後我變返索之後，我都絕對唔會益佢
<br>我會向外走....！
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<br>welcome you, into my arms, and my bed
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dry, 多謝你
<br>你有冇contact可以留俾我？有野想私底下問你....
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I think u r gone already
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<br>ok we can chat on msn if u dun mind
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<br>[email protected]
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我老公見到我呢個post
<br>佢話因為我同個仔訓，同佢分房訓，所以少左咩咩喎
<br>之前我傷口又痛
<br>佢就話俾我抖下先，之後又因為分房訓而無左mood...
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其實佢一開始已經反對分房訓
<br>但bb踢被好犀利，講真我一晚都醒十次八次同佢蓋被，你話又點放心俾bb一個人訓呢
<br>所以，雖然講左，但其實個問題都係無解決到
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妳地係有左BB先結婚架 ?
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你o地在這裡識的?
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冷靜D
<br>而家咁既情況唔需要衝動.會唔會你產後老公俾唔到支持你而唔開心
<br>佢又無做D對你不忠既野點解唔好好傾下
<br>修補下關係先呢?
<br>夫妻係要忍讓下..何況小朋友咁妯考慮下先..
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Hi...,
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<br>睇完妳個post,我都覺得好難過.我相信妳同妳老公嘅情況未去到好壞,仲有得修補.況且妳已經係1個仔嘅媽咪,而且佢係無辜.雖然勉強要妳哋响一齊係冇享福,不過至少都比多次機會相方再努力修補,如果真係唔得先分開.
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91407159 call me to talk if u don't mind
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hi ...
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<br>mind to chat over the phone now?
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<br>my mobile number is 63975889
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爸B replied at 2010-06-20 1:00 am
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<br>Hi...,
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<br>睇完妳個post,我都覺得好難過.我相信妳同妳老公嘅情況未去到好壞,仲有得修補.況且妳已經係1個仔嘅媽咪,而且佢係無辜.雖然勉強要妳哋响一齊係冇享福,不過至少都比多次機會相方再努力修補,如果真係唔得先分開.
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<br>exactly
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hello..
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<br>how are u..
<br>may i be ur fd.?
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<br>[email protected]