為甚麼自己還是放不開
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<p>和她分手後所有朋友都叫我放手<br />點解自己仲放唔低?明明她已經說盡所有絕情的話<br /><br />每當一閉上眼就會想起她<br /><br /><br />唉~真的很辛苦<br /><br /></p>
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可憐！又无人帮到你！
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明明應該知放手,但點解又要想糾纏
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好正常,因為你重感情,係佢身上你可以找你心中所求
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raingola replied at 2010-06-16 6:40 pm
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<br>好正常,因為你重感情,係佢身上你可以找你心中所求
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<br>係香港,重感情好像都是會做被傷害的角式多
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<br>一切都失去了~真的很痛苦
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呢段時間盡量令自己忙D, 參加多D活動, 分散下注意力, 只要時間過左就會無事...
<br>建議你去做下義工, 不單可以幫到人, 最重要係當你見到一班弱勢社群時, 你就會覺得自己既痛苦並不是什麼...
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<br>呢段時間盡量令自己忙D, 參加多D活動, 分散下注意力, 只要時間過左就會無事...
<br>建議你去做下義工, 不單可以幫到人, 最重要係當你見到一班弱勢社群時, 你就會覺得自己既痛苦並不是什麼...
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<br>失戀後都沒有一天真的在家食飯,都是在外面....但是一回到家就會想起她
<br>始終7年感情太多點滴
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fire, be strong! support u!
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There is nothing u can change if she no longer loves u. It's better to end it soon than later if the final result is the same.
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幾屆既世界盃都有佢陪我睇.........
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water replied at 2010-06-16 7:01 pm
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<br>fire, be strong! support u!
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<br>thx water~^^
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PP replied at 2010-06-16 7:03 pm
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<br>幾屆既世界盃都有佢陪我睇.........
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<br>那現在的她還在陪伴你嗎
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世界盃 ... i can watch with u if u dun mind
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water replied at 2010-06-16 7:03 pm
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<br>There is nothing u can change if she no longer loves u. It's better to end it soon than later if the final result is the same.
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<br>很多東西我也明白,時間可以磨滅一切
<br>但7年的時間要用回多少時間才可忘記到呢?這個我也不知道
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<br>上一個真的自己所愛的人,雖然一起了9個月,但用了2年時間才可真的忘記...
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今屆再無佢, 其實我鐘意既事好多都係佢鐘意.
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PP replied at 2010-06-16 7:11 pm
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<br>今屆再無佢, 其實我鐘意既事好多都係佢鐘意.
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<br>那你還會傷心嗎?
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Maybe you won't be able to forget in ur life as it has already happened. You can't just press a "delete" key to erase the memory. It won't happen. But time can heal ur pain.
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我覺得我已經傷心得好夠, 但有時難免會想起.
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傷心 is actually very normal
<br>I had been 傷心 for a few years ... but now I feel empty more than 傷心.
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如果可以控制得了, 就不會有人受傷......<br />結自己一點時間吧
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water replied at 2010-06-16 7:15 pm
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<br>Maybe you won't be able to forget in ur life as it has already happened. You can't just press a "delete" key to erase the memory. It won't happen. But time can heal ur pain.
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<br>明白,但人就是明知如此也會傷心
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PP replied at 2010-06-16 7:16 pm
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<br>我覺得我已經傷心得好夠, 但有時難免會想起.
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<br>想起會傷心?
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dun be rush ... give urself more time to 傷心 or even cry... no force urself to forget... time can heal anyway though it may take a long time
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water replied at 2010-06-16 7:26 pm
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<br>dun be rush ... give urself more time to 傷心 or even cry... no force urself to forget... time can heal anyway though it may take a long time
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<br>已喊到不識喊
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<br>今天還要去求簽,下下簽~唉
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hmmm ... 求簽 is just for reference and dun take it too serious
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<br>ur life, ur fate is controlled by urself
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water replied at 2010-06-16 7:30 pm
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<br>hmmm ... 求簽 is just for reference and dun take it too serious
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<br>ur life, ur fate is controlled by urself
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<br>人到迷茫時都會想求神問卜吧
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though i suffer a lot these years coz of a very bad relationship ... i didn't go to 求簽
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<br>i believe my life is controlled by myself and i am the only one who can choose how my life will be going on. no one can help actually
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讓自己忙起來, 沒有太多時間去想 :)<br />
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it will make u more unhappy if you dun get any good news from 求簽
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<br>anyway ... be strong la
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and actually ... i am not strong at all. haha ... that's why i have been in a bad relationship for a few years without the courage to break it
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如果 一手鋸開枯樹 木不會發現痛
<br>不過 日日澆水的我 覺得被挖空
<br>如果 必須結束關係 難扮成從未栽種
<br>讓我 數著年輪 這些年輪 我的心會痛 wo~
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<br>畢竟那段如沐春風
<br>早刻進百年長的信
<br>在信中 圈圈緊扣 情感多深厚
<br>前因 非因 錯種
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<br>分開簡單 抹去往事極難
<br>幾多溫馨 燭光晚餐
<br>難以用 斧頭一劈 叫畫面飛散
<br>伴侶沒了 記憶會為患
<br>倚星細語 抱月夜談
<br>歷歷在目 錄下年鑑
<br>來年樹倒 身影孤 煙花散
<br>年輪未可推翻 化不淡
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<br>緣慳 但是人非草木 並不會太易慣
<br>刻個 木造的心給我 痛苦未會減
<br>情願 舊事連根一拔 忘滅如燃盡的炭
<br>但我 數著年輪 幾圈年輪 已經濕了眼 wo~
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<br>分手與又平復之間
<br>少不過百年零一晚
<br>就怕翻風的一晚 回首貪一眼
<br>回憶急速擴散
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<br>分開簡單 抹去往事極難
<br>幾多溫馨 燭光晚餐
<br>難以用 斧頭一劈 叫畫面飛散
<br>伴侶沒了 記憶會為患
<br>倚星細語 抱月夜談
<br>歷歷在目 錄下年鑑
<br>來年樹倒 身影孤 煙花散
<br>年輪未可推翻 化不淡
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<br>就怕新婚的一晚 臨終貪一眼
<br>徒添幾分慨嘆
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<br>分開簡單 抹去往事極難
<br>幾多溫馨 燭光晚餐
<br>難以用 斧頭一劈 叫畫面飛散
<br>伴侶沒了 記憶會為患
<br>倚星細語 抱月夜談
<br>歷歷在目 錄下年鑑
<br>來年樹倒 身影孤 煙花散
<br>情長未可推翻 化不淡
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oh fire, i can sing this song very well ... haha
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真的很傷心~
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I know how sad it is. take it easy and try to do something else u like and not to think so much.
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<br>or simply go to have a drink ... it should help but dun drink too much.
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<br>hope u can get rid of the sad feeling soon
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男人之家,要拎得起,放得低. 女人尚且要咁做,男人更加. 成日 E E Ai Ai, 有冇煩d?
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放唔低只因為係得唔到.......男人，你既世界只得一個女人？？
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not very fair comment ... both men and women are human being and can be hurt and sad.
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<br>for me, my world doesn't only have a guy ... but i only want one guy but not others.
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人 replied at 2010-06-16 10:10 pm
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<br>男人之家,要拎得起,放得低. 女人尚且要咁做,男人更加. 成日 E E Ai Ai, 有冇煩d?
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<br>每人性格也不同吧~有些女人可以好像男人,有些男人可以好像女人
<br>對住一件死物幾年你都有感情,何況係人?
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FIRE^_^ replied at 2010-06-16 10:22 pm
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<br>人 replied at 2010-06-16 10:10 pm
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<br>男人之家,要拎得起,放得低. 女人尚且要咁做,男人更加. 成日 E E Ai Ai, 有冇煩d?
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<br>每人性格也不同吧~有些女人可以好像男人,有些男人可以好像女人
<br>對住一件死物幾年你都有感情,何況係人?
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<br>咁你係到 E E Ai Ai 又有何用? 會改變現狀嗎? 吾該你長大啦,成熟的人會將自己注意力轉移,做d有建設性既野. 你好似吾係第一條thread講失戀Lok bor. 係咪如果全世界人都話同情你,呵返你,你會覺得舒服d? 牛奶仔
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我睇你應該係個廿o靚出頭既死o靚仔, 飛起你既女友一定係你初戀情人
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如果你對住件死物都要傷春悲秋一翻, 你直頭係戀物狂,吾死都冇用.
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<br>抑或你想係度博同情,等d女中可憐你,中你圈套?
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人 replied at 2010-06-16 10:31 pm
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<br>如果你對住件死物都要傷春悲秋一翻, 你直頭係戀物狂,吾死都冇用.
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<br>抑或你想係度博同情,等d女中可憐你,中你圈套?
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<br>如果對住一件你好鐘意的死物幾年,如果那件野爛左冇左都會覺得傷心,如果你不會究竟會不會係你冷血呢?
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<br>而且這個post好似冇乜中女入黎喎~咁又搏甚麼可憐呢?
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<br>真的凡事給你看透了
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hihi.........fire!我同你感受一樣..好痛
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cc replied at 2010-06-16 10:43 pm
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<br>hihi.........fire!我同你感受一樣..好痛
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<br>你又是怎樣呢?
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但為一個唔愛自己嘅人傷痛直得咩?
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醉左幾日終於醉醒....
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cc replied at 2010-06-16 10:47 pm
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<br>但為一個唔愛自己嘅人傷痛直得咩?
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<br>理智上不值,感性上你會覺得傷痛值得
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<br>這一刻一大班朋友你不會覺甚麼回事,但是一個人你就會想起佢
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FIRE^_^ replied at 2010-06-16 10:40 pm
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<br>如果對住一件你好鐘意的死物幾年,如果那件野爛左冇左都會覺得傷心,如果你不會究竟會不會係你冷血呢?
<br><<<<----我好想知道有乜野物件係爛左而你會覺得傷心架? 講黎聽下? 有乜野咁irreplaceable?
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<br>而且這個post好似冇乜中女入黎喎~咁又搏甚麼可憐呢?
<br><<<<----"博人同情" 同 "中女" 有乜直接關係,講黎聽下呢d係乜9理論.
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呢條契弟好似全世界得佢一個失過戀,冇能用
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我肯定佢係eddie313 或DarkRed 是但一個