HELP !!! 分手了....女朋友說心死心.....有得救嗎??

跟她拍拖三年了,因我皮氣有点大，常常抄架(我不打女人，只是口角之争) (但我做錯了－件好嚴重的錯事..在友網識人，但沒有連絡，連MSN都冇，只是email 了2次，因為當時抄架，心情很差)。她也說跟我一起壓力很大，要改善很多來迎合我。其實我都糸為她好。最近幾次抄架後，終於再次提出分手，但她這一次很 confirm 的不會再有機會(但之前都好哋哋)，她說這數月想得很清楚，看不到將來，無安全感，心亦死了，因為她想結分生仔，而我不是他想要的男人。大家分開冷靜一下。這對於我來說太突然了，縱使我們常抄架，但我對她的愛從沒減。她本來是跟我同住的，但已回家。在我不肯放手的情況下，求她給大家一次機會，但她不想再談，她說覺得很煩。但她會聽我電話，也會同我去街，我拖她手時她也沒有縮開，我也會吻她，抱她，但她對我的態度很冷莫，偶然也我到我家睡。已一個月了，她說只是不想做得太絕。我希望盡力做到最好，比佢知我們可以好以開頭咁 sweet... 但始終她也不比機會，佢會做翻佢自已。 我真的不知怎樣做，我現在再做好D，改善自已有用嗎?? 女人死心時是不是無得救？女人有冇可能純因為問題而死心?? 做d咩先可以令佢開翻個心，去試下接受新的我?? 請指点指点.....HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP

你都係睇下自己做乜發脾四先喇 ~~ 唔好下下搵藉口話為左女友 ... 佢唔需要你咁為佢囉 ~~

我知我既問題，態度太激動，但在這一兩年已改善了一点

其實我哋已經打算呢一兩年結婚，婚紗 trip 也下了訂

係咪你潛意識有 d 野 ... 你好抗拒你唔知呀 .... 你一日搞唔掂 ... 你都比唔到安全感女友 ....

i really love her, wanna protect her, care of her, really wanna spend the rest of my life with her

你而家無事無幹梗係咁講架喇 ~ 你試下細心回憶下次次因咩事嗌交先喇 ~

以前我個性格系貪玩在D，外表又花 fit.. 但已沒有那麼貪玩了，加埋果次網上.....唉真後悔

兩個 email 嗟 ~ 冇咩大不了呀 ?

睇佢EMAIL 講左D 咩啦 不過死心的女人做咩會仲同你過夜? 我覺得唔會LOR

forgettrouble replied @ 2010-02-26 9:51 pm
 
 
 睇佢EMAIL 講左D 咩啦
 不過死心的女人做咩會仲同你過夜? 我覺得唔會LOR
 
 >>> 咁又係喎 ~~~ 喂 ~~ 有冇人會對我死心呀 ?? kekeke

>>> 咁又係喎 ~~~ 喂 ~~ 有冇人會對我死心呀 ?? kekeke >>> 要對你有左心, 先可以死心架MA, 邊個對你有心呀, HHAHA

forgettrouble replied @ 2010-02-26 9:54 pm
 
 
 >>> 咁又係喎 ~~~ 喂 ~~ 有冇人會對我死心呀 ?? kekeke
 
 >>> 要對你有左心, 先可以死心架MA, 邊個對你有心呀, HHAHA
 
 
 >>>> 唔知喎 ~ 都冇人同我講對我有心 ~ 我鬼知咩 ~~~

版主你覺得你女朋友真的完全死心嗎? 咁佢抱咩態度同你過夜? 死屍咁? 定係扮唔理你JA?

唉...又係呢D CASE~~其實有D野發生左, 就返唔到轉頭~可能呢一下佢都係心軟...但係繼續一齊都唔會開心, 因為唔會變返之前既SWEET~

>>>> 唔知喎 ~ 都冇人同我講對我有心 ~ 我鬼知咩 ~~~ >>> 嘩, 咩你好想有人對你起心呀? 男人真係好花心呀

小肥~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 晚上好呀 ~~
 
 不過我要去洗白白喇 ~ hehe

已想得好清楚，我太希望佢咩都要做到最好，有Ｄ咩我覺得吾好，我都話�怴A我attitude 又差...

OT, 快D返~~
 
 HELP~講得太多, 會厭倦

=> 版主你覺得你女朋友真的完全死心嗎? 咁佢抱咩態度同你過夜? 死屍咁? 定係扮唔理你JA? 我就真的不知道，因為她說吾會再比機會，心也死了...... 她好唔想的....不過我堅持.....也冇做d 咩咩...只是訓覺

問心, 你改唔改到你的壞習慣? 要求別人做樣樣都好之前, 都要想下自己係唔係可以做到樣樣都好@@ 如果好想挽回, 最重要讓她覺得你改變了

其實我真系想知我可做d 咩令佢重新接受我

吾洗灰心, 女心好易心軟, 你親手做個cake 比佢, 用D成意, 一次吾得兩次, 但一定吾好有下次, 再有就冇得求

好難架啦~~如果咁易既就唔駛分手啦

actually .. i have been changed a lot, even a lot better than before, but she said my changed is only for NOW... can hold in the future at all....

試下啦, 吾試一定吾得, 就算吾好食, 佢都有小小心軟, 你女友中意你平時為佢做什麼

to hi.. yes thanks! i have done something sweet to her with heart, but seems like doesnt work ..

你可吾可以真係改呀?

actually .. i have been changed a lot, even a lot better than before, but she said my changed is only for NOW... can hold in the future at all.... >>> 無錯!! 俾我都覺得咁........ 恕我直言, 你真係可以改, 定係想tum 返佢先做門面野? 俾我係個女, 都會咁想, 俾佢睇到你的誠意, 不要以為做一兩次就等到成果, 用心去改, 我覺得佢係會睇到~ sweet 野不一定得, 俾佢睇到係真係細心關心佢, 而唔係做野想tum 佢開心

to hi, that's a good idea too, let me try to make a cake for her then. => 試下啦, 吾試一定吾得, 就算吾好食, 佢都有小小心軟, 你女友中意你平時為佢做什麼 其實佢只是想簡單的生活, 兩個人開開心心

to hi 如果係你, 你死左心，但又冇第三者，would you 比多一次 chance 佢??

to forgetttrouble, 如果係你, 你死左心，但又冇第三者，would you 比多一次 chance 佢??

to hi, i will change for sure, cus it is not only for her, since my attitude too big to all the poeple.. so i need to be changed. but i have been changed a bit la ...

如果我死心, 我唔會同你有咩瓜葛

女人死心時是不是無得救？
 
 if she's willing to meet you, she still has feelings for you, not a dead case. Time will tell, action speaks louder than words, best of luck :)

我當初一分手就無返轉頭，even連佢最後錄音講出佢的心聲我都無聼，仲將錄音機dum左。
 
 不過我覺得你應該有機會架。比多d誠意，改善自己的脾氣，寫低你對佢的承諾，如果再犯就你唔岩啦。

to forgettable, yes .i know once women in DEAD HEART .. is hard to return .... but i do really hope this is not a dead case ...

=> if she's willing to meet you, she still has feelings for you, not a dead case. Time will tell, action speaks louder than words, best of luck :) many thanks ! i do hope so .. i will do all of my best ... at least have a try, i dont want to regret for my life !

to Ann =>我當初一分手就無返轉頭，even連佢最後錄音講出佢的心聲我都無聼，仲將錄音機dum左。 不過我覺得你應該有機會架。比多d誠意，改善自己的脾氣，寫低你對佢的承諾，如果再犯就你唔岩啦。 many thanks for your support and hint eh .. i will do that for sure

記住你做的不是為了取悅佢而做, 係真心想改, 而唔好俾佢覺得你做俾佢睇而已

=> 記住你做的不是為了取悅佢而做, 係真心想改, 而唔好俾佢覺得你做俾佢睇而已 that's totally true..i really want to change with heart... but the probelm is ... how not to 俾佢覺得你做俾佢睇而已. cus she thought what i am doing is only for NOW ..

要走既都係會走
 
 脾氣差真係好難頂的

=> 要走既都係會走 => 脾氣差真係好難頂的 我知道了...所以要改孌

我同你個案差唔多..女人一變..唔使唸..頭也不回..
 自已為自已打算..

頑皮的仔仔~ replied @ 2010-02-26 11:21 pm 
 <div style="WIDTH: 600px; OVERFLOW: hidden">我同你個案差唔多..女人一變..唔使唸..頭也不回.. 自已為自已打算..</div>
 咁就慘啦.......佢有冇聽你電話?? 有冇見面??

係佢打俾我..我唔聽啦..聽黎都唔改變到d乜..見??見黎做乜丫..
 咪令自已心神錯亂...不如抽離重新去過另一種自已既生活啦~

=>頑皮的仔仔~ replied @ 2010-02-26 11:32 pm =>係佢打俾我..我唔聽啦..聽黎都唔改變到d乜..見??見黎做乜丫.. =>咪令自已心神錯亂...不如抽離重新去過另一種自已既生活 如果�昋搢M絕, 而你又仲好鍾意佢既話.....真係會令自已心神錯亂

所以我電話都轉左..無謂再拖泥帶水..男人..做大事..要果斷~

=> 所以我電話都轉左..無謂再拖泥帶水..男人..做大事..要果斷~ that's right !!!!! wowowo u are the man !

佢要狠...我重狠過佢重得..女人成街都係..
 只要自已係對女人好..到時咪放長雙眼睇下邊個幸福D...