Can someone talk to me? Male. No sex, pure conversation to share my day

有野咪講囉~

sleepless and will like to share my thoughts to someone i dun know
 i should be a happy man with what i have now but im really not
 seems like i cant talk to my close ones, words stay in my heart

有咩野令你唔想同佢講？

im married with a beautiful daughter
 but recently i face 3 changes
 1. Starting my own business and under stress to bring in business
 2. Current job as employee is not enjoyable, seems like waiting for the day to pass everyday
 3. I fell in love with someone

well once u start the business, u know, never easy to be a BOSS, esp ur own boss
 
 2) not many job is pay to ENJOY, u know, as my colleague said, when client scold me, remember i got my paycheck every month :P
 
 3) i think this is what u really want to talk about. and dun worry, it seems very common in She.com

im not only wanted to talk about falling in love with someone
 im stressed but no way to de-stress
 sex is not everything, the mental stress is the pain
 
 im listening to music on youtube, my fav way to de-stres
 
 Listen to these

Talk8888 <img src="http://community.she.com/messageboard/images/icon_nickname.gif" align="absBottom" alt="" /> replied @ 2010-02-26 12:29 am 
 <div style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WIDTH: 600px">im married with a beautiful daughter but recently i face 3 changes 1. Starting my own business and under stress to bring in business 2. Current job as employee is not enjoyable, seems like waiting for the day to pass everyday 3. I fell in love with someone</div>
 Can I help?

im not looking for solution or help
 i will want to talk to someone to share my load
 
 my job requires me to cover almost all aspects of the company but im not a boss
 
 also, the mental grill of breaking promise is killing me

listening is a way to help, do u understand?

man: great, thanks
 
 im in a very confused position now
 im employed but i started a new business with my employers now
 there is another new venture that im working on in Shanghai but i need to leave my job to work in SH and this venture is without my current boss
 
 do u understand?

yes

im undergoing the ordeal of facing my boss/business partnet yet not able to tell him im leaving soon
 
 i played soccer last night, work out so hard to put away my problems
 legs felt like jelly today

can u leave ur job for u new business? can u financially support ur family and the new business at this stage?
 
 playing soccer is good way, i also work so hard in my class tonight.
 Love to sweat.

it's just a way to 'escape', but, no way

maybe take away the stress and too much thinking from his brain for a while.....and sometimes after u sweat....u might have some new thought.

i will play golf at range in cheung sha wan at lunch time tomorrow
 
 finance is another problem, most of my money in the new business
 
 cant sleep now, pls listen to this if u can. its nice

wanna meet then, in CSW, as I am nearby how about a drink, fi not lunch together?

not really - i will be with my friend at csw
 
 not looking to meet anyone, no offence, just wanted to talk

You need something positive :)

it's OK here or over phone?

kate: ms leung is my fav singer, she is from malaysia
 this is another video that i like

man: here will do, thanks for listening

my pleasure

I need to sing K.

i like music
 there is a event that my new company is arranging, i will invite a live band to play that night - nice way to enjoy great music
 do u both like music? or live band?

Kate replied @ 2010-02-26 1:06 am 
 <div style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WIDTH: 600px">I need to sing K. </div>
 NOW?

the problem w me is that i like to listen to songs but i cant sing

man,
 not now la, but need to plan one.
 
 Talk
 this is not a problem at all :)
 u can always listen to some other ppl sing :)
 
 nite

yah - i always listen only never sing

hi all,
 Sorry for that im badly in English and thats why i would to choose typing in Chinese words as follow, really hopu u guys dont mind!
 
 Talk
 個人很衰的意見, 你可先把生意當作最壞打算,然後,去衡量和評估在最差的情況下,你可以做什?? 你損失有幾多? 重頭開始的話;你能承受幾? 答完後,你又想想還有什?可怕,如你能承受。
 
 請不要太擔心,最可怕的事,莫過於看不清楚的事情及將會發生的事情。但凡事總有第一次,將害怕的心情轉化動力,把事情做到最好。
 
 加油!

SW:
 thanks for the advice
 the most 可怕的 = failure
 i can understand chinese as i learnt chinese in school (not china)

less and less people connected on my fb now
 all going to sleep while im fully awake
 
 music keeps me awake - listening to private corner now

Talk
 Thats really good to hear that u understood for my point of view.
 
 But really sorry for that i need to take a shower first as i just off work now.
 
 Its really glad to chat with u and just see will u still here while im done a shower. :p
 
 cheers

no problem
 what is ur job? why work till so late?
 
 I work on a 9 to 6pm job but time is very flexible as im in senior post

Sorry talk,
 im back fm done a showe, are u still here?
 
 well, im not offen to work so late as just finical year ended for the company recently, thats why we would work that late.:p and i work in account post in this normal small office.

我都係返9am-6pm，但唔可以彈性上班 真令人羨慕

hi Rosy and S. Woman... can we have a nice phone chat right now? Sleepless... moody...... hope we can have the chance...... [email protected] waiting for you lar!

hello people

hi rose and hi gals.
 
 Its real glad to chat in msn owith u guys here. But i m so Sorry for that i feeling ver tried and sleepy now.
 
 hi gals,
 I really dont mind to chatting with u in msn. But really Sorry for that i felt sleepy now, i would add u in my msn list when i work on tmr.
 
 good nite to all u guys! ^^

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Talk8888 系男人来噶...唔系咩？
 
 you said you are a "happy MAN with a beautiful daughter" ah ma... hahahahahaha
 
 anyway...where you met this new woman that you fell in love with? actually, it doesnt even really matter, i strongly suggest you just treat like a dream and stay with your family....just put yourself in your wife's shoes.. what will happen if one day, this new woman leaves you just like the way you leave your wife now?.. then you will regret ever breaking up YOUR OWN FAMILY
 
 as for business... well, economy's bad right now, you said you are not the boss but somehow you have to do everything? including the boss' work? why would you do that? you are wasting your time...
 
 if you want to talk more, feel free to leave more details.. but right now the way i see it, you are creating yourself some very unnecessary stress