唔願生仔的女人係唔係一世都唔駛嫁?



  • 我唔想生bb<br />每個人都有自己的思想同睇法<br />無對與錯<br /><br />但我男朋友就非要不可<br />佢認為我係一個唔正常的女人<br />所有的都係歪理<br /><br />對於佢來講,生bb係我地一齊的首要考慮因素<br />如果我唔願意生, 我地就只有分開<br /><br />佢咁講,我真係好hurt,<br />雖然我知道佢想要bb好正常<br />佢成日話好錫我<br />但就係咁hurt 我<br /><br />佢令我覺得我只係一個要為佢生仔的女人<br />真係好down<br /><br /><br />



  • 咁你bf係傳統男人..你要諗諗



  • 我覺得唔駛諗
    <br>我覺得我地要分手
    <br>



  • 你比我好了...
    <br>我男友成日都話想生BB (我一聽到BB哭聲就會好抆想打扁佢地果隻)
    <br>但一講到結婚佢又好唔想講即轉話題..
    <br>咁樣仲可笑囉,想生仔但唔想結婚..哈!



  • lady,
    <br>then what do you want from your bf?



  • 唔結婚點生bb
    <br>佢都好無責任感



  • 咁你男友有冇經濟能力? 我婚後都冇生bb, 但係有時我會諗婚後唔生bb係咪正確囉



  • 我老公唔想要, 我原本都唔想要, 但見到朋友啲小朋友, 又有啲心郁郁, 但老公仍堅持唔要呢!



  • 呢樣野有分岐,分手係遲早既事



  • 大家對婚姻期望唔一樣<br />咁好難行到最後架 bor ~~



  • 一係你遷就佢
    <br>一係佢遷就你
    <br>
    <br>得唔到共識的話就分開



  • lady,
    <br>
    <br>The solution is simple. You marry your bf but let him have babies with other women.
    <br>
    <br>Problem solved.
    <br>
    <br>QED



  • 分手啦!
    <br>
    <br>係唯一既選擇



  • <font color="#666666">lady replied @ 2010-01-26 2:26 pm<br /><br /></font>
    <br><div style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WIDTH: 600px">我覺得唔駛諗 <br />我覺得我地要分手 <br /></div>
    <br><br /><strong>Go ahead, leave him</strong>



  • 婚後唔生bb係咪正確囉<br /><br /><strong>Personal preferences, no problem without babies in a marriage</strong>



  • <p>有冇仔女都有機會離婚/分手!<br /></p>



  • Married Man replied @ 2010-01-26 5:42 pm
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    <br>
    <br>婚後唔生bb係咪正確囉
    <br>
    <br>Personal preferences, no problem without babies in a marriage
    <br>________________________________________________________________
    <br>男人要女人生bb
    <br>都要令個女人覺得值得咁做
    <br>女人先願意犠牲
    <br>
    <br>佢將我地的感情建基於生bb之上
    <br>令我覺得自己係一件生仔機器
    <br>這樣真係好hurt



  • 生仔只係例子之一, 重點係, 既然大家對前景唔一致, 遲早都要分開, 除非有其中一方肯妥協啦...
    <br>btw, 我都想娶個唔想生bb既女人...



  • R replied @ 2010-01-26 6:52 pm
    <br>
    <br>
    <br>生仔只係例子之一, 重點係, 既然大家對前景唔一致, 遲早都要分開, 除非有其中一方肯妥協啦...
    <br>btw, 我都想娶個唔想生bb既女人...
    <br>__________________________________________________
    <br>點解?
    <br>大部份男人都想要bb





  • 點解?
    <br>大部份男人都想要bb
    <br>-------------------------
    <br>我唔想要



  • 我一直都無諗過自己會生bb..以前係死都唔肯生...結咗婚都唔諗住生架, 老公都知架, 佢仲有諗過領養添, 因為預咗我一定唔肯生...我係抗拒得好勁果隻...
    <br>
    <br>而家, 最後咪又生咗個bb...
    <br>
    <br>所以可能你遲d會改變你嘅諗法~~ :)



  • bduck
    <br>
    <br>點解你最後都生?
    <br>
    <br>問題係你老公知你唔肯生都願意領養,
    <br>但佢就係死都要我生,
    <br>我同佢講我身體唔好,
    <br>腳痛,成日病
    <br>佢仲話腳痛唔可以生bb咩?
    <br>我覺得佢唔care我
    <br>
    <br>佢仲話除非我有醫生證明唔可以生,
    <br>我覺得我同佢的感情變咗一種交易
    <br>
    <br>如果佢好似你老公咁,
    <br>知我唔肯生而肯領養
    <br>我反而會考慮為佢生。



  • 我係男....我都係唔想要bb既...但我係鐘意同bb玩既....^^生bb好大責任呢..供書教學喇..教他做人處世好多好多...唔係話想要就要咁不無責任既...
    <br>結婚其實意義唔大...法律規定佐同居2年=結婚...有法律效力..即使話唔結唔簽字...但一樣分開可以拎膽養費...結果黎講..同居2年=結婚..
    <br>



  • 其實生bb好有精力先得



  • 其實好多野都係時間改變0者...你以前都有試過話打死都唔試某一樣野..但最後咪試佐....以前諗住唔犯d咁既錯..最後咪又會唔覺時犯佐...
    <br>因為未行到果一步...所以你宜家先會咁既反應..以後既野大家都唔知..你都唔知你以後既諗法會唔會改變...你用宜家既諗法去衡量未來既野...其實意義唔多大呢.



  • 我真係唔知生黎為乜...(純粹個人意見)
    <br>傳宗接代?
    <br>老來有所依?
    <br>享受唔知會唔會有既天倫樂?
    <br>等我下半生有D寄託?



  • 每個人都有唔同既想法
    <br>佢覺得係有問題,都會有人覺得佢有問題
    <br>而且我相信有男人係唔想要BB
    <br>所以你同佢唔岩就分手,搵個同你夾既人



  • lady, 我最後肯生bb, 真係好簡單, 就係因為我個姪女...我好close咁去接觸一個bb, 令到我開始接受呢樣嘢, 心郁郁想生番個...
    <br>
    <br>只不過我覺得, 可能遲d有一日你會想生, 你就會開始去調理身體之類...
    <br>
    <br>咁你bf係唔啱嘅, 佢應該體諒你...如果係我, 我都未必會為咗佢而生...
    <br>
    <br>



  • 好聽就叫傳宗接代...生物學叫繁殖交配.
    <br>老來有所依更加有問題..香港宜家既社會福利黎講...有無都唔多重要.你諗住你拎住教你未來仔女既錢黎退休..你覺得够唔够用呢..而且你保證你個仔一定係乖仔一定俾你依呀?
    <br>天倫樂呢d野就難講...可能真係會有人純粹為呢d野生既..即係有人覺得照顧小朋友好幸福一樣..呢d野無得好講...
    <br>下半生寄託?不如買層1億既豪宅黎慢慢供..保證寄託實足



  • 不過生bb真係唔係講笑...我個心好想生多個, 不過真係無咁嘅勇氣...



  • @bduck
    <br>咁又係既...呢d野咁直接講好hurt人呢..而且覺得有少少侮辱性呢..講到女人如果唔生就=無用....
    <br>有少少過份呢.
    <br>真係應該要好好開導下他



  • 照顧小朋友好曬精神呢...錢都唔係一個問題呢.
    <br>我見到我哥個仔...日日都係到不停地叫...可以不停叫幾粒鐘..又唔打得wo...又整唔停wo...真係有少少精神虐待既feel.
    <br>雖然係咁...bb真係有他可愛既地方...得意有趣既地方...個人覺得只限6歲以下.
    <br>



  • bduck
    <br>
    <br>咁生的過程係咪好辛苦
    <br>係咪生完真係好醜樣,又老?
    <br>
    <br>唉...真係好驚



  • key1842 replied @ 2010-01-26 7:42 pm
    <br>
    <br>
    <br>照顧小朋友好曬精神呢...錢都唔係一個問題呢.
    <br>我見到我哥個仔...日日都係到不停地叫...可以不停叫幾粒鐘..又唔打得wo...又整唔停wo...真係有少少精神虐待既feel.
    <br>雖然係咁...bb真係有他可愛既地方...得意有趣既地方...個人覺得只限6歲以下.
    <br>______________________________
    <br>其實我都覺得我唔適合做媽媽
    <br>我唔想連累下一代



  • 又唔係個個男人都想有 bb, 好似我咁就唔多想要, 反而想養隻貓陪下自己, 妳覺得妳男友自私又唔適合妳, 就早d搵個另外一個, 唔好浪費自己時間.



  • key, 我覺得小朋友係2歲以下先得意...哈哈...其實我鍾意bb, 唔鍾意細路...
    <br>
    <br>lady, 陀嘅時候, 開頭+最後2-3個月最辛苦, 中間就舒服嘅...
    <br>我係開刀生架...開刀完果日及第二日都辛苦架...又痛呢...
    <br>
    <br>唔會!!! 醜唔醜樣/老唔老, 係睇自己keep唔keep咋喎有d人要變c9都無辦法



  • "其實我都覺得我唔適合做媽媽
    <br>我唔想連累下一代"
    <br>
    <br>lady, 我當初都有諗過呢樣嘢....不過, 好多嘢其實係, 未必係你想像咁嘅...



  • bduck replied @ 2010-01-26 7:48 pm
    <br>
    <br>
    <br>key, 我覺得小朋友係2歲以下先得意...哈哈...其實我鍾意bb, 唔鍾意細路...
    <br>
    <br>lady, 陀嘅時候, 開頭+最後2-3個月最辛苦, 中間就舒服嘅...
    <br>我係開刀生架...開刀完果日及第二日都辛苦架...又痛呢...
    <br>
    <br>唔會!!! 醜唔醜樣/老唔老, 係睇自己keep唔keep咋喎有d人要變c9都無辦法
    <br>_____________________________________________________________________
    <br>咁你開刀完痛咗兩日?
    <br>我家姐都係係開刀,
    <br>佢痛到死
    <br>
    <br>咁你點樣keep?
    <br>但生完bb,要湊佢都好忙
    <br>仲點有時間keep?
    <br>



  • There is still no licence required for having babies, nor any qualifying examinations for such



  • 我都有痛到死架, 不過剩係第二日落床果下囉...之後都ok...
    <br>
    <br>我啱啱生架咋..而家仲坐緊月...我未keep呀, 因為都未做得運動住....
    <br>
    <br>我俾工人湊架...



  • HYS replied @ 2010-01-26 7:35 pm
    <br>
    <br>
    <br>每個人都有唔同既想法
    <br>佢覺得係有問題,都會有人覺得佢有問題
    <br>而且我相信有男人係唔想要BB
    <br>所以你同佢唔岩就分手,搵個同你夾既人
    <br>______________________________________________
    <br>但係我識親的男人都好想要
    <br>好似好難揾



  • 妳幾多歲 ?
    <br>後生女既話就拍多幾次拖慢慢選擇一個適合自己啦!



  • bduck replied @ 2010-01-26 7:55 pm
    <br>
    <br>
    <br>我都有痛到死架, 不過剩係第二日落床果下囉...之後都ok...
    <br>
    <br>我啱啱生架咋..而家仲坐緊月...我未keep呀, 因為都未做得運動住....
    <br>
    <br>我俾工人湊架...
    <br>_____________________________
    <br>咁你駛唔駛返工?
    <br>夜晚bb係咪成日喊?
    <br>你瞓唔瞓到覺
    <br>
    <br>你老公見你咁辛苦
    <br>對你點架
    <br>



  • 唔係後生女都唔好亂嫁喎唔好令自己後悔~如果同身邊果個人一齊得唔開心, 我寧願自己一個...



  • Perry replied @ 2010-01-26 7:58 pm
    <br>
    <br>
    <br>妳幾多歲 ?
    <br>後生女既話就拍多幾次拖慢慢選擇一個適合自己啦!
    <br>___________________________
    <br>我唔細架啦
    <br>所以我先咁煩



  • 我唔細架啦
    <br>所以我先咁煩
    <br>-----------------
    <br>唔使煩大不了自己一個人



  • 勉強冇幸福,咪揾個同你too唔想生bb ge man lor
    <br>



  • 我要返工架...
    <br>係呀, 講得無錯, bb真係夜晚成日喊架...真係人都din...
    <br>我都ok, 因為係工人湊...不過我地星期六晚會拿番黎自己湊, 星期日就例牌攰到嘔...
    <br>
    <br>佢不嬲都對我ok架喎見我肯幫佢生bb, 當然對我都ok啦...不過有時我d情緒唔穩定, 佢都忟忟地架...哈哈



  • 做人總之要令自己開心, 唔好諗咁多 ^^


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