I miss u
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Missing the feeling of love.
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Missing her.
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other people's wife
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Boring friday night.
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dark side
can tell us your story?
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A long story but probably not special. An almost one year relationship with her. So deeply. deeply hurt each other because I was selfish.
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Over one year, still missing her. still...
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wow
she's beautiful?
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Yes. to me.
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how old?
both of u
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dark side
when you 2 started the relationship, did you expect forever relationship with her?
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DongL
i think they are sp, then sl
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shirly - she was 28 and I was 36.
Dongl - No. we don't expect long relationship. but the longer we were together, the more difficult we end this relationship.
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I'm new to she.com. what is SP and SL? sorry for asking stupid question.
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then your relationship only last for 1 year, it's still not difficult to end, so u two really stop all contact with each other?
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sp is sex partner
sl is secret lover
all netfriend relationship starts with sp , i think
so u and her are not started from net friends?
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dark side, how did u start the relationship? is it the same as shirly mention? from sp to sl?
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3 more days to one year. very difficult to end. hard to describe. We stopped all contact. We separated many times in between and start over and over again. repeatedly.
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she's a housewife?
her husband too busy at work?
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shirly replied @ 2009-12-18 11:31 pm
sp is sex partner
sl is secret lover
all netfriend relationship starts with sp , i think
i think not all relationship start from sp, some were started from chatmates...do you have chatmates?
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we were friends, chats, msn, dinners and somehow fall in love naturally and started the relationship. from friend to secret lover, i think.
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shirly - she works too. her husband was a frequent traveller (for business).
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u love her after she married?
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DongL
i have chatmates b4, but not now
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shirly - we both have another half when we first met and not intentionally enter into that kind of relationship
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i see that's why she's lonely
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where did u found her?
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u married too?
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she was not that lonely. a sociable lady.
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i mean lonely in her heart , for love
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shirly - yes, I'm married.
DongL - introduced by friend in a gathering
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then why separated? she suggested?
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shirly - at the beginning, she was more expecting short term sp relationship.
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then why end the relation?
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dark side
your wife is sleeping now?
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shirly - I insisted to separate at the end. that relationship really affecting our normal life for quite a while.
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shirly - bingo.
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oh, it's u end the relationship, good choice
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end of the dream. It was a dream, a sweet dream. I don't know if this was a good choice. she offered to be with me i.e. to separate with her husband but I really don't want to hurt everyone, especially the innocent.
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wow
she doesn't love her husband?
but u are married too, she can't with u
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shirly - she shifted her love to me.
yes, i chose not to take that offer because I don't want to hurt my wife and her husband.
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your story sounds special but it really happened to me too, haha
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that's why you are interested to listern to me. I guess this story is only special to me (and her). Can you share with me your story?
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Time to sleep. Thank you for listerning. Have a good night. Have a good weekend.
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yes, so i kept asking u
maybe i understand why she wants to be with u, but the problem is you are married, so that's impossible for u to divorce and with her, she's dreaming.
for me, i also married when i know my present boyfriend, we were netfriends, we started one night stand, just for fun, but then he said he love me, and i also started to love him, then after knowing him for 2 ro 3 weeks, my husband saw i with him, then he very angry, and i suddenly decided to divorce with him because i didn't want to separate with my boyfriend, then i went to my mum's home and divorce and then live with my bf until now, nearly 5 years
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bye
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Just read your note before I decide to switch my pc off.
So, you don't love your ex-husband?
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don't love him, although he love me crazyly , i even hate him
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Shirly - love is matching. good that you find him that you both love each other.
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why you hate your ex-busband?