「事業」對於女人來說意味著什麼呢?



  • 靠父母,你最多是個公主;
    靠老公,你最多是王妃;
    靠自己,你就是女王!



  • 越來越多的女性選擇單身,


    越來越多的男性不得不單身,


    這就是太現實了。





    身邊的女人越來越厲害了,


    遇到困難還得自己扛,家裡家外一把好手,


    即便遇上生理期或者生病時,一切依舊,


    一個個都從軟女子通關成了女漢子。





    突然覺得男人就是個多餘品,


    不是不想依賴他,而是沒的選擇,


    習慣了沒有他的生活節奏。







  • 人生不易,快樂生活,且過且珍惜!


    不敢撒嬌,因為沒有人慣著,


    不敢哭泣,因為沒有人哄著,


    不敢偷懶,因為沒有人給錢花,


    堅強,獨立,拼搏是唯一的選擇,





    沒有誰天生想當女漢子,只因生活太多無奈!













  • 喜歡的東西,自己買,


    想去的地方,自己去。





    也許是這個社會給女人的安全感越來越少了,


    以前覺得安全感是一個承諾,


    是過馬路時緊握的手,而如今,


    能給我們安全感的卻唯有明媚的陽光,


    和繁華路口人行道的綠燈,


    出門時口袋裡的錢包和鑰匙,


    手機裡顯示的滿格電……




  • 每個女人都希望找個很爺們的男人,


    最後卻發現自己已變成了爺們!





    無奈,無奈,很無奈!



  • but sometimes u need a dick to fxxk and make u comfy :P



  • 陰陽調和係正常需要,只是現今的男人令我失去擁有一個長期伴侶的衝動。



  • other than something materialistic, it is good to have a companion although the companion probably has different prospect/mindset as yours. we are in a world aren't we.



  • Of course is better to have your own career as a backup, you can never totally rely on anyone, even the closest person can let you down one day.



  • 小米 replied at 2015-07-16 9:22 am


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    other than something materialistic, it is good to have a companion although the companion probably has different prospect/mindset as yours. we are in a world aren't we.


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    I come to realise that while it's difficult, if not impossible, to find someone who is compatible on all fronts, it is still fine to find someone who could be with me in certain aspects of life. Yet I just lose the motivation to find someone longterm.




  • Lady replied at 2015-07-16 9:24 am


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    Of course is better to have your own career as a backup, you can never totally rely on anyone, even the closest person can let you down one day.


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    Very true, after all happiness comes from within. In the ancient times, money was the only source of security for women. Nowadays, women who can make decent living have more choices on how to live their wives. Sadly there aren't many quality men out there for them to pick.



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 9:28 am


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    I come to realise that while it's difficult, if not impossible, to find someone who is compatible on all fronts, it is still fine to find someone who could be with me in certain aspects of life. Yet I just lose the motivation to find someone longterm.


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    alternatively you may find more than one as companion. eg a movie partner may not be a drink partner etc. singles are always more flexible than the engaged.





    it is not necessary to find someone long term if you don't want to. just enjoy the time of being single, and be prepared for it.



  • 小米 replied at 2015-07-16 9:33 am


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    alternatively you may find more than one as companion. eg a movie partner may not be a drink partner etc. singles are always more flexible than the engaged.





    it is not necessary to find someone long term if you don't want to. just enjoy the time of being single, and be prepared for it.


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    The same goes with friends, there are some with whom you could have meaningful conversation, and others good for drinking and dining buddies. Not that I don't want to find someone, maybe I have been in the singleville for so long that I have grown to enjoy it, or maybe luck hasn't struck on my door to meet that person who makes me want to be attached.







  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 9:41 am


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    The same goes with friends, there are some with whom you could have meaningful conversation, and others good for drinking and dining buddies. Not that I don't want to find someone, maybe I have been in the singleville for so long that I have grown to enjoy it, or maybe luck hasn't struck on my door to meet that person who makes me want to be attached.





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    when someone locks on your door, it may not be luck. it can be a start of a nightmare. just kidding!



  • it's yr own personal choice, no need to convince others to agree!



  • 小米 replied at 2015-07-16 9:44 am


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    when someone locks on your door, it may not be luck. it can be a start of a nightmare. just kidding!


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    That too, so always choose with our heads, not hearts.



  • hugo replied at 2015-07-16 9:46 am


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    it's yr own personal choice, no need to convince others to agree!


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    Interesting, wonder how you get the idea I am imposing my ideas on the others? It's simply a discussion of the topic, chill.



  • i said convince others to "agree", not to "follow", cant u tell the diff between them?



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:01 am


    -------------------------------------------------------------That too, so always choose with our heads, not hearts.


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    sometimes we have to pick via our feelings. facts are always cruel. no matter you picked one or not, still have to deal with the future of being single/engaged. it is a long road to go.



  • hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:09 am


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    i said convince others to "agree", not to "follow", cant u tell the diff between them?


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    Well maybe I simply don't get what exactly your point is? Welcome to my thread if you have anything relevant to say.



  • 小米 replied at 2015-07-16 10:10 am


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    女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:01 am


    -------------------------------------------------------------That too, so always choose with our heads, not hearts.


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    sometimes we have to pick via our feelings. facts are always cruel. no matter you picked one or not, still have to deal with the future of being single/engaged. it is a long road to go.


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    That's how life evolves and things work I guess. Sometimes I wonder if I am a robot because I don't have alot of feelings. Maybe we should just enjoy the ride for as long as it lasts?



  • sadly u dont understand simple english.





    i just mean u can hv the freedom to choose being single, but no need to emphasise it repeatly as if u wanna others to agree(認同). of course u dont hv the power to follow(跟隨) yr way.



  • typo--> u dont hv the power asking others to follow yr way.



  • 正!有事業嘅女專業人士,著住行政裝嗰D。。。。



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:15 am


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    That's how life evolves and things work I guess. Sometimes I wonder if I am a robot because I don't have alot of feelings. Maybe we should just enjoy the ride for as long as it lasts?


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    it is always good if we can still "enjoy" our lives, only that sometimes it is out of our control. anyway, both single/engaged has to deal with it. it's not related to the subject you posted.



  • I am afraid it has nothing to do with my proficiency in English. If you happent to be someone who don't agree with my viewpoints, you can simply choose not to respond than saying something which is irrelevant to my topic.



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:13 am


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    hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:09 am


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    i said convince others to "agree", not to "follow", cant u tell the diff between them?


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    Well maybe I simply don't get what exactly your point is? Welcome to my thread if you have anything relevant to say.


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    Just ignore, there're always some unsympathetic guys in here who never understand anything unless is superficial, they just go round making random comments without thinking.





    Don't despair, your time will come.



  • 好漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:20 am


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    正!有事業嘅女專業人士,著住行政裝嗰D。。。。


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    其實我對著西裝著得靚嘅男人都特別有感,尤其是充滿自信但係不太自覺果啲。



  • as i said, it's all yr personal choice, so there's nothing as to agree/disagree with yr viewpoints! u r absolutely free to choose yr way of life, stay single or get attached.





    in psychological pt of view, u just wanna be agreed by others so u put up the thread & try to convince others u r doing the right thing.



  • hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:17 am


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    sadly u dont understand simple english.





    i just mean u can hv the freedom to choose being single, but no need to emphasise it repeatly as if u wanna others to agree(認同). of course u dont hv the power to follow(跟隨) yr way.


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    Edwin = hugo


    Not this illiterate idiot again? Your English is clearly bad and you don't even have the basic understanding of English and life, just leave the ladies alone.



  • Lady replied at 2015-07-16 10:25 am


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    Just ignore, there're always some unsympathetic guys in here who never understand anything unless is superficial, they just go round making random comments without thinking.





    Don't despair, your time will come.


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    So true. Seems to me many guys here can't carry a decent conversation, maybe they are only good at leaving their contact details for instant gratification. It might be just another reason why there are more and more singles in the world.





    Believe me, I am living myself to the fullest, still there are still questions about life which I'd like to get the inputs from other people.



  • 好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:32 am


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    hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:17 am


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    sadly u dont understand simple english.





    i just mean u can hv the freedom to choose being single, but no need to emphasise it repeatly as if u wanna others to agree(認同). of course u dont hv the power to follow(跟隨) yr way.


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    Edwin = hugo


    Not this illiterate idiot again? Your English is clearly bad and you don't even have the basic understanding of English and life, just leave the ladies alone.


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    she gal


    how good u are if u just can put up personal attacks?!



  • Sorry 10:33am message was from me



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:27 am


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    好漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:20 am


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    正!有事業嘅女專業人士,著住行政裝嗰D。。。。


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    其實我對著西裝著得靚嘅男人都特別有感,尤其是充滿自信但係不太自覺果啲。


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    公主,要保護㗎,成日湊人女都厭,王妃,要呵護,會好煩,女王,有挑戰感,想同佢戰鬥,把她征服。咁妳平時喺咪鐘意著行政服㗎?



  • or probably she gal = 女漢子, LOL~~



  • Hugo, may I ask you to kindly excuse yourself from my thread if you have nothing irrelevant to say? I didn't open this thread for people who need chill pills. Thanks.



  • 好漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:33 am


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    Lady replied at 2015-07-16 10:25 am


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    Just ignore, there're always some unsympathetic guys in here who never understand anything unless is superficial, they just go round making random comments without thinking.





    Don't despair, your time will come.


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    So true. Seems to me many guys here can't carry a decent conversation, maybe they are only good at leaving their contact details for instant gratification. It might be just another reason why there are more and more singles in the world.





    Believe me, I am living myself to the fullest, still there are still questions about life which I'd like to get the inputs from other people.


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    You do deserve to use your alias. :)


    There should be more guys who would listen and relate with ladies and be more sympathic since the way guys and gals are treated differently in society.


    Yeah, we are learning something new everyday and from different people, sometimes there are no conclusions, is just life.







  • but unfortunately I do not wear suit, tie and cufflinks to work, just T shirt, white rice fish and good morning towel.



  • Hugo, you're truly an idiot. Lol



  • 好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:43 am


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    Hugo, you're truly an idiot. Lol


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    it's still better than a bitch who can only make personal attacks!!



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:41 am


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    Hugo, may I ask you to kindly excuse yourself from my thread if you have nothing irrelevant to say? I didn't open this thread for people who need chill pills. Thanks.


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    Sorry Hugo, I agreed I think you should leave, you were rude from your first post.



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-06-15 3:45 am


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    越來越多的女性選擇單身,


    越來越多的男性不得不單身,


    這就是太現實了。





    身邊的女人越來越厲害了,


    遇到困難還得自己扛,家裡家外一把好手,


    即便遇上生理期或者生病時,一切依舊,


    一個個都從軟女子通關成了女漢子。





    突然覺得男人就是個多餘品,


    不是不想依賴他,而是沒的選擇,


    習慣了沒有他的生活節奏。





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    It is basic : the "A" grade men get the B women, B men get C women, C men get D women.





    So where does that leave the A women and D men?



  • hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:46 am


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    好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:43 am


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    Hugo, you're truly an idiot. Lol


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    it's still better than a bitch who can only make personal attacks!!


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    I think you're the one acting like an insensitive bitch, and besides I'm a guy, you idiot.



  • 好漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:47 am


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    女漢子 replied at 2015-06-15 3:45 am


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    越來越多的女性選擇單身,


    越來越多的男性不得不單身,


    這就是太現實了。





    身邊的女人越來越厲害了,


    遇到困難還得自己扛,家裡家外一把好手,


    即便遇上生理期或者生病時,一切依舊,


    一個個都從軟女子通關成了女漢子。





    突然覺得男人就是個多餘品,


    不是不想依賴他,而是沒的選擇,


    習慣了沒有他的生活節奏。





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    It is basic : the "A" grade men get the B women, B men get C women, C men get D women.





    So where does that leave the A women and D men?


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    Good thing I'm not a top lady. hehe




  • 好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:49 am


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    hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:46 am


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    好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:43 am


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    Hugo, you're truly an idiot. Lol


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    it's still better than a bitch who can only make personal attacks!!


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    I think you're the one acting like an insensitive bitch, and besides I'm a guy, you idiot.


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    i feel more pathetic towards u if u are a guy, guys debate on facts, not making personal attacks.





    no point to discuss with irrational ppl here, good day!!



  • 好漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:38 am


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    公主,要保護㗎女王,有挑戰感,想同佢戰鬥,把她征服。咁妳平時喺咪鐘意著行政服㗎?


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    我返工需要穿猴子服。我冇好強嘅母性,更加冇耐性同佢地施磨,其實我更怕要湊仔。經驗告訴我,通常喜歡征服女王嘅男人有幾個特點:有自信,有本事,見識廣,懂處世之道,更重要係有正面嘅人生觀。



  • hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:54 am


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    好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:49 am


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    hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:46 am


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    好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:43 am


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    Hugo, you're truly an idiot. Lol


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    it's still better than a bitch who can only make personal attacks!!


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    I think you're the one acting like an insensitive bitch, and besides I'm a guy, you idiot.


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    i feel more pathetic towards u if u are a guy, guys debate on facts, not making personal attacks.





    no point to discuss with irrational ppl here, good day!!


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    Hugo, just chill.


    I think this topic is just not for you, maybe you should find something more casual to discuss.







  • 其實你叫我一世唔離開香港, 唔去第2 D 國家旅遊, 我都一樣唔會死, 亦都可能可以搵到好多樂趣, 但係咁樣我嘅世界就只限係一個好細嘅地方, 人生應該有好多樂趣, 自己玩固然有, 但係點及搵到另一半一齊玩咁豐富呢?



  • what happened? seems chitchat turns into quarrel



  • hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:54 am


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    好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:49 am


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    hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:46 am


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    好笑 replied at 2015-07-16 10:43 am


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    Hugo, you're truly an idiot. Lol


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    it's still better than a bitch who can only make personal attacks!!


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    I think you're the one acting like an insensitive bitch, and besides I'm a guy, you idiot.


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    i feel more pathetic towards u if u are a guy, guys debate on facts, not making personal attacks.





    no point to discuss with irrational ppl here, good day!!


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    Yes, you should feel pathetic because you are.


    Fact is you can't read and lacked understanding and you attacked others with your stupid comments.


    You don't see it do you ? or you just too up your ass to admit?





    Host, sorry about this, just can't help it when I saw his first comment.



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