「事業」對於女人來說意味著什麼呢?



  • 靠父母,你最多是個公主;
    靠老公,你最多是王妃;
    靠自己,你就是女王!



  • 越來越多的女性選擇單身,


    越來越多的男性不得不單身,


    這就是太現實了。





    身邊的女人越來越厲害了,


    遇到困難還得自己扛,家裡家外一把好手,


    即便遇上生理期或者生病時,一切依舊,


    一個個都從軟女子通關成了女漢子。





    突然覺得男人就是個多餘品,


    不是不想依賴他,而是沒的選擇,


    習慣了沒有他的生活節奏。







  • 人生不易,快樂生活,且過且珍惜!


    不敢撒嬌,因為沒有人慣著,


    不敢哭泣,因為沒有人哄著,


    不敢偷懶,因為沒有人給錢花,


    堅強,獨立,拼搏是唯一的選擇,





    沒有誰天生想當女漢子,只因生活太多無奈!













  • 喜歡的東西,自己買,


    想去的地方,自己去。





    也許是這個社會給女人的安全感越來越少了,


    以前覺得安全感是一個承諾,


    是過馬路時緊握的手,而如今,


    能給我們安全感的卻唯有明媚的陽光,


    和繁華路口人行道的綠燈,


    出門時口袋裡的錢包和鑰匙,


    手機裡顯示的滿格電……




  • 每個女人都希望找個很爺們的男人,


    最後卻發現自己已變成了爺們!





    無奈,無奈,很無奈!



  • but sometimes u need a dick to fxxk and make u comfy :P



  • 陰陽調和係正常需要,只是現今的男人令我失去擁有一個長期伴侶的衝動。



  • other than something materialistic, it is good to have a companion although the companion probably has different prospect/mindset as yours. we are in a world aren't we.



  • Of course is better to have your own career as a backup, you can never totally rely on anyone, even the closest person can let you down one day.



  • 小米 replied at 2015-07-16 9:22 am


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    other than something materialistic, it is good to have a companion although the companion probably has different prospect/mindset as yours. we are in a world aren't we.


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    I come to realise that while it's difficult, if not impossible, to find someone who is compatible on all fronts, it is still fine to find someone who could be with me in certain aspects of life. Yet I just lose the motivation to find someone longterm.




  • Lady replied at 2015-07-16 9:24 am


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    Of course is better to have your own career as a backup, you can never totally rely on anyone, even the closest person can let you down one day.


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    Very true, after all happiness comes from within. In the ancient times, money was the only source of security for women. Nowadays, women who can make decent living have more choices on how to live their wives. Sadly there aren't many quality men out there for them to pick.



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 9:28 am


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    I come to realise that while it's difficult, if not impossible, to find someone who is compatible on all fronts, it is still fine to find someone who could be with me in certain aspects of life. Yet I just lose the motivation to find someone longterm.


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    alternatively you may find more than one as companion. eg a movie partner may not be a drink partner etc. singles are always more flexible than the engaged.





    it is not necessary to find someone long term if you don't want to. just enjoy the time of being single, and be prepared for it.



  • 小米 replied at 2015-07-16 9:33 am


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    alternatively you may find more than one as companion. eg a movie partner may not be a drink partner etc. singles are always more flexible than the engaged.





    it is not necessary to find someone long term if you don't want to. just enjoy the time of being single, and be prepared for it.


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    The same goes with friends, there are some with whom you could have meaningful conversation, and others good for drinking and dining buddies. Not that I don't want to find someone, maybe I have been in the singleville for so long that I have grown to enjoy it, or maybe luck hasn't struck on my door to meet that person who makes me want to be attached.







  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 9:41 am


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    The same goes with friends, there are some with whom you could have meaningful conversation, and others good for drinking and dining buddies. Not that I don't want to find someone, maybe I have been in the singleville for so long that I have grown to enjoy it, or maybe luck hasn't struck on my door to meet that person who makes me want to be attached.





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    when someone locks on your door, it may not be luck. it can be a start of a nightmare. just kidding!



  • it's yr own personal choice, no need to convince others to agree!



  • 小米 replied at 2015-07-16 9:44 am


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    when someone locks on your door, it may not be luck. it can be a start of a nightmare. just kidding!


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    That too, so always choose with our heads, not hearts.



  • hugo replied at 2015-07-16 9:46 am


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    it's yr own personal choice, no need to convince others to agree!


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    Interesting, wonder how you get the idea I am imposing my ideas on the others? It's simply a discussion of the topic, chill.



  • i said convince others to "agree", not to "follow", cant u tell the diff between them?



  • 女漢子 replied at 2015-07-16 10:01 am


    -------------------------------------------------------------That too, so always choose with our heads, not hearts.


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    sometimes we have to pick via our feelings. facts are always cruel. no matter you picked one or not, still have to deal with the future of being single/engaged. it is a long road to go.



  • hugo replied at 2015-07-16 10:09 am


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    i said convince others to "agree", not to "follow", cant u tell the diff between them?


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    Well maybe I simply don't get what exactly your point is? Welcome to my thread if you have anything relevant to say.


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