5 good things of being single



  • OK, let’s face it. I am in a relationship and there’s no doubt that I love my bf. However, there are things I miss as a single girl. Here’re some of them.

     

    1.      I can have sex with anyone I want, at anytime.

    2.      I have the whole mattress and duvet to myself.

    3.      I can stay out late without being questioned.

    4.      I don’t get my heart broken.

    5.      There’s no hesitation when shagging around.



  • hey erica, can't agree more.

    especially for the 1,3 & 5

    I can't stand of a gf always keep asking



  • there are always pros/cons. no perfect world.



  • Cracking replied at 2012-10-21 12:28 am

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    hey erica, can't agree more.

    especially for the 1,3 & 5

    I can't stand of a gf always keep asking

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    Me2

    It's such a big hassle to try to come up with excuses



  • chatmate replied at 2012-10-21 12:33 am

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    there are always pros/cons. no perfect world.

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    I'm not really complaining

    Actually I get a fair share of pseudo-single life when my bf is out of town



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:33 am

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    Cracking replied at 2012-10-21 12:28 am

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    hey erica, can't agree more.

    especially for the 1,3 & 5

    I can't stand of a gf always keep asking

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    Me2

    It's such a big hassle to try to come up with excuses

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    I hate that.

    So I must pick a gf who gave me lots of room.

    討厭受審



  • u have to sacrifice all the inconvience issue since u love your bf right?



  • Isn't that meant you are not committed?



    though i think freedom of being single is so enjoyable.

    thats why i never choose to promise anything



  • agree,

    good share



  • what's the major diff between 1 & 5?



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:36 am

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    I'm not really complaining

    Actually I get a fair share of pseudo-single life when my bf is out of town

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    right. we always behave well while the other half is in town, and naughty otherwise.



  • hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.



  • um... what's the different between 1 and 5...??? It sounds that 3 will be the result from 1 and 5, of course some gatherings as well.



    For 2, yes... but...um... you don't enjoy your man hugs you from your back...???



    4 is arguable... as long as you are serious... no matter engaged/attached or whatever terms... you still heart broken if someone hurts you.



  • your frequency to show up on this forum proving your bf has given you a lot private room.



  • i agree with you totally with point 1. by the way, how long have you been in this relationship?



  • Cracking replied at 2012-10-21 12:38 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:33 am

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    Cracking replied at 2012-10-21 12:28 am

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    hey erica, can't agree more.

    especially for the 1,3 & 5

    I can't stand of a gf always keep asking

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    Me2

    It's such a big hassle to try to come up with excuses

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    I hate that.

    So I must pick a gf who gave me lots of room.

    討厭受審

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    I would say most of the time mr bf doesn't question me when I don't spend the evening with him but sometimes he's more "curious" so it's a bit challenging to get out of the house.

    So how's your current gf (if any)?



  • mystanley replied at 2012-10-21 12:43 am

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    u have to sacrifice all the inconvience issue since u love your bf right?

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    Now this is the question.

    I tried to be an obedient gf and stay at home every evening and stick with him every weekend. However, I felt that I was losing myself bit by bit and one day, I would not be me anymore.



  • Tim replied at 2012-10-21 12:48 am

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    Isn't that meant you are not committed?



    though i think freedom of being single is so enjoyable.

    thats why i never choose to promise anything

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    I didn't choose not to be single.

    It just happened that I like getting together with my bf so much.

    We weren't really bf and gf at the beginning, at some point we started meeting friends and families of each other...

    We don't give promises to each other but my bf has proposed to me lately.



  • bman replied at 2012-10-21 12:58 am

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    agree,

    good share

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    Thanks



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:37 am

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    mystanley replied at 2012-10-21 12:43 am

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    u have to sacrifice all the inconvience issue since u love your bf right?

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    Now this is the question.

    I tried to be an obedient gf and stay at home every evening and stick with him every weekend. However, I felt that I was losing myself bit by bit and one day, I would not be me anymore.

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    Life is about trade-off.



  • edmond replied at 2012-10-21 1:05 am

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    what's the major diff between 1 & 5?

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    1 is physical, it is about the ability to do it and 5 is psychological, how I feel towards it



  • chatmate replied at 2012-10-21 1:07 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:36 am

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    I'm not really complaining

    Actually I get a fair share of pseudo-single life when my bf is out of town

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    right. we always behave well while the other half is in town, and naughty otherwise.

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    Sometimes I'm naughty when he's around

    Never stop flirting with people (with my phone) even when he's asleep in the same bed



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:44 am

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    Tim replied at 2012-10-21 12:48 am

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    Isn't that meant you are not committed?



    though i think freedom of being single is so enjoyable.

    thats why i never choose to promise anything

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    I didn't choose not to be single.

    It just happened that I like getting together with my bf so much.

    We weren't really bf and gf at the beginning, at some point we started meeting friends and families of each other...

    We don't give promises to each other but my bf has proposed to me lately.

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    what a great tittle.



    1.  I can have sex with anyone I want, at anytime.
      


    even you are married, you still can have sex with anyone you want, HK law do not have 通姦罪



    2. I have the whole mattress and duvet to myself.

    you and your bf can sleep in separate room



    3. I can stay out late without being questioned.

    you are adult, even your mom do not have right to question you being stay out late



    4. I don’t get my heart broken.

    but you feel lonely on holidays.



    5. There’s no hesitation when shagging around.

    I don't think you will have make up 24hrs when you have bf







  • eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

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    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:51 am

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    eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

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    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?

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    not a good idea giving unpleasant answer when being fiancé



  • 生肖屬豬 replied at 2012-10-21 7:03 am

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    um... what's the different between 1 and 5...??? It sounds that 3 will be the result from 1 and 5, of course some gatherings as well.



    For 2, yes... but...um... you don't enjoy your man hugs you from your back...???



    4 is arguable... as long as you are serious... no matter engaged/attached or whatever terms... you still heart broken if someone hurts you.

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    I would say the 5 items are all separate scenarios.

    For 2, he hugs me from behind sometimes but ultimately it would result in me almost being push off the bed and him taking the whole duvet with him. Imagine this happening at a cold, cold night >_<

    For 4, I guess when you're single, you have fewer expectations. My bf was not with me for my first 2 birthdays, our first Christmas and Chinese New year. He was out of town and they were not work trips. I was quite upset.



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:51 am

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    eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

    ===============================================================

    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?

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    should be ignored.



  • pp replied at 2012-10-21 7:43 am

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    your frequency to show up on this forum proving your bf has given you a lot private room.

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    Thanks to modern technology, I could get on to this site with my phone LOL



  • pp replied at 2012-10-21 8:23 am

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    i agree with you totally with point 1. by the way, how long have you been in this relationship?

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    3+ years



  • d replied at 2012-10-21 8:45 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:37 am

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    mystanley replied at 2012-10-21 12:43 am

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    u have to sacrifice all the inconvience issue since u love your bf right?

    ===============================================================

    Now this is the question.

    I tried to be an obedient gf and stay at home every evening and stick with him every weekend. However, I felt that I was losing myself bit by bit and one day, I would not be me anymore.

    ===============================================================



    Life is about trade-off.

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    So now I try to work things out with the least damage.



  • hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 8:49 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:44 am

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    Tim replied at 2012-10-21 12:48 am

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    Isn't that meant you are not committed?



    though i think freedom of being single is so enjoyable.

    thats why i never choose to promise anything

    ===============================================================

    I didn't choose not to be single.

    It just happened that I like getting together with my bf so much.

    We weren't really bf and gf at the beginning, at some point we started meeting friends and families of each other...

    We don't give promises to each other but my bf has proposed to me lately.

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    what a great tittle.

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    Just the title? What about the content?



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:57 am

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    生肖屬豬 replied at 2012-10-21 7:03 am

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    um... what's the different between 1 and 5...??? It sounds that 3 will be the result from 1 and 5, of course some gatherings as well.



    For 2, yes... but...um... you don't enjoy your man hugs you from your back...???



    4 is arguable... as long as you are serious... no matter engaged/attached or whatever terms... you still heart broken if someone hurts you.

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    I would say the 5 items are all separate scenarios.

    For 2, he hugs me from behind sometimes but ultimately it would result in me almost being push off the bed and him taking the whole duvet with him. Imagine this happening at a cold, cold night >_<

    For 4, I guess when you're single, you have fewer expectations. My bf was not with me for my first 2 birthdays, our first Christmas and Chinese New year. He was out of town and they were not work trips. I was quite upset.

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    let me do the item 2 then... I am good at that ^^



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:48 am

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    chatmate replied at 2012-10-21 1:07 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:36 am

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    I'm not really complaining

    Actually I get a fair share of pseudo-single life when my bf is out of town

    ===============================================================

    right. we always behave well while the other half is in town, and naughty otherwise.

    ===============================================================

    Sometimes I'm naughty when he's around

    Never stop flirting with people (with my phone) even when he's asleep in the same bed

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    Hi Erica,

    U got even more turned on when he's the same bed??



  • thehelp replied at 2012-10-21 8:49 am

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    1. I can have sex with anyone I want, at anytime.

    even you are married, you still can have sex with anyone you want, HK law do not have 通姦罪



    >>> It's not about legsl matters. I feel that even if I'm serial dating when I'm single, it's ok. I am not afraid that someone on the street might catch me dating ither guys. However, I can't when I'm attached because people might spread rumours.



    2. I have the whole mattress and duvet to myself.

    you and your bf can sleep in separate room



    >>> I proposed and he refused.



    3. I can stay out late without being questioned.

    you are adult, even your mom do not have right to question you being stay out late



    I could. He just asks a lot of questions and if I tell him that I was with someone he doesn't know, he asks me to bring him with me next time.



    4. I don’t get my heart broken.

    but you feel lonely on holidays.



    >>> But I could have made plans with my friends. I have been expecting him to let me know his schedule, sometimes he just doesn't show up during holidays and I was left alone.



    5. There’s no hesitation when shagging around.

    I don't think you will have make up 24hrs when you have bf



    >>> I don't quite understand what you were saying.

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  • hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 8:55 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:51 am

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    eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

    ===============================================================

    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?

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    not a good idea giving unpleasant answer when being fiancé

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    It's absolutely a health issue. I couldn't sleep when I was in his bed.



  • pp replied at 2012-10-21 8:57 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:51 am

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    eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

    ===============================================================

    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?

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    should be ignored.

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    You mean I should be ignored? But it's a health issue!



  • 生肖屬豬 replied at 2012-10-21 9:10 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:57 am

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    生肖屬豬 replied at 2012-10-21 7:03 am

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    um... what's the different between 1 and 5...??? It sounds that 3 will be the result from 1 and 5, of course some gatherings as well.



    For 2, yes... but...um... you don't enjoy your man hugs you from your back...???



    4 is arguable... as long as you are serious... no matter engaged/attached or whatever terms... you still heart broken if someone hurts you.

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    I would say the 5 items are all separate scenarios.

    For 2, he hugs me from behind sometimes but ultimately it would result in me almost being push off the bed and him taking the whole duvet with him. Imagine this happening at a cold, cold night >_<

    For 4, I guess when you're single, you have fewer expectations. My bf was not with me for my first 2 birthdays, our first Christmas and Chinese New year. He was out of town and they were not work trips. I was quite upset.

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    let me do the item 2 then... I am good at that ^^

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    l'll give you a chance to prove that you're really good at it LOL



  • PSP replied at 2012-10-21 9:12 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:48 am

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    chatmate replied at 2012-10-21 1:07 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:36 am

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    I'm not really complaining

    Actually I get a fair share of pseudo-single life when my bf is out of town

    ===============================================================

    right. we always behave well while the other half is in town, and naughty otherwise.

    ===============================================================

    Sometimes I'm naughty when he's around

    Never stop flirting with people (with my phone) even when he's asleep in the same bed

    ===============================================================

    Hi Erica,

    U got even more turned on when he's the same bed??

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    Nah, just continue doing what I do during the day.

    I always have a high sex drive.



  • thx for replying Erica,

    Just wonder you can PS even he's around?



  • Too bad guess you're out or maybe we can PS now! heheee



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 9:14 am

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    hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 8:55 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:51 am

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    eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

    ===============================================================

    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?

    ===============================================================

    not a good idea giving unpleasant answer when being fiancé

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    It's absolutely a health issue. I couldn't sleep when I was in his bed.

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    because of your high sex drive?



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 9:16 am

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    生肖屬豬 replied at 2012-10-21 9:10 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:57 am

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    生肖屬豬 replied at 2012-10-21 7:03 am

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    um... what's the different between 1 and 5...??? It sounds that 3 will be the result from 1 and 5, of course some gatherings as well.



    For 2, yes... but...um... you don't enjoy your man hugs you from your back...???



    4 is arguable... as long as you are serious... no matter engaged/attached or whatever terms... you still heart broken if someone hurts you.

    ===============================================================

    I would say the 5 items are all separate scenarios.

    For 2, he hugs me from behind sometimes but ultimately it would result in me almost being push off the bed and him taking the whole duvet with him. Imagine this happening at a cold, cold night >_<

    For 4, I guess when you're single, you have fewer expectations. My bf was not with me for my first 2 birthdays, our first Christmas and Chinese New year. He was out of town and they were not work trips. I was quite upset.

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    let me do the item 2 then... I am good at that ^^

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    l'll give you a chance to prove that you're really good at it LOL

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    wow... looking forward to... wakakakaka



  • PSP replied at 2012-10-21 9:21 am

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    thx for replying Erica,

    Just wonder you can PS even he's around?

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    I'm not a big fan of ps

    I prefer real actions LOL



  • hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 9:27 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 9:14 am

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    hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 8:55 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:51 am

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    eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

    ===============================================================

    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?

    ===============================================================

    not a good idea giving unpleasant answer when being fiancé

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    It's absolutely a health issue. I couldn't sleep when I was in his bed.

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    because of your high sex drive?

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    Because he pushes me off the bed and takes the whole duvet with him.



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 9:38 am

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    hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 9:27 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 9:14 am

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    hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 8:55 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:51 am

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    eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

    ===============================================================

    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?

    ===============================================================

    not a good idea giving unpleasant answer when being fiancé

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    It's absolutely a health issue. I couldn't sleep when I was in his bed.

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    because of your high sex drive?

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    Because he pushes me off the bed and takes the whole duvet with him.

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    every man do the same. they feel cold when not exercising their body.



  • hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 9:48 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 9:38 am

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    hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 9:27 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 9:14 am

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    hcyow replied at 2012-10-21 8:55 am

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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:51 am

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    eric replied at 2012-10-21 1:08 am

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    hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.

    ===============================================================

    high five

    But what about the mattress and duvet problem?

    I proposed that we sleep in different beds but he rejected, saying that he has never seen couples sleeeping in separate beds.

    What do u think?

    ===============================================================

    not a good idea giving unpleasant answer when being fiancé

    ===============================================================

    It's absolutely a health issue. I couldn't sleep when I was in his bed.

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    because of your high sex drive?

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    Because he pushes me off the bed and takes the whole duvet with him.

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    every man do the same. they feel cold when not exercising their body.

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    not really...



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 9:37 am

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    PSP replied at 2012-10-21 9:21 am

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    thx for replying Erica,

    Just wonder you can PS even he's around?

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    I'm not a big fan of ps

    I prefer real actions LOL

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    same here... wakakakakaka



  • erica,

    if you love a kid, or your man loves a kid with u, then it is the time to consider.

    my bf talked about some serious matter with me 2 nights ago, we married and our relationship is not yet to 3 months...

    i just enjoy and don't want to think much but the right man wants to give his right woman a future, the future with a photo of two, i count it is real depth in love.

    did u reject propose?



  • Dilys, I thought you are married when you met your bf here?


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