5 good things of being single



  • OK, let’s face it. I am in a relationship and there’s no doubt that I love my bf. However, there are things I miss as a single girl. Here’re some of them.

     

    1.      I can have sex with anyone I want, at anytime.

    2.      I have the whole mattress and duvet to myself.

    3.      I can stay out late without being questioned.

    4.      I don’t get my heart broken.

    5.      There’s no hesitation when shagging around.



  • hey erica, can't agree more.


    especially for the 1,3 & 5


    I can't stand of a gf always keep asking



  • there are always pros/cons. no perfect world.



  • Cracking replied at 2012-10-21 12:28 am


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    hey erica, can't agree more.


    especially for the 1,3 & 5


    I can't stand of a gf always keep asking


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    Me2


    It's such a big hassle to try to come up with excuses



  • chatmate replied at 2012-10-21 12:33 am


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    there are always pros/cons. no perfect world.


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    I'm not really complaining


    Actually I get a fair share of pseudo-single life when my bf is out of town



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:33 am


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    Cracking replied at 2012-10-21 12:28 am


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    hey erica, can't agree more.


    especially for the 1,3 & 5


    I can't stand of a gf always keep asking


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    Me2


    It's such a big hassle to try to come up with excuses


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    I hate that.


    So I must pick a gf who gave me lots of room.


    討厭受審



  • u have to sacrifice all the inconvience issue since u love your bf right?



  • Isn't that meant you are not committed?





    though i think freedom of being single is so enjoyable.


    thats why i never choose to promise anything



  • agree,


    good share



  • what's the major diff between 1 & 5?



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:36 am


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    I'm not really complaining


    Actually I get a fair share of pseudo-single life when my bf is out of town


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    right. we always behave well while the other half is in town, and naughty otherwise.



  • hey erica, I believe in open relationships too, so if you are in a relationship with me, you can do all of the above, no problem. So long as I get to do it too.



  • um... what's the different between 1 and 5...??? It sounds that 3 will be the result from 1 and 5, of course some gatherings as well.





    For 2, yes... but...um... you don't enjoy your man hugs you from your back...???





    4 is arguable... as long as you are serious... no matter engaged/attached or whatever terms... you still heart broken if someone hurts you.



  • your frequency to show up on this forum proving your bf has given you a lot private room.



  • i agree with you totally with point 1. by the way, how long have you been in this relationship?



  • Cracking replied at 2012-10-21 12:38 am


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    erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 12:33 am


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    Cracking replied at 2012-10-21 12:28 am


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    hey erica, can't agree more.


    especially for the 1,3 & 5


    I can't stand of a gf always keep asking


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    Me2


    It's such a big hassle to try to come up with excuses


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    I hate that.


    So I must pick a gf who gave me lots of room.


    討厭受審


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    I would say most of the time mr bf doesn't question me when I don't spend the evening with him but sometimes he's more "curious" so it's a bit challenging to get out of the house.


    So how's your current gf (if any)?




  • mystanley replied at 2012-10-21 12:43 am


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    u have to sacrifice all the inconvience issue since u love your bf right?


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    Now this is the question.


    I tried to be an obedient gf and stay at home every evening and stick with him every weekend. However, I felt that I was losing myself bit by bit and one day, I would not be me anymore.



  • Tim replied at 2012-10-21 12:48 am


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    Isn't that meant you are not committed?





    though i think freedom of being single is so enjoyable.


    thats why i never choose to promise anything


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    I didn't choose not to be single.


    It just happened that I like getting together with my bf so much.


    We weren't really bf and gf at the beginning, at some point we started meeting friends and families of each other...


    We don't give promises to each other but my bf has proposed to me lately.



  • bman replied at 2012-10-21 12:58 am


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    agree,


    good share


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    Thanks



  • erica56 replied at 2012-10-21 8:37 am


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    mystanley replied at 2012-10-21 12:43 am


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    u have to sacrifice all the inconvience issue since u love your bf right?


    ===============================================================


    Now this is the question.


    I tried to be an obedient gf and stay at home every evening and stick with him every weekend. However, I felt that I was losing myself bit by bit and one day, I would not be me anymore.


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    Life is about trade-off.


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