我同個有婦之夫既故事



  • 佢37歲 (叫佢做A), 我28歲, 去第2度工作時識

    初相識時成班同事去唱K,
    我地2個醉左, 同佢真係好有feel咁鍚左,
    過左1-2星期先知佢已經結左婚, 仲有幾個細路

    同佢好曖昧咁過左1-2個月,
    亦都發生左關係,
    但次次佢都係做完就走,
    佢對我忽冷忽熱,
    打電話俾佢都未必市聽,
    到我返香港時佢亦不聞不問

    過左一段時間冇聯絡,
    公司突然派我長駐外地,
    重遇返佢, 我叫自己唔好再傻, 佢當我係SP姐,

    當時我已經有個同事 (B) 追緊我,
    我問 A 到底我地算點?
    佢冇答我, 仲叫我俾個機會 B,
    晦氣加上想忘記 A, 我接受左 B,
    亦決定專心一意去愛佢



  • thats great janice



  • 同B 一齊, 佢當我係公主咁看待,


    我是旦講一句, 佢可以為我花半日心機去準備,


    但係想我鍚佢時, 我只係當錫細佬,


    完全冇意慾同佢上床, 只係覺得內疚先迎合佢





    我盡力迫自己愛佢, 但係都係冇FEEL,


    而佢自己亦feel到, 問我點解....





    呢段時間 A 成日睇住我同 B 一齊,


    突然間佢不停咁搵返我, 但我冇理佢,


    仲同佢講我已經有男朋友,


    佢係結左婚, 有小朋友, 我唔係佢SP, 叫佢過主





    同B 2個月, 我知道佢愈黎愈多野...


    完來佢以前奉子成婚, 離左婚, 但有個女....



  • 透過好多同事口中知道B原來成日出去滾,


    未離婚時已經成去ONS, 同我一齊亦有搵女,


    最令我接受唔到係佢為左媾女delete晒自己fb個bb女d相..





    到我知道咁多之後,


    我已經唔想再迫自己,


    同B暗示左唔可以一齊好多次,


    但佢都唔肯分手,


    到有一次佢夾硬按我嚮張床度攪,


    我決定唔可以再繼續


    分手後B不斷搵我, SMS,電話係咁搵我,


    我只係可以做到唔理佢,


    但始終日日嚮公司對住佢





    同B完左,


    我實在控制唔到自己, 同A再開始返,


    以前佢唔會答我問題 "冇掛住我" "中唔中意我",


    依家佢會全日不停update我佢去邊, 做乜, 見邊個..



  • seems trouble relationship



  • 同有婦之夫一齊并唔係一件光彩既事,


    自己亦係讀唔少書既女仔,


    同佢一齊亦唔係為錢,


    爭扎過好多次想分開,


    同佢講唔怕等佢幾多年,


    但係要一齊就要結束左依家段婚姻,


    之前同佢發生關係之後好內疚, 覺得自己好無恥





    傾左好多次, 佢同佢太太亦傾過分開,


    最終覺得等佢小朋友大個d先,


    唔想佢地嚮破碎家庭長大





    講下佢同佢老婆..


    佢地2x歲時冇乜感情基礎下有左,


    唔想落左個BB所以就結左婚,


    咁多件都係因為2個都好中意小朋友而一齊,





    個老婆一直都好愛佢,


    但佢一直只係當佢係小朋友媽咪咁愛,


    又唔肯咀佢太太, 咁多年都係盡力物質上滿足佢



  • .



  • 到依家, 我已經同佢一齊左1年半,


    每日放工佢都會我食完飯先返屋企,


    星期六日&假期就會陪小朋友





    呢1年半我同佢經歷左好多,


    我地2個原本同一間公司做,


    經歷過老細虧空迫我地坐同一條船, 結果我地2個同時劈炮唔撈,


    佢嚮我支持下自立門戶, 我亦轉左工,


    舊老細做好多陰濕野想整死我地..


    例如想叫入境處唔批work permit比佢,


    又寫匿名信去我新公司話我工作表現唔好 etc...


    之間佢得左場急病差D死左,


    佢阿哥知道佢為我想同老婆離婚亦想找我晦氣,


    經過好多事....但係我地仲係一齊...





    我好愛佢, 唔需要名份,


    我都知佢係認真...





    成日趁我唔嚮屋企幫我執屋,


    為既只係想我放工之後唔洗再做家務,





    我要去應酬同人食飯飲酒, 佢會嚮樓下等成個鐘都唔嬲...


    接到我時已經醉到唔識行, 送我返屋企我嘔到周圍都係,


    佢會幫我沖好涼, 再清洗埋 + 消毒地下嘔吐物...


    幫我放好幾杯水, 等我訓埋先走人



  • what's the point u wanna share your story here?? to gain attention from others and prove that he really loves you. that's why u are pleased and innocent to be his SL?




  • Well, as long as you don't demand for more or create any threat to his family, the man would still be happy to keep this affair going and share part of his love to you.



  • Leave me alone please. your story doesnt touch me. no matter how much he loves you or you love him, u are the one ruining a perfect family. U knew it when u started the relationship with him. Dont give urself thousands of reasons that u are innocent to make this move. u can actually stop since the first time he left you!!





    God bless you. Good night.



  • Codeblue replied at 2012-01-31 2:22 am


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    Well, as long as you don't demand for more or create any threat to his family, the man would still be happy to keep this affair going and share part of his love to you.


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    the point is...she wanna force him divorce. She seems she is right to do so...aiii...





    obviously, he doesnt wanna divorce!!! what waiting for the kids growing bigger....if u really that nice and kind..dont even start the immoral relationship for the sake of the kids!!





  • Actually I am not quite understand why girls always willing to stick with a married guy rather than a single guy... even he have a good or bad history. Is that really have no other guys who can attract you or what?



  • AntAnt replied at 2012-01-31 2:38 am


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    Actually I am not quite understand why girls always willing to stick with a married guy rather than a single guy... even he have a good or bad history. Is that really have no other guys who can attract you or what?


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    yes, no other man can do. when i fell for him, i didnt knw hes married. hes second man of my life. before, it was my first love when i was still in college.



  • I see.... well, maybe he is mature enough.. right? Anyway, good luck to you...



  • 其實每段感情, 永遠都只有當中兩人之間最清楚發生什麼, 其實唔需要得同做旁人嘅認同, 因為旁人永遠只是事件的局外人.





  • 等小朋友長大 d?





    我想問小朋友幾大先係適當年紀接受父母離婚? 15 歲? 18 歲? 25 歲? never?





    咁到時佢老婆又點呢? 仔女大左有自己生活朋友, 老公同自己講 bye bye? 有幾難受?





    我自己係男人都覺得呢 d 一路同佢 keep 關係 (一路落藥等段關係無咁易冷卻)一路等男人離婚既心態極度自私同賤格。





    妳故事中講既所有佢對妳點好既野我唔否認呢刻佢係迷上左妳, 或者妳喜歡用愛呢個字眼, 但等佢小朋友大既時候妳幾多歲? 妳真係覺得自己仲有咁既魅力令佢做出離婚既決定?





    妳孤獨妳寂寞妳高質素但遇唔到岩感覺既男人實屬不幸,而家妳遇著個岩 feel 又有深層愛意既男人係可遇不可求我都明,但妳亦要明白好多時做人唔係一定要爭 d 野返來既, 尤其係牽涉一個家庭。





    妳而家囉左佢個心,佔左佢 d 時間仲唔夠, 仲要佢拋妻棄子點都講唔通。





    有 d 野唔係妳既就唔係妳既,認命接受左個事實再繼續上路喇







  • 我好同意evencooler講法,始終人哋已有家室,有孩子,有老婆.過時過節又未係自己一個人過.長痛不如短痛,再過lee d 曰子,未自己辛苦.


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