我應該同男友分手嗎?想大家比點意見!



  • 我29歲,樣子都算是中上,身材標準,正常職業。

    男友30歲 樣子都算是中上,年青有為,自己開公司的。



    我們一起4年多了,第2年一起住。

    第一年正常的。

    第二年開始唔正常了,無性生活,無KISS,唔準我模他的重要位置,唔準在他面前著SEXY的3.....我有同佢傾,佢唔傾,發脾氣,我又肯定佢無第2個。

    我本來好尊一的,但佢令我好寂寞..宜家都唔想一起睡,我們的關係像朋友。

    分手又怕後悔...

    未結婚就守寡了幾年...都唔敢同佢結婚。

    我如何是好????



  • 第一年正常的 = 有性生活?



  • rose





    hi, I understand your situation...





    can share in msn now?





    miketravel09@hotmail.com



  • gl replied at 2011-10-09 10:32 am


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    第一年正常的 = 有性生活?


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    有SEX...正常情侶



  • Rose2011 replied at 2011-10-09 10:33 am


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    gl replied at 2011-10-09 10:32 am


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    第一年正常的 = 有性生活?


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    有SEX...正常情侶


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    佢發脾氣唔傾, 有冇話因乜理由唔傾?



  • 分唔分手好呢?



  • Easy... then find a SL here.... and you can still be with him..... leave the "love" part for your SL..





    Done!



  • gl replied at 2011-10-09 10:35 am


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    Rose2011 replied at 2011-10-09 10:33 am


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    gl replied at 2011-10-09 10:32 am


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    第一年正常的 = 有性生活?


    ===============================================================


    有SEX...正常情侶


    ===============================================================


    佢發脾氣唔傾, 有冇話因乜理由唔傾?


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    無,佢好像不近女色...我現在都放棄唔傾,但可惜這段關係,唔知分唔分手好。



  • rose





    I have similar problem.....if you dont mind, lets chat more in msn now



  • Ranccho replied at 2011-10-09 10:36 am


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    Easy... then find a SL here.... and you can still be with him..... leave the "love" part for your SL..





    Done!


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    我又唔想FIND咩SL,我只想一個正常的男人。



  • 系不系他有乜问题?



  • Rose2011 replied at 2011-10-09 10:38 am


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    gl replied at 2011-10-09 10:35 am


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    Rose2011 replied at 2011-10-09 10:33 am


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    gl replied at 2011-10-09 10:32 am


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    第一年正常的 = 有性生活?


    ===============================================================


    有SEX...正常情侶


    ===============================================================


    佢發脾氣唔傾, 有冇話因乜理由唔傾?


    ===============================================================


    無,佢好像不近女色...我現在都放棄唔傾,但可惜這段關係,唔知分唔分手好。


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    佢有冇視妳為結婚對象?



  • may replied at 2011-10-09 10:40 am


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    系不系他有乜问题?


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    我都唔知道,NO SEX幾年感情好淡。



  • Rose2011 replied at 2011-10-09 10:40 am


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    Ranccho replied at 2011-10-09 10:36 am


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    Easy... then find a SL here.... and you can still be with him..... leave the "love" part for your SL..





    Done!


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    我又唔想FIND咩SL,我只想一個正常的男人。


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    Have you find the root cause ?





    1. May be you can never find it ( i believe you try before )


    2. Your case is NOT an exceptional. Many relationship after years like that.





    So you have to plan for it and even if you find a new one. The result may be the same.. How many years do you have ? I doubt ?





    Sorry for being direct



  • 系不系你做錯點乜氣老左他?



  • 我懷疑你男朋友同我一樣,突然感覺自己對男的有興趣,最後唔想近女色。



  • Ranccho replied at 2011-10-09 10:42 am


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    Rose2011 replied at 2011-10-09 10:40 am


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    Ranccho replied at 2011-10-09 10:36 am


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    Easy... then find a SL here.... and you can still be with him..... leave the "love" part for your SL..





    Done!


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    我又唔想FIND咩SL,我只想一個正常的男人。


    ===============================================================





    Have you find the root cause ?





    1. May be you can never find it ( i believe you try before )


    2. Your case is NOT an exceptional. Many relationship after years like that.





    So you have to plan for it and even if you find a new one. The result may be the same.. How many years do you have ? I doubt ?





    Sorry for being direct


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    那分唔分呀??



  • 我覺得最好仲是要同他傾下,或者你自己發現一點他的問題。



  • cc replied at 2011-10-09 10:45 am


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    我懷疑你男朋友同我一樣,突然感覺自己對男的有興趣,最後唔想近女色。


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    我有這樣想過,有問過他,佢話唔係,還發脾氣。








  • Have you find the root cause ?





    1. May be you can never find it ( i believe you try before )


    2. Your case is NOT an exceptional. Many relationship after years like that.





    So you have to plan for it and even if you find a new one. The result may be the same.. How many years do you have ? I doubt ?





    Sorry for being direct


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    那分唔分呀??


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    if you still love him but just no sex.....


    (1) either find someone to fill in this part


    (2) solve the problem if you can..





    But if i am you, i will choose to stay and married with him.



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