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    男says:那妳怎去界定一個人好不好?

    女::唉

    怎會去界定呢

    男says:其實我都想問一個問題....

    女::你怎會問這問題

    不用去界定啊

    男says:我總1發覺妳很易3句5句就一個唉字

    女::這一個唉是給你的

    男says:

    真的有那麼愁嗎?

    女::怎會這樣問啦

    男says:就當這個是我的, 妳那字出現的頻率也未免太高了....

    女::界定這些事祇是自找煩惱

    男says:但我如果識一個人他不到我想要的標準時, 我心會很不安

    就像妳先前對我的不安一樣

    女::....

    你怎會為人定標準

    對不起

    男says:

    每個人心入邊總有一把尺的

    或多或少

    女::我不想給你論斷評分考察

    男says:只係, 大家唔願講出來而已

    女::不想有一天你跟我說我不及格不夠你標準

    男says:那麼, 妳不願再聊了?

    女::不是不願聊

    是你要將我評分評你的標準

    太侮辱我啦

    男says:咁我想問

    女::你來給我說

    我為什麼要給你評

    男says:我講出我既感受,

    妳不悅

    那, 是不是亦是在抨價著我呢?

    如果沒有什麼好與不好, 為什麼會不悅?

    女::我不是在評價你

    我就是在劮跟你聊天

    男says:劮 = 累? = 討厭?

    女::請不要硬派我跟你的想法一般

    好嗎

    男says:我冇要妳一定要同我想法一樣

    我冇強迫過妳

    我也不想被人屈

    己所不欲

    勿施於人

    我會明呢樣野

    女::

    似乎你真的不明白怎樣與人相處



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  • 覺得係普通既睇法唔同~



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  • 人好唔好在乎意圖




  • 其實, 我覺得這種思想很粗暴...



  • 女:


    我都遇過這類人,有D明你既心情.


    通常呢D人只想人認同自己,如果你唔認同佢,佢就會咬住你唔放.所以同佢講多都嘥氣.



  • rainny replied at 2010-11-13 12:29 pm


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    女:


    我都遇過這類人,有D明你既心情.


    通常呢D人只想人認同自己,如果你唔認同佢,佢就會咬住你唔放.所以同佢講多都嘥氣.


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    其實都係著緊你地既關係佢先會做出呢種愚蠢既行為,女人就係衰在煩,其實你估佢自己唔知佢麻煩咩。不過希望你明白佢同願諒埋佢呢次啦。睇下仲係咪做埋呢d愚蠢問題!唔好放棄,大家都用心去愛先有磨擦。學校都記缺點三次先一個小過,三個小過一個大過踢出校。如果佢有一個優點都好,就一齊正面d而家只係諗大家既優點,而缺點人人都有。能夠茫茫人海中走埋一齊,可能佢今次對份感情亦即係對你用大力左。今日最後同佢講清楚,如果再犯先叫佢離場。咪當俾次機會大家,平常心。我估佢用心既都知點做架!唔好金快判人死刑啦!千祈唔好勞氣。你再三同佢講完,如果大家愛對方一定會經過今次更加明白大家架。星期六同佢去玩下啦!



  • 難得大家都有緣遇到,不過不失,以後平常心去生活囉. 有時人都只係一時糊塗,提點埋佢呢次,如果係聽咪粉筆字抹左佢,如果日後唔聽既先至唔好令自己勞氣...



  • Push, Support you give her once more chance. All relationship also are easy to match. Dont easy give up. you also can feeling the real heart between u and her. This is not easy to find in the world.



  • Love Story replied at 2010-11-13 1:44 pm


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    Push, Support you give her once more chance. All relationship also are easy to match. Dont easy give up. you also can feeling the real heart between u and her. This is not easy to find in the world.


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    I support LOVE STORY said that...Maybe he/She was typing wrong..."You want to said All relationship also are not easy to find and match...."





    Really Dont easy GIVE UP. Just focus the future and positive. I Hope you and your the one have wonderful life.


    Otherway, Your Happy family, I know It must coming soon. All will become GOOD. And I know She/He will settle all Trouble things as soon and only focus your sweet family.







  • I am not in any relationship with him, but started conversation. Found that he doesn't know how rude it is or perhaps I was over reacted. Thus wanna get others' opinion.



  • 有d男人係咁


    自己講左d野令人不安唔開心又唔知


    當你表現出對佢既說話不悅


    就會話你反應過敏,反應過大


    仍會堅持自己冇講錯野


    係既, 表面佢真係冇錯架


    不過就係唔識tum人過份堅持己見


    見人地已經唔開心都仲唔收口囉





    下次再有咁既情況


    唔好再繼續同佢討論, 你唔回應佢就冇野架喇


    因為再講落去只會你好嬲


    而佢就冇野囉



  • 哈哈 replied at 2010-11-13 11:49 pm


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    有d男人係咁


    自己講左d野令人不安唔開心又唔知


    當你表現出對佢既說話不悅


    就會話你反應過敏,反應過大


    仍會堅持自己冇講錯野


    係既, 表面佢真係冇錯架


    不過就係唔識tum人過份堅持己見


    見人地已經唔開心都仲唔收口囉





    下次再有咁既情況


    唔好再繼續同佢討論, 你唔回應佢就冇野架喇


    因為再講落去只會你好嬲


    而佢就冇野囉


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    Thanks advice and I really don't know this way out.



  • 我中文退步緊, 都唔明你地講咩, 唉。





    文字好誤導既, 出來見面如果話不投機, 咩算咯。 唔合嘴型, kiss 都唔得喇, 何況長期相處。






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