I miss my sl





  • why miss ?



  • we broke up



  • hiya...


    i just broke up with my sl too


    sigh... kind of miss her



  • is SL for easy come easy go ?


    anyway, what you going to do then ?



  • nick,

    how long hv u 2 been together?



    mred

    i don't think so.  sl could be love at wrong timing



  • we been hanging out for about 2 years


    and we sort of gone into cold war since i missed the date


    its actually my fault.... but now seems no turning back....


    sth u will miss and treasure after u lost it



  • have sex with him yet?



  • me too



    soda, are u a guy or gal?



  • cold war becoz of missed a date? is must be an important one..



  • jess

    i am gal



  • if wrong timing, then can let go,


    find again ?



  • we dont have chance to meet often so we got to spend quite a while to schedule our date


    and... i missed that.... so she is quite upset about that




  • mred

    it's not easy to find



  • its hard to find one really


    that have the similar thinking and interest



  • I see.



    Mine was a married mature guy. He's over 40, much much older than me.



    We've been together for almost a year.  And last month he said goodbye to me coz he said he couldn't put his family at  risk anymore.



    I cried a lot.  I miss him so much.



  • nick

    did u missed it becoz of sthg else or simply forgot?

    i always cancel my dates with my ex sl, i guess he is pretty upset too





  • jess

    ic.  take care.  do you hv a bf / family urself?



  • jess, poor you ....


    I am married mature guy also.





    might I replace him ?




  • i suppose to meet her up after the company dinner... but was finished late


    so i suggested to postpone our date in the last min


    let me tell u soda.... its really kind of a sad thing to cancel the date with sl... which makes him/her thinks that she is not important at all. ask urself... will u skip your buddies/frd's gathering??



  • tks all



    I'm single.



    mred, do you think you are far too aggressive?  Though I like mature man, it doesn't mean any mature man.  It's quite clear, isnt it?  So I dont think you're mature enough to handle this kind of relationship.



    soda

    what's your story?



  • Jess,


    Thx, seems I am really too aggressive tim !




  • jess...


    u take gd care


    we do all know this kind of sercet relationship is not 'healthy' at all and will soon or later comes to an END. but its always upset u when it comes to u....



  • Soda,


    plan for yourselves,





    plan can be work, eat, play ....


    if can NOT be long time, short plan is ok.





    if having a target on plan, would help you to pass this period (I think)



  • nick

    now it's too late. my sl treated me very well and placed me as first priority but i took ihim for granted



    jess

    we broke up becoz we could no longer take eachother as secret



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  • jess

    for ur good, find a single and worthy guy to develop with. fall in love with the right man



  • nick



    exactly!  



    soda



    Is he a married guy? or you're married?





  • all,


    SL is Secret,


    itself is NOT normal.



  • soda



    I understand that.  Sometimes, fate takes the full control of all.



  • mred



    Sorry, I can't see your point.



  • jess

    only bf / gf



  • mred

    we were trying to jump beyond being sl making our relationship normal



  • Jess,


    even you can't control fate,


    but you can choose different fate ahead.







  • Soda,


    who proposed to change to Normal relationship ?



  • soda



    that's much 'heathlier' than mine.  At least there's a 'hope' to become a REAL couple.  But from your last message, it seems it screwed up right there.  How did it happen? Mind to share more?



  • Jess, soda





    Well, life is sometimes unfair.



  • mred



    I think you're a guy who seek for sl relationship too even though you're a married man.  With all due respect, I can't understand your advice of asking me to choose different fate.



  • Jess,


    I believe I can control my fate.


    But there is god who can make its sudden change of my fate,


    i.e. I can NOT totally control my fate.





    But you do can control your fate normally (if you take action)...





    just for sharing ...



  • jess

    all i can say is i am selfish.  not willing to leave my bf and risk for a new relationship.  also, if he will leave his gf for me today, he might leave me for another one day, right?



  • To All,


    nice chat guys


    gdlife



  • Sorry to jump into the conversation. I do believe everyone has his/her reason to find SL. I myself had one before too and we have been together for more than a year until she moved to other country for work. Sometimes i guess it really depends on how you view this relationship..while some may treat sl just as a time killer or replacement, for myself, i view her as my companion/soulmate and I do cherrish the time we were together. Unfortunately, for some reason that I cannot do the same with my gf and I'm not going in depth here. Just be happy of what you are and find the best path for yourself. Cheer up.



  • any relationship is a tortuous road.. the reward is not correlated with the effort made..



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