i am a single male and totally in love with a married lady....how stupid can this get ?





  • same here





    I am single and totally in love with a married man..... But I don't think I am stupid as I have no expectation from the relationship....



  • but if you are in a relationship and in love, weren't a moment when he is needed but not there for you ? i can accept zero expectation but i am sure there are moments where you wished it was different ?



  • I totally agree with you and sometimes I was upset becos of these....


    but we shouldn't be, right? We should know our 'position' and leave this kind of relationship when we couldn't accept anymore





    what we should do is being happy and enjoy every moment when being together and love each other



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  • lady, you are right about appreciating the moment but again, it is always easier said than done. if it was just a casual sex relationship, i suppose leaving is easier but when you are actually emotionally attached (and hooked), that can be a pain :-)



  • of cos I understand as I have same situation as you...


    I am emotionally attached with a married guy, we love each other.....


    I couldn't call him or meet him whenever I want to or whenever I need him, maybe this is fate...





    Am I too "ah Q"?



  • i wont say if that amounts to ah Q or not ( i dont even agree with that statement, haha)





    cant call, cant meet, we wait for his/her beck and call and i dont know about you but hate the idea of them sleeping together, intimate time together. so so jealous.....



  • I think i am quite 阿Q sometimes....





    but deep inside, I am upset and blue....





    maybe i seldom think about their life, which make me happier



  • that's ok...





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  • i suppose thats the downside of it.





    you fall in love with the person and in the end, u suffer alone. doubt if he/she really care if we are upset or blue at all.....



  • maybe he/she doesn't really care if we are upset or blue at all





    everyone is selfish, right?



  • i am in total agreement with you.





    how long have you been with him? how do you both usually communicate?



  • i have been with him for around 9 months, we talk thru phone, sms and msn usually





    how about you?



  • It's time to go, he is waiting me.....





    Have a nice evening!



  • stupid here too, but different is she has a boyfriend, not husband


    i really want to quit but i love her so much, every time if they are together, then leave me alone, really really sad...



  • we usually communicate via sms and phone. rarely we use msn as she has to attend to her husband when she is back home...





    you have a nice evening too !



  • sg - i can understand you feeling. it sxxks big time....



  • lady我又可以同你傾嗎



  • at least you guys are loving each other...


    i'm loving a guy, seriously, who doesnt even like me, not to mention about love... but still, i'm happy that i have someone in heart...





    should be glad that we are still willing to be stupid to fall in love... :)


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