男士們,女士們,我有煩惱,可否幫忙解答?



  • 有個男士主動約您出來看戲,之後兩個星期冇再約你,跟住你主動約他,他又應約,但到現在又過了一星期,一個電話都沒有,是不是表示他對我沒興趣?我是不是不應再找他



  • 仲駛問?



  • 佢對你絕對無興趣,無浪費時間係佢身上啦!



  • 妳對他有興 趣多d wo :p



  • 即係你覺得我唔好再找他,因為冇行?但佢主動約我先既



  • 咁妳都對~他有好感lor~~未被多d機會大家lor



  • 可能約完覺得配你唔起呢


    你放過佢把啦 =P



  • KEEP住傾吓計


    但係唔好約出街住先囉~



  • karenkaren,





    give up la... i told u, i had that experience before!!





    exactly the same !!!





    he just see you as a friend, no other meaning.




  • 其實我之後約他,都係唔想佢以為我對佢無興趣,等佢知道我都對他有興趣,但佢都係無約我,所以唔知佢點唸



  • 你地既然係聚會認識, 咁會唔會再有呢啲聚會? 你地之間有無共同的朋友?


    個男仔咁被動, 要考慮清楚喎?



  • 他有咩吸引到你ga?



  • 佢主動約過你之後都唔想再約,就知佢對你無興趣啦....


    至於你約佢,佢都肯出,係因為風度,佢唔想hurt到你....



  • 如果對你有興趣就唔會咁反應啦



  • 冇共同朋友架,都冇咩機會見架啦,我覺得同佢一起舒服,其實佢又唔係極被動,如果唔係佢都唔會約我啦



  • karenkaren,








    you may not want to listen to what we said, but as an outsider...


    (also, i had experience before) you've got to accept that he is just not that into you...







  • 其實我第一次見佢都覺得佢幾好,但唸佢唔會對我有興趣,所以冇唸過佢會打比我, 可能佢同我出過一次街之後,先覺得我唔好啦,咁難得遇到個啱既,點知佢又唔鍾意,冇符啦



  • karenkaren,





    你諗番下以前真係鐘意你同過你表白或一齊既男仔,佢地對你有意思的話,好快就會有行動。 就算幾幾幾幾怕醜同被動既男人都唔會無動靜咁耐。





    你唔信都係咁講,佢對你真係無意思。



  • karen...





    let it be... take things as tehy come along....


    do spend time think about it....


    if u like him, call him...


    if u r not interested in him... then leave it...





    theres a would out there....



  • 仲好,唔使曬你時間,搵過個鐘意你架喇。



  • 佢約你係比個機會自己, 再約唔約你就好睇個男仔嘅感覺喇, 你地有無交換msn?


    試下用msn同佢傾下計,最緊要係唔好煩住佢.





    再唔係send sms比佢試下佢囉.無反應就要放棄嘞, 唔好浪費時間.



  • 俄又甘�Ola~~其中有一個可能性~個男仔好叻追女仔


    識得用忽冷忽熱吊下妳引~~haha`~



  • 多謝你地既意見,我唸佢真係對我冇興趣,如果有意思唔會係咁,我唸我再找他都冇用架啦!



  • 如果追求階段都咁攻心計


    唔夠佢玩喎~



  • 問題是,為何要把約妳出來看電影聯想到對妳有意思??



  • Maybe he was fishing at different pond but in the same time!!!!!





    Other fish got hooked....maybe you are the lucky one! that is what I think!!!



  • 其實我好被動,這次約他都要好大勇氣,因我從不主動約人,我都係用SMS約他,約會的氣氛都唔錯,但結果都係咁



  • by the way.. he bought you the movie ticket or AA? How about after the movie? tell us the whole dating period in detail!!



  • karen.





    glad that u've learnt your lesson.





    relationships are 2-ways..





    if its just u putting in the effort, its not call a relationship....


    its call..... YOU FANCY HIM.....:P








    and if u have fallen for him, then its not your choice anymore...


    but this time u've made the right choice... quit spending.... your time and effort obviously.




  • 其實我好被動,這次約他都要好大勇氣,因我從不主動約人,我都係用SMS約他,約會的氣氛都唔錯,但結果都係咁





    =============================================================





    完全可以臉皮厚一點





    拿起電話。





    “今天沒事做吧(不要等他表態有沒事做接著說),好今晚你要當護花了,一起去看XXXX。”





    不要以為厚臉皮是男人的專利,不少女人都是這樣做的,啊只要妳覺得他是個好男人,主動出擊何錯之有?怕羞?那妳是愛自己的面子多一點還是愛他多一點。



  • taxidriver,








    I think that's not important anymore..





    since she said, no call from him for 2 weeks...


    forget it then!!!





    no need to analyze anymore...





    just like what others said, I guess he found someone more interested.



  • taxidriver....





    i dont think who pays for cinema tickets or dinners matters that much...


    comon... how much does film tickets cost.... even at VIat element its only $120



  • 唔好約出街....



  • Silithus,








    she did already. She did call him out for second date, but still, this guy has no followed up after the second date... it's so obvious that he's not into her.



  • 咁兩次都係佢比$,我話比返佢,佢都唔收,第一次約會之後,因為成12:00 am 佢都話送我,不過我話唔洗,第二次10:xx pm,佢就無話送,剩係byebye lor



  • ar也~~`所妹~唔洗甘快放棄wo間唔中eat反~�O下戲~妳有乜 x失先?


    呢個世界好多情侶開頭都系大家猜下猜下先系一齊


    了解多少少~~可能他未必啱妳呢?



  • karenkaren replied @ 2009-05-01 1:28 pm





    咁兩次都係佢比$,我話比返佢,佢都唔收,第一次約會之後,因為成12:00 am 佢都話送我,不過我話唔洗,第二次10:xx pm,佢就無話送,剩係byebye lo





    一個男仔如果初頭對你有意思一定會做多d野,佢連送都無送。。。





    其實我諗你信你直覺喇。




  • 我都覺得點怕羞都唔會咁既,ai...好唔開心



  • karenkaren,





    I was so stupid at that time...I told myself to be friend with him and still keep contact with him...





    but then...later found out, 其實係好辛苦架,根本好難做朋友,由其是你知道佢約其他女仔去街,根本扮唔到大方做佢朋友。



  • 你地幾歲? 每個階段的男仔追女仔的猶疑程度都有唔同, 加上個男仔有無心呃你亦係佢會唔會行動的其中一個原因.



  • 吓 ?


    其實你對佢的認識仲係好少咋喎


    理智d 對你自己有好處




  • 我地都係3X成熟既人,其實我相信佢唔係要呃人既,至於做朋友,佢跟本冇打比我傾計,點做朋友



  • send sms 呀~


    我覺得幾好玩


    不過如果佢唔覆你


    咁就真係算啦~



  • 你真係有意思嘅話主動啲喇! 但你肯定佢無gf? 傾多啲先諗其他野喇, 唔好被年紀影響自己選擇, 寧缺勿濫呀!



  • you are right



  • 都係個句,如果佢對我有意思,係咪唔會等我做主動?如果佢對我冇意思,我再主動同佢sms,都好似勉強佢咁



  • 有啲男仔好鈍架嘛, 有時要個女仔明示佢,先會敢行動. 正如fanny所講用sms傾住先喇, 間中暗示下佢. 但你要設個deadline比自己, 過期就要放棄, 無謂再浪費時間.



  • same as me and just happend recently . feel sad . but finnaly I stop, but off all contact abt him





    I dun want waste my time on such fish weak man , playful type . they never derser our true love and caring ~!!!!



  • taxidriver....





    i dont think who pays for cinema tickets or dinners matters that much...


    comon... how much does film tickets cost.... even at VIat element its only $120


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    Oh! I understand ur pt. at least to make sure the guy whether treat her as a target or a friend in the very begining. Also I didn't know that they both were in 30's... I thought they might around early 20's..lol. $120 +dinner maybe not matter that much for 30's..to treat a friend.



  • 其實佢又唔會食得太平,都 around$400 per meal


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