有時同佢傾計, 佢冇乜反應, 多數都"嗯"就算, 都幾無癮~
因為我知道佢冇心or唔識哄人, 所以我都會主動講返野, 話冇事...
因為我知道佢冇心or唔識哄人, 所以我都會主動講返野, 話冇事
replied by ki
you can tell him and train him ga ma...
was he like that when he first chase you?
how long have you been with him?
尤其是佢唔出聲時, 我唔知佢諗乜, 又驚其實佢都唔開心~
yes, of course!!!
my bf was like that before..but i train him , i tell him what I want
now...he's very good.. hehehehe...he said sweet thing to me everday...
牲格改不了. 接受現實, 幻想不真實.
what I did was
I tell him exactly what I want to hear...
then after few times...he kind of sense what I want, and he learnt it fast....
其實我都明, 如果佢唔會改變, 我都會接受..
look, u better be patient...I think that can be learnt...
what I did was....I told him what I want, don't let him guess.
if you want him to do something or say something, then, u tell him direct.
my case is, my bf never say anything sweet thing to me... he said he doesn't know how...
then everytime when we finish on the phone, he just hangs up. so everytime before
I hang up, I asked him to say, 'u'll miss me'
and after few times....now he learnt from me...and he would say something similar or do something similar to what i did.
so be patient....I think like babysister said...u can start by 哄佢 first....
then he 'll learn it..and he'll 哄 you later.
yes, of course I would be 孟, very 孟 tim!!
that's why i said u have to tell him lor....tell him what he doesnt' know...
so that he can learn ar ma. if u don't tell him what you want, how can he improves, how he can learn??
you should know by first day that he's not a play boy type...he doesn't talk sweet
therefore, u have to train him...to 'mouth flower' you only...hahaha...hopefully...to u only...
Very useful tips ar
yes u are right, i know he is not a play boy from the first daylet me try try your method sin~~
hehe.... yea..try that lah...it really works...
train a better man is still better than to be with a play boy !!
hehe replied @ 2009-04-02 2:06 am
u have to train him...to 'mouth flower' you only...hahaha...hopefully...to u only