男朋友好多方面都好好, 但係真係完全唔識哄人....



  • 有時同佢傾計, 佢冇乜反應, 多數都"嗯"就算, 都幾無癮~

    有時我嬲佢又唔識哄返我, 多數都唔出聲...

    因為我知道佢冇心or唔識哄人, 所以我都會主動講返野, 話冇事...

    唉...不過有時真係想俾人哄下.....

    開始擔心咁落去會唔會快淡....



  • 做人唔好咁貪心


    你好完美咩


    點解要要求人地咁多野呢


    你地有無傾過呢個問題



  • 有時我嬲佢又唔識哄返我, 多數都唔出聲...


    因為我知道佢冇心or唔識哄人, 所以我都會主動講返野, 話冇事





    replied by ki








    you can tell him and train him ga ma...







  • was he like that when he first chase you?





    how long have you been with him?



  • 我都唔係想要求咁多野~~


    不過真的幾無癮~


    尤其是佢唔出聲時, 我唔知佢諗乜, 又驚其實佢都唔開心~





    hehe,


    我有tell佢架, 佢話佢真係唔識講野lor驚講錯野


    呢d有得train架?



  • ki,





    yes, of course!!!


    my bf was like that before..but i train him , i tell him what I want


    now...he's very good.. hehehehe...he said sweet thing to me everday...




  • 牲格改不了. 接受現實, 幻想不真實.





    他迎合不到你, 你唯有接受....





    接受不到的.....



  • what I did was





    I tell him exactly what I want to hear...





    then after few times...he kind of sense what I want, and he learnt it fast....



  • 一齊3個幾月only~~


    佢追我因為覺得同我一齊好開心lor~




  • 咁你都可以哄佢嘛...^^



  • CS_She,


    其實我都明, 如果佢唔會改變, 我都會接受..





    hehe,


    你話佢知你想聽d咩? 咁你當時唔會好"孟"嗎?



  • babysister,


    我成日哄佢架...不過問題係連我唔開心冇理由又係我哄返佢轉頭嘛~~>.<



  • ki,





    look, u better be patient...I think that can be learnt...





    what I did was....I told him what I want, don't let him guess.


    if you want him to do something or say something, then, u tell him direct.





    my case is, my bf never say anything sweet thing to me... he said he doesn't know how...


    then everytime when we finish on the phone, he just hangs up. so everytime before


    I hang up, I asked him to say, 'u'll miss me'


    and after few times....now he learnt from me...and he would say something similar or do something similar to what i did.





    so be patient....I think like babysister said...u can start by 哄佢 first....


    then he 'll learn it..and he'll 哄 you later.



  • 咁你當時唔會好"孟"嗎








    yes, of course I would be 孟, very 孟 tim!!





    that's why i said u have to tell him lor....tell him what he doesnt' know...


    so that he can learn ar ma. if u don't tell him what you want, how can he improves, how he can learn??





    you should know by first day that he's not a play boy type...he doesn't talk sweet


    therefore, u have to train him...to 'mouth flower' you only...hahaha...hopefully...to u only...



  • hehe,


    Very useful tips aryes u are right, i know he is not a play boy from the first daylet me try try your method sin~~




  • ki,





    hehe.... yea..try that lah...it really works...


    train a better man is still better than to be with a play boy !!




  • hehe replied @ 2009-04-02 2:06 am





    u have to train him...to 'mouth flower' you only...hahaha...hopefully...to u only


    -------


    no way



  • 找個時間跟他慢慢說


    就算他不聽


    說出來你也會比較釋懷


    如果


    他真心愛你


    他多少會為你而改變



  • 其實你可以同佢有共同興趣...感情既野大家就大家


    你識佢果時都應該知佢係唔識點哄你嫁啦



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    daniel_0707@she.com


    我叫Daniel,今年26.





    我唔大隻但都靚仔gei.



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