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見前女友呢樣野咁敏感講大話好似唔係太好喎/可能出發點唔想你亂諗野啦
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mady同自動男又打情罵俏
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我都知我唔夠圓滑，而家學緊架喇！
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咁你bf同ex講電話係光明正大係你面前講定收收埋埋甘架﹖
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甘您都要自己提防下,一日一電話...好難話兩個人一些關係都無...
<br>對方知道您的存在嗎?
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民仔 replied @ 2009-03-28 12:52 am
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<br>mady同自動男又打情罵俏
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<br>打佢就有份~
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實係收收埋埋甘講啦
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<br>我話佢同普通女性朋友食飯我真係唔會覺得唔開心架。
<br>但俾我從其他人口中得悉佢地係ＥＸ， 真係會難受。
<br>我同佢講， 佢又話我唔信佢。。。
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Sandy I guess you and your bf are both around mid 20 only, not older than 30.
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<br>其實係大家都執著左少少.....唔係好大件事亦唔係價值觀問題, 只係溝通上的小問題.
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<br>And sorry I say that, 你比我的感覺有小小覺得自己好岩亦似乎睇唔到對方點解會咁做. 嘗試多的從對方的角度去諗點解佢會咁做. 同一件事你的做法同佢的做法唔一樣唔代表有一個係錯. 唔好太執著.
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你bf都有小小自我中心，如果知道女朋友因為呢件事唔開心，係咪應該顧及你感受為大前提要避忌下呢﹖不過除左呢d野，你bf對你好唔好架﹖錫唔錫你架﹖
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我忍咗呢個情況半年有多（佢地經常聯絡）
<br>佢做到嘅就係响日間返工果時先接佢電話囉。
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<br>佢好清楚咁講我知，冇可能唔同佢聯絡， 我明吖。
<br>但唔應該咁密。
<br>好在早兩個星期响街撞到果個女仔， 之後就好似少咗打黎。
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唔... 我覺得作為女朋友, 過問呢 D 事都係好合理既
<br>你可以同佢講呢個唔係信唔信既問題
<br>易地而處, 你日日同 ex-bf 傾電話食飯都唔好啦
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<br>但不排除係個女仔打俾佢, 作為一個男人,
<br>唔聽電話就變得好小家同好似怕女朋友
<br>所以邊個打出都可以睇到 D 端倪
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overall講大話唔岩喎automan
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我諗我係介意佢唔在乎我感覺，
<br>多於果個情況。
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mady replied @ 2009-03-28 12:55 am
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<br>民仔 replied @ 2009-03-28 12:52 am
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<br>mady同自動男又打情罵俏
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<br>打佢就有份~
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<br>打者愛乜... 愛者打多幾下
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Automan,
<br> 您既意思係將心比心,您都唔介意您女友與前男友一日一電話?
<br>講真,我係女人...我都接受唔到.
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Yeah 要求避忌下都好合理
<br>又唔係完全唔俾見唔準講
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呃人唔好嘅
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mady
<br>如果佢其他方面都對我好好，我就唔會唔開心啦。
<br>亦都唔會懷疑佢。
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甘其它方面又點呢﹖
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我好失望佢從來唔認自己係講大話，佢亦覺得隱瞞係啱嘅（只要係怕我唔開心）。
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<br>咁呢件事佢係咁處理， 以後其他事佢會唔會都係咁？
<br>我擔心。
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講真,您想下如果呢種情況持續一世..您係咪都接受到..再甘樣落去..會唔會一世都唔開心?
<br> 甘又何必呢...如此委屈..
<br>慢慢抽身吧....
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有dd專制大男人啦~ 有咩可以開心見誠講既/唔好講大話囉
<br>但係依家都少講電話啦係咪﹖
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我地好多時間見面，但佢會做自己野囉。
<br>其唔中會陪我睇電視。
<br>日日接我放工食飯，
<br>除咗工作就係陪我。呢個係佢最大優點。
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mady replied @ 2009-03-28 1:00 am
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<br>overall講大話唔岩喎automan
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<br>It is difficult to discuss in a single distinct event. And we don't know what happen before.
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<br>For example, the boy contact or even meet his ex. In fact, it's normal and not a fault, or he think it's not a fault. If ... his gf mad on him for that or according to what he knows about his gf, she will mad. He may hide this situation.
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<br>Of coz, just read that he contact with his ex everyday. It's sure not a good sign and might not be normal. However, according to what sandy said, it's a feel that she might push his bf a lot (Sandy sorry i say that).
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<br>Back to lie. Don't say anymore about lie is fault or not. Everyone lie. It's only a matter now that why he lie and the intention.
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<br>In a relationship, don't expect the partner will tell you everything true. Or in an extreme case, what a ppl told, is not really what he think, coz he don't really understand himself. It's better to observe what he did instead of what he tell, it will be more accurate, it's why a relationship take time to develop.
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下﹖又唔使投身既....再好好溝通下先啦
<br>逆地而處..如果你日日同ex bf傾電話唔知你bf會唔會好安落呢~
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that's not good too, love are both wrk out together
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佢ex呢排冇打黎喇，我諗佢都係個好人，
<br>之前係因為冇收過明確信息我ＢＦ拍緊拖先成日打黎啦。
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<br>呢Ｄ野， 你唔講，佢實炸唔知啦。
<br>我唔怪佢， 係嬲我ＢＦ唔識做。
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衰婆我沖涼先, 你一唔一齊?
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thumbs-up to automan... a very hearty multi-views, yay, everyone lies indeed....
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automan replied @ 2009-03-28 1:14 am
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<br>衰婆我沖涼先, 你一唔一齊?
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<br>you did a good job baby
<br>我幫你較水擦背hehe
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Miss sandy she has only black and white in her mind, not really realistic. I don't mean her bf is correct. However, I can feel that his bf got some pressure from Sandy.
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介唔介意小弟一齊吹水?
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mady replied @ 2009-03-28 1:15 am
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<br>automan replied @ 2009-03-28 1:14 am
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<br>衰婆我沖涼先, 你一唔一齊?
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<br>you did a good job baby
<br>我幫你較水擦背hehe
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<br>I love it. 底錫. 33
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人地唔開心.... 你地兩條友又打情罵俏
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automan
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<br>i understand that i didn't fix our problems in a good way and let my bf feel that i push him a lot.
<br>i wanna change. i know he and his ex-gf has a close relationship as they had been together for a long period, but why can't him discuss the problems with him or explain it to me? He just keeps silent and let me be unhappy for few months.
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welcome 小弟
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<br>honey快d去啦水凍啦~
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民仔 replied @ 2009-03-28 1:17 am
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<br>唔開心唔代表要陪佢喊......
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mady replied @ 2009-03-28 1:18 am
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<br>welcome 小弟
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<br>honey快d去啦水凍啦~
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<br>yes, yes, i go now, honey.......
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民仔 replied @ 2009-03-28 1:17 am
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<br>人地唔開心.... 你地兩條友又打情罵俏
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<br>sorry :(
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我都覺得自己唔識做人女友。
<br>如果時光倒流， 我都係唔識處理呢件事。
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你地幾時請我飲呀?
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It is interesting to see that suddenly everyone uses English in this discussion!
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<br>IMHO automan's comment is not exactly fair. Being a girlfriend has certain rights and privileges, and that does include the right to know about the relationship and interactions between her boyfriend and his ex-gf. This is rather normal and I do not think Sandy is exerting any undue pressure on her boyfriend.
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<br>Sandy, I agree that he should really talk to you especially on this kind of matters
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我以前拍拖會講大話， 而家唔會，
<br>如果知道佢唔鍾意嘅野， 我唔會做。
<br>因為佢好重要，我情願呃其他人，都唔會呃佢。
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民仔 replied @ 2009-03-28 1:17 am
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<br>人地唔開心.... 你地兩條友又打情罵俏
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<br>成日都係架啦, 唔好理人地喇
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sandy
<br>你唔係唔識做人女友/好多時人係只會諗自己﹐以自己出發﹐所以忽視伴侶感受﹐每件事都嘗試企番係對方處境諗下﹐你切切實實係佢current gf/而個位係ex﹐唔需要jealous乜野﹐如果你bf真係仲鐘意ex﹐任你點做都係留唔住對方﹐不如選擇去相信對方﹐大家相處都會開心d﹐係咪﹖
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我係jackie唔係小弟
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<br>哈
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民仔 replied @ 2009-03-28 1:22 am
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<br>你地幾時請我飲呀?
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<br>等多10個月我請你飲滿月酒哈哈
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我諗因為打英文快Ｄ， 所以大家轉咗台，哈哈。
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mady, 等多十個月有滿月酒飲,
<br>即係你已經有左一個月?