第一次揾sp,各姊妹有乜心德分享(認真問,只限姊妹,揾食男勿進)



  • 要揾會另外開thread揾,但吾係呢條thread. 吾該哂



  • 咁就緊係搵個好傾先架啦



  • MOMO replied @ 2009-03-26 10:05 pm





    咁就緊係搵個好傾先架啦








    同同男友做有乜吾同?



  • 男人入唔入得來傾?



  • can explain to me what is SL n SP



  • 宇佐糖 replied @ 2009-03-26 10:09 pm





    男人入唔入得來傾?








    其實冇所謂,歡迎. ^.^



  • SL = Secret Lover


    SP = Sex Partner





    Find one who's willing to talk to you without talking about sex first if you're looking for SL. :)



  • i think baby is a guy lor


    i can feel it, dun ask me why.



  • 你係唔係扮男人呀.



  • real girl, 我都同意lor



  • thank u cmt



  • y secret lover cannot talk about sex



  • real girl replied @ 2009-03-26 10:24 pm





    i think baby is a guy lor


    i can feel it, dun ask me why.








    點解你地會有咁既感覺? 不過吾係lor,我真係女黎架! 只係想揾sp但未試過又有d驚,所以想師姐分享下經驗教下路咁姐



  • horny replied @ 2009-03-26 10:26 pm





    y secret lover cannot talk about sex











    咁吾講sex要講乜? 其實我覺得好難介定sl同sp既分別.真正既sp係咪其實即係ONS?



  • Reason is simple:





    If a guy is desperate enough to not talk about anything about their age, height and size, then that means sex is the first priority. This is perfect for SP relationship since it's sex that you're looking for.





    If a guy is willing to talk to you about other stuff first. Then that shows this guy is willing to show patience and may give you the romantic feeling that you're seeking from a SL relationship.





    BTW, I'm a guy. A guy who doesn't mind if you think I'm being a hypocrite for answering your question. :)



  • 其實冇所謂,歡迎. ^.^





    by baby - 03/26/09 22:17





    多謝多謝


    我係男


    比我�Msp


    我希望順眼 + �痗戉



  • Reason is simple:





    If a guy is desperate enough to not talk about anything other than their age, height and size, then that means sex is the first priority. This is perfect for SP relationship since it's sex that you're looking for.





    If a guy is willing to talk to you about other stuff first. Then that shows this guy is willing to show patience and may give you the romantic feeling that you're seeking from a SL relationship.





    BTW, I'm a guy. A guy who doesn't mind if you think I'm being a hypocrite for answering your question. :)



  • 你想要sp多過sl?



  • hi, i'm 36 male , msn: netdrive888@gmail.com



  • SP - 主要為性


    SL - 感情為主



  • why i think u r a guy?


    coz its the way u talk!


    girls dun talk like that..



  • i wont mind la. thank u



  • "所以想師姐分享下經驗教下路咁姐"


    教下路咁姐??!!


    this phrase feel so "uncle" lor..!!!



  • i thought sceret lover mean mistress



  • 咁大家傾下計lor


    就算女都可能係想玩人



  • SL or SP really depends on what you are looking for.





    But if you're trying to find out which guys are looking for SL, and which guys are looking for SP, then all you need to do is look at the content of their reply.



  • "所以想師姐分享下經驗教下路咁姐"


    教下路咁姐??!!


    this phrase feel so "uncle" lor..!!!





    by SHE real girl - 03/26/09 22:43





    有道理



  • ic



  • i dont think got any chance to look for SP here



  • Baby





    依家妳清楚咩係 SP (sex partner) 未?



  • yup. thank u everyone



  • horny





    女仔搵 sp,邊度搵都唔難



  • ic



  • CMT replied @ 2009-03-26 10:37 pm





    Reason is simple:





    If a guy is desperate enough to not talk about anything about their age, height and size, then that means sex is the first priority. This is perfect for SP relationship since it's sex that you're looking for.





    If a guy is willing to talk to you about other stuff first. Then that shows this guy is willing to show patience and may give you the romantic feeling that you're seeking from a SL relationship.





    BTW, I'm a guy. A guy who doesn't mind if you think I'm being a hypocrite for answering your question. :)














    CMT,呢個答案令我好sad... : (



  • wrong answer?



  • sad? why? what for?



  • sisters們,咁第一次見sp會吾會好驚? 同一個自己吾熟悉既人做. 我自問未能衝破心理關口...



  • baby replied @ 2009-03-26 10:51 pm





    CMT replied @ 2009-03-26 10:37 pm





    Reason is simple:





    If a guy is desperate enough to not talk about anything about their age, height and size, then that means sex is the first priority. This is perfect for SP relationship since it's sex that you're looking for.





    If a guy is willing to talk to you about other stuff first. Then that shows this guy is willing to show patience and may give you the romantic feeling that you're seeking from a SL relationship.





    BTW, I'm a guy. A guy who doesn't mind if you think I'm being a hypocrite for answering your question. :)





    CMT,呢個答案令我好sad... : (





    有咩咁 sad?



  • hi all.


    其實係sex 板,自己覺得信既,咪留下言,傾下計. 始終言論自由,最緊要大家傾得開心.


    baby: 我信妳係女仔.


    horny:我sp都係到搵到,一齊已2年,最主要睇下妳想搵咩既sp,同自己夾唔夾,一齊玩同care大家.



  • CMT replied @ 2009-03-26 10:54 pm





    sad? why? what for?











    唉...咁睇黎我想要既同佢想要既吾同囉,我諗到最後我一定會傷心...



  • baby replied @ 2009-03-26 10:55 pm





    sisters們,咁第一次見sp會吾會好驚? 同一個自己吾熟悉既人做. 我自問未能衝破心理關口...





    咁咪搵個 BF 囉,何必強迫自己呢?



  • my msn is


    vincent_chiu@live.hk


    wait for u



  • s-man replied @ 2009-03-26 10:55 pm


    .


    baby: 我信妳係女仔.








    多謝你. 人人都吾信,點解你又會信?




  • mercury replied @ 2009-03-26 10:57 pm








    咁咪搵個 BF 囉,何必強迫自己呢?











    對愛情太失望,但又冇辦法完全有性冇愛,好矛盾...



  • baby replied @ 2009-03-26 10:57 pm


    唉...咁睇黎我想要既同佢想要既吾同囉,我諗到最後我一定會傷心...





    妳已經搵到 SP,不過有 d 猶疑,唔知點好,所以嚟問人



  • Baby: Nobody can force you into a SP relationship if you don't feel like it. Just be safe and be smart. You'll be all right.





    Horny: For a girl to find a SP, it's as easy as posting your wish. But for a guy to find a SP, well, it's a war. Brutal.



  • 如果妳係仔,應該好快叫d女留email傾.我又唔覺妳有咁樣.


    其實,大家傾得多,自然好似朋友咁,見面時唔會尷尬.


    同埋, 第一次唔一定要sex,可以大家食下野先傾下計,大家有feel既,先下次去玩都台�.



  • mercury replied @ 2009-03-26 11:01 pm





    baby replied @ 2009-03-26 10:57 pm


    唉...咁睇黎我想要既同佢想要既吾同囉,我諗到最後我一定會傷心...





    妳已經搵到 SP,不過有 d 猶疑,唔知點好,所以嚟問人











    佢好想,但我驚(其實係覺得)自己已經喜歡佢,驚自己死得太慘... 我諗我玩吾起呢種遊戲. 如果係咁,我寧願只揾sp,寧願揾個我吾會中意既...但會係乜野feel? 咁又有乜意思? 我都吾知...



  • baby replied @ 2009-03-26 11:00 pm


    mercury replied @ 2009-03-26 10:57 pm


    咁咪搵個 BF 囉,何必強迫自己呢?


    對愛情太失望,但又冇辦法完全有性冇愛,好矛盾...





    咪妳都係單身吓先啦。做多運動就冇咁大性需要。過一排睇下會唔改變睇法。



  • Baby>> I agree with Mercury, you're just being uncertain about your target that's all. If you're looking for SP, then you don't really have anything to fear of, you're just for the action right? It's fair deal, be it ONS or SP, just protect yourself and enjoy the ride. If you want to be more careful, then maybe you should spend more time with that guy without having sex first. Treat it like SL relationship then move on to sex when you feel comfortable. (Hey, but if you're so into it at that time, your SL might end up being your BF if you're single.)


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