我好煩惱!!!究竟分手定留低?!



  • 我好煩呀...同左bf一齊11年喇..但係佢就仲話未ready帶我返去屋企..雖然都有同佢媽咪食過飯,但我覺得咁耐都未正式帶我返去好似有d問題...我問佢打算幾時同我結婚,佢就話出年..但係咩都冇預備喎,我都唔知可以點>"<

    依家經濟咁差,佢生意又大受影響,出年結唔結得成都係問題!!!我唔想再等喇...好煩...有冇人可以比D意見我?!



  • Let's chat chat: MSN --> am_boy@live.hk



  • 下 ? 11年都未正式返過屋企食飯 ??


    有冇咩特別原因呀 ?


    咁有冇出席佢既家庭活動呢 ?



  • Ron: 公司Block左 msn~ add唔到你...不如呢到講?





    50/50: 其實都有原因既,佢唔帶我返屋企,係因為佢父母關係唔好,成日鬧交,佢媽咪好神經質,好怕比人搶走佢個仔,而且我脾氣好硬..佢怕佢呀媽講野話我,我會頂唔順同佢呀媽嘈...我只係同佢媽咪,佢細佬食過幾餐飯咋!!



  • 嘩~~~~ 聽你咁講, 比你嫁到入去都未必開心.



  • 你 bf 都話下年結婚咯 ~


    你唔信佢 ? 你覺得係你迫佢 ?




  • Lonely_Sky,


    我同你個case一樣一齊九年啦..同佢屋企/朋友係零接觸..


    佢亦從未提及我們將來...


    咁我應該走/留低?



  • girl


    can we chat?



  • 皇額娘: 佢知我同佢媽咪既性格,所以佢一早講左,結婚之後唔會要我同佢媽咪一齊住,只係住係附近...所以我諗結婚後,我都依然好少同佢屋企人接觸!





    50/50: 我覺得佢好似拖住我,因為佢唔想結婚住(佢剛32歲)但又唔想同我分手,所以佢只係氹住我話出年結婚,我都28歲喇~我怕等到出年佢都係唔同我結婚...





    girl:下...你比我更不幸啵...我只係同佢屋企人冇乜點接觸,但佢身邊D朋友我全部都識,佢同親佢D朋友去玩,都會帶埋我去既...雖然佢少講我地既將來,但近呢年佢久唔久都會講下既,可能佢身邊D朋友都結曬婚卦,但過後又話唔想結婚住= =


    你有冇同你BF好好咁傾下呀?女人冇幾多青春架咋...所以我都好煩惱>"<



  • Hi girl, what is your case?





    My situation is similar. I have been with my bf for more than 4 years but also zero contact with his family and friends. I feel very unhappy about that.



  • 唉..所以其實我心裡都有一個諗法..


    既然再無結果咁拖落去..咁不如放手..


    但是我真是好唔捨得..


    因為佢對我都唔差...


    只係唔知點解一路佢都唔想公開我既身份...




  • wing, girl, and lonely sky why u three bfs dont let u





    see his family? it is really odd!!



  • wing,


    開頭我都好介意佢唔想公開..但是而家我習慣了..


    只係諗既然佢都無諗住同我有將來..


    咁不如我放手...但是一齊九年係唔係話走就走到??



  • i dont mean that u should have much contact with his familybut i think some causal contact is natural.



  • Daddy: 我都好想知佢咩心態...佢剩係話佢未ready囉...我都好煩惱!!





    girl: 如果放得到手既,就放啦...不過好多時係呢d時候就會諗..一齊咁多年,依家放手好似好浪費又好唔捨得,我就係咁,所以等左11年...如果早2年我知仲係咁既話...我都會選擇離開,識個個!!!



  • 其實版主認為, 一對情侶, 拍左幾耐拖就應該要結婚呢?



  • lonely sky..so will u wait for another 11 years?





    3 years and 3 years, 3 years and 3 years, mo kan dou!!



  • 28 唔係都叫早咩 ?


    點解會唔等得既 ??


    咁早結婚 ... 我驚你後悔喎 ~ haha





    28 歲 ... 拍左11年拖 .... 勁 ~ !!


    咁如果你 bf 真係唔想結婚住 ... 你會走 ?


    你可以話走就走 ??? 11年喎 ~~




  • why not you girl open mind to know more new friend ?? HK not much man now ?



  • 結婚只不過係形式上既野..


    佢對我不差就是我唔捨得放手既原因..


    只是無同佢地見面..但是佢地都知有我呢個人存在..





    Lonely_Sky,


    你係咪覺得我應該離開?


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