婚前的錯事....(有sex內容, 不喜勿入..)



  • 我今年30歲, 同而家男友(即係未婚夫, 32歲)一齊左3年, 今年9月會結婚,

    近排都忙住搞帖, 酒席之類既野, 做到個人有d散

    我一直以為結婚前既人, 一定係會好開心好興奮,

    但到而家先發覺原來唔係咁

    冇乜心情不特止, 反而仲成日有d好失落既感覺....



    我一直都有教琴, 但因為要結婚, 決定左今年教埋3月就唔再教,

    其中有個男學生J, 佢21歲, 跟左我學琴已經3年

    我一共有10個學生, 佢係最tum得我開心既一個,

    佢係果d好識tum女仔開心既人, 今年2月我同佢講話教埋3月唔教,

    佢好唔捨得, 到2月尾就話請我食飯, 直到一晚我同佢出左去dinner,

    果排係我最唔開心既時間, 差唔多可以話係抑鬱期, 但係同佢一齊時會有d令我忘記唔開心既感覺,

    就係果晚, 我好意外地同J上左床, 佢都有講話其實一直對我都有好感,

    其實佢對我黎講, 好似有種令我拋開煩惱既作用咁, 

    我有時都好想知, 係結婚令我有好大壓力, 先會咁樣, 定係其他原因,

    因為我同佢上床其實都好內疚, 因為我知自己就快要結婚, 

    但直到到而家, 我一共同佢上過5次床.....



    最大問題, 我呢個月仲未黎PERIOD......



    有心既人可以俾下意見我, TKS!!!



  • by the way, i think your desire to get married is not so strong, rite?



  • 平淡是福.



  • 去驗啦.... 唉~~



  • 成年人, 要對自己0既所作所為負責任, 唔好後悔亦無得後悔.



  • 睇醫生



  • 快D落咗嗰仔啦,第日比你老公驗出嗰仔唔系佢,發生倫常慘案都有份



  • 同個21歲o靚仔行.個o靚仔仲有大把時間玩.


    你就成30歲.仲可唔可以搵到個人同你結婚.


    知足常樂.



  • 你娶唔過, 就算娶左你老公都必定有二奶或其他女人



  • u should have a year of trouble, if u r Horse woman, born in 1978. BoBo CHAN can't get maeeied bcos of Edison





    don't u know safe Sex? at the age of 30?



  • 佢都有講話其實一直對我都有好感


    fxxk 佢玩妳咋




  • 做個成熟的決定,驗孕.如果,有bb,要決定要,還是不要.





    無論bb要還是不要,都要影響自己結婚或繼續同學生仔一齊的決定.結婚要因為想同對方一生一世的誠諾.因為結婚證書就是一張證書,是你人生的一個記錄.





    如果你可以同一個學生仔有關係,結婚後情況都未必能改變.先要對自己負責任,先可以對其他人有誠諾.如果婚後仍然有這些關係,最傷心和痛苦的是你先生.



  • Whats wrong with Julie? Many Japanese girls have similar experience....Be wild when you are young and single.....Better than to regret after marriage....The main theme is: Did she loves her future husband and did she really wants the marriage?



  • add 我msn, 等我了解下, 俾d意見你





    johnny323@hotmail.com



  • 俾我係你學生,明知你就結婚,我都一定唔介意同你上多幾次床wor...


    人地tum 女仔叻一件事,而30歲既女人應該唔會咁2俾0靚仔tum到先係ga..



  • 30女同個21男???????????





    so excited~~~!!!!!



  • 你好似v太案的女人





    咁鐘意其他男人, 唔好結婚啦



  • 同自己講第時你老公包二奶,三奶,四奶....


    自己都要忍,


    因為呢D應該係報應黎



  • 你有第一次


    必有第二次


    你愛你未來老公,放過佢啦


    等佢搵個唔會偷食的



  • 點解要都覺得有bb先覺得呢段關係有問題?


    after第1次應該考慮啦



  • julie





    吊完你又唔洗負責任. 你真死蠢




  • 你同佢發生第一次 當你好唔開心 亂左 都算





    之後仲有發生 . . . . 5次. . . .





    為左自己忘憂 就唔理未婚夫感受





    希望你唔會有第 6次 = . =







  • julie


    hihi,do u need any suggestion.i am working in medical field.may be i can help u.my msn is juliekwaninc@yahoo.com.hk



  • (就係果晚, 我好意外地同J上左床, 佢都有講話其實一直對我都有好感)








    我就黎40歲, 係我以前的年代


    暗戀係好美麗, 對像結婚, 會默默祝福





    而家的細路, 暗戀等於暗中想食


    人地結婚,走去破壞,正xx
















  • fix the BB first, then the relationship, then marriage



  • 阿飛 : 同意 = . =



  • 阿飛 : 同意 = . =











    感動, 呢度d人多數話我out



  • 可能我既表達令人會誤會


    事實上我而家唔係俾人呃, tum左上床, 唔係呢一回事


    我點解會同佢一次之後又一次, 到而家一共做過5次


    係因為我會覺得, 面對住佢, 好似可以脫離到現實


    唔駛煩惱咁多野, 咁大壓力


    或者我男友屋企人, 都俾左唔少pressure我, 或者係婚姻本身既壓力


    我唔知.......





    對住我學生, 感情上我會覺得冇可能,


    但佢能夠令我覺得relax到, 亦係一個事實


    同時我都feel到, 佢都有俾心意出黎關心我既狀況





    頭一次同佢上床, 我同自己講, 係俾藉口自己發洩


    第二, 三次, 我覺得好似想麻醉自己咁


    所以呢3次我都有用condom





    但之後, 我覺得感覺唔同左, 所以冇用到....







  • Dr.J,





    are u really a doctor??





    u can help??



  • 同時我都feel到, 佢都有俾心意出黎關心我既狀況 .....








    同鋼琴老師上床, 係好多麻甩仔的性幻想





    俾著我, 我都扮下關心,去maintain 呢個relationship








    如果你話對佢有感情,咁唔好結婚啦, 試下同佢拍拖





    唔好呃你男朋友





    身體同感情都係你的, 我唔想話你錯對





    但涉及第二個人,你就要有d責任感




  • 自已賤格就賤格啦,搞左一次仲唔夠,仲要搞夠5次,跟本自已搵藉口發姣,本生對條o靚仔一早流哂口水,好心你拿拿聲同自已個男友講清楚,唔好害人害物



  • Dr.J,





    are u really a doctor??





    u can help??








    搵家計會或者其他醫生啦





    你30歲, 有乜依郁, 影響生育啊



  • 唔錯都錯左, 你最好冷靜一下


    好好諗清楚, 女人係易動情既動物


    你愛上小男生, 係真定假呢?


    你去買野驗左有無BB先啦, 可能因為緊要者。


    就黎結婚, 你愛佢嗎



  • 你以為自己拍緊戲呀? 可以NG再黎過? 30歲人都仲咁唔理知既. 要唔用DOM都可以食藥啦.



  • 連妳自己都分唔清自己既感覺


    有邊個答到妳 ?


    第一次就話可能係壓力


    妳已經係第五次


    完全係縱慾啦


    一場夢就令妳變成咁


    可想而知妳對感情係幾咁兒嬉....幾咁脆弱....



  • 頭一次同佢上床, 我同自己講, 係俾藉口自己發洩


    第二, 三次, 我覺得好似想麻醉自己咁


    所以呢3次我都有用condom





    但之後, 我覺得感覺唔同左, 所以冇用到.... ----------


    you want to marry the kid? Elder Sister Young Brother affairs?




  • Hi Julile,





    may i give u a advise? i have this experience before. same as you.





    andyli1974@hotmail.com




  • the important thing for you to think about is who you love most? your fiance or the kid? do you still want to get married?








    why didnt you do protection for the last 2 sex? becoz u've alreadly fallen for the kid? or some other reasons?





    if you realised its a 錯事, try to fix it..it becomes unfair to ur fiance. Honestly, i dont think it's a really a big deal of having fun with the kid as everyone makes mistake..we are all human..we are not saint. Nevertheless, u have to think thoroughly what the next step is...it's all on your hands..no one here know more the real situation than yourself...ur have to make up your mind...





    Good luck



  • 你夠姜就講比你未婚夫聽。



  • 依家令你覺得煩惱既事係你無黎M, 你都已經係30歲既成年人, 我都相信你知自己做緊咩事, 既然你選擇唔用套, 應該知道後果係點?





    你都係去睇醫生驗下先, 之後再諗下一步, 我相信你都係有經濟能力既人, 你都係擔心唔知有無人認頭?



  • As a man, i will eat what ever i can eat. Wake up.



  • 我只覺得你未婚夫好慘





    不過你的post 都係好事





    最少不再只說男性衰 有時女性更衰



  • 細個呀媽教你要誠實,你應講比你未婚夫聽。



  • 其實我從來冇講過, 我係個堅貞既女人





    我都知, 響呢個時候做呢d野係會令我男友好hurt





    我post上黎, 都係想舒解下自己, 唔想收收埋埋





    同period未黎果方面, 想聽d advice





    有時我會覺得, 男人自己想要sex時, 就會講到sex係件好普通既事


    好似食飯咁普通, 係人都需要, 男女都唔需要壓抑自己


    但係終有一天, 聽到有個女仔通過sex去舒發自己


    就會拎返哂d道德觀出黎講, 話點樣唔應該......





    我承認同學生J上床係有D反叛, 對抗既感覺


    有人覺得係我俾佢呃左


    但我反而覺得似我利用左佢多d...







  • what a bitch you are !!!!!





    stop the wedding and tell your 未婚夫 la, slut.







  • confrim your pregnancy sin la


    thats the priority


    without that bady onone can charge you of disloyalty to your hubby ga




  • 真搞笑~


    如果係咁 你是否都不介意你未婚夫 同你一樣出去滖 ?


    定你們結婚之後 各有各出去搞





    你把自己有問題做錯的事 說到自己覺得合理 - . -







  • 我覺得你唔應該結婚...免費搞出悲劇....繼續你既亂七八糟性生活



  • julie replied @ 2008-04-25 12:08 am





    其實我從來冇講過, 我係個堅貞既女人





    我都知, 響呢個時候做呢d野係會令我男友好hurt





    我post上黎, 都係想舒解下自己, 唔想收收埋埋





    同period未黎果方面, 想聽d advice





    有時我會覺得, 男人自己想要sex時, 就會講到sex係件好普通既事


    好似食飯咁普通, 係人都需要, 男女都唔需要壓抑自己


    但係終有一天, 聽到有個女仔通過sex去舒發自己


    就會拎返哂d道德觀出黎講, 話點樣唔應該......





    我承認同學生J上床係有D反叛, 對抗既感覺


    有人覺得係我俾佢呃左


    但我反而覺得似我利用左佢多d...








    你點知佢投入愛妳?


    佢都係可能玩下





    而且, 佢唔會大肚, 你會, 佢可以拍拍屁股走人,你要諗下養一個細路或殺一個未成型生命





    新思維, 性解放唔係話做就做, 你醒下



  • julie


    nothing wrong with what have you done, all expect one


    you want to play, play safe



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