有人真的在這兒找到男朋友嗎? 你地有冇覺得好多時都係msn chat 一兩day 或者見左一次半次, 就不了了之.........
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見過面之後冇聯絡都唔算冇風度
<br>有 D 一見到妳就轉頭走
<br>或者之後搵藉口走先就真係冇風度喇
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有人真的在這兒找到男朋友嗎? 你地有冇覺得好多時都係msn chat 一兩day 或者見左一次半次, 就不了了之.........
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<br>版主你係有呢d遭遇還是點丫.....因為唔係太想追post...可唔可以簡單講下~
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都有過呢d 遭遇呀
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唔知係 d 人太唔respect.. or 真係我條件太差掛
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minnie
<br>不過, 你點知佢delete 你msn?? =====其實呢係我搵左個女朋友ADD佢,佢地傾左一陣而我一直都見唔到佢,我已經DELETE左�
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<br>咁係唔係有 d 自欺欺人既成份？===== GOOD
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女方覺得不被尊重
<br>其實唔多唔少係咪女方有少少expectation呢?
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網路同 real life 既分別係，係 real life 妳好多時唔駛點同一個人傾計都會因為對方既外表 (強調外表唔係單只靚與醜咁表面) 而選擇唔同對方有深一層既接觸或認識，但 internet 就單靠打字。
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<br>妳無可能要求個個同妳打字既男人都係妳 cup of tea 喎。正如係街妳都唔會喜歡所有男人架喇。妳會唔會投訴 real life 呢個男人咁樣，個個男人點樣..
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如果樣貌唔重要，婚姻介紹所就唔駛囉 d 相出來比 d 男女揀喇.. 索性比個 msn / 電話佢地傾餐飽咪得囉
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<br>點解硬係要講到想知妳個外表係點就 = 唔正常╱無風度.. 其實呢 d 人先最正常。當然佢地係欠缺左一 d 技巧。
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<br>有 d 人講到自己唔 care 你外表，只著重同人既溝通，你信咩？
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有..我呀...
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可能你地講得o岩, even 我只係expect 一段friendship 都係一種expectataion.
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<br>btw, 我覺得, 有時候女仔都只係想搵人chatting & sharing. 如果會換黎咁o既結果我相信所有女生都唔會願意出黎見面。
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rule, totally agreed
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chloe replied @ 2008-04-14 2:30 am
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<br>唔知係 d 人太唔respect.. or 真係我條件太差掛
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<br>depends
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minnie replied @ 2008-04-14 2:45 am
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<br>可能你地講得o岩, even 我只係expect 一段friendship 都係一種expectataion.
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<br>btw, 我覺得, 有時候女仔都只係想搵人chatting & sharing. 如果會換黎咁o既結果我相信所有女生都唔會願意出黎見面。
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<br>same applies, depending on individual
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<br>i have some chatters never met in person
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rule , 其實你使乜咁大反應.. 係咪你都usually 係咁做呢?
<br>算la, 開條咁既thread, 當我唔岩唔著lor
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the hard and cruel fact is that : most chatters don't have a basic respect to others, men and women alike
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minnie, 好坦白講.....only chatting and sharing 女同女就有可能發生~ 女同男就.....~.~
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<br>當相方的目標不一致時~ 好容易就發生大家所講既無風度或者唔尊重
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chole，妳 post 上來唔係想睇 feedback 咩？我都幾好心機打咁多字喎.. 或者妳只想睇到支持妳既單面言論？
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我打上黎都係sung 下啫... 又係罪ar?!
<br>你打咁多字, 咁多謝曬 lor
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一開口就係問" are you slim?" " how old are you? " " are you good looking ?"..有無相呀....真係好厭呢<===我都係好討厭ED....E D 男人明出黎搵食
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過路 replied @ 2008-04-14 2:34 am
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<br>女方覺得不被尊重
<br>其實唔多唔少係咪女方有少少expectation呢?
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<br>depends, but, as mentioned above, the one deleting others usually doens't know the basic manner in deletion. I would warn them b4 deleting if they r bad, and I choose to ignore their messages if they are not my cup of tea
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<br>afterall, most of the chatters don't have many in their MSN list, i get hundreds........
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rule, 放過我地, 可以嗎?
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ee_emily replied @ 2008-04-14 2:53 am
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<br>一開口就係問" are you slim?" " how old are you? " " are you good looking ?"..有無相呀....真係好厭呢<===我都係好討厭ED....E D 男人明出黎搵食
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<br>same applies to women, too
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chloe, 咁你又唔洗咁講~ 只係每個人的觀點與角度唔同姐~~
<br>好明顯係同rule係各有己見~~
<br>凡事都無對錯~ 更可況同"情"有關.....友情又好~ 感情又好~ 乜情都係架啦
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人揀你，你揀人。
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<br>希望大家遇到岩既人喇。
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rule replied @ 2008-04-14 2:51 am
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<br>chole，妳 post 上來唔係想睇 feedback 咩？我都幾好心機打咁多字喎.. 或者妳只想睇到支持妳既單面言論？
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<br>i don't think she is the kind of person u think
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rule, 放過我地, 可以嗎? <-- 邊個"我地"?
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passerby, you ar male or female?
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過路 replied @ 2008-04-14 2:54 am
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<br>chloe, 咁你又唔洗咁講~ 只係每個人的觀點與角度唔同姐~~
<br>好明顯係同rule係各有己見~~
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<br>well~~~
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人揀你，你揀人。
<br>---> 其實呢樣野, 我明白ga, 不過都show little respect la, 我都會遇到 d 佢覺得我ok, but 我唔 O 既人, 但我都盡量唔會令到對方太難受... 都人地就偏偏要令我難受lor.....
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rule replied @ 2008-04-14 2:37 am
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<br>網路同 real life 既分別係，係 real life 妳好多時唔駛點同一個人傾計都會因為對方既外表 (強調外表唔係單只靚與醜咁表面) 而選擇唔同對方有深一層既接觸或認識，但 internet 就單靠打字。
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<br>妳無可能要求個個同妳打字既男人都係妳 cup of tea 喎。正如係街妳都唔會喜歡所有男人架喇。妳會唔會投訴 real life 呢個男人咁樣，個個男人點樣..
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<br>u r quotating exceptions as examples, not the proper approach, not so impartial
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大家討論..不用禁勞氣..大家只是觀點角度5同
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btw, it seems to be your rule rather than the General Rule
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passerby
<br>the one deleting others usually doens't know the basic manner in deletion.
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<br>yes ar... 最難受就只不過係這一點
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我唔係因為人地唔揀我, 就走上黎 gwa gwa 嘈, 鬧神鬧鬼
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chloe replied @ 2008-04-14 2:58 am
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<br>人揀你，你揀人。
<br>---> 其實呢樣野, 我明白ga, 不過都show little respect la, 我都會遇到 d 佢覺得我ok, but 我唔 O 既人, 但我都盡量唔會令到對方太難受... 都人地就偏偏要令我難受lor.....
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chole，其實佢地表現得咁直接，而妳感受到唔受到尊重或感到被傷害既話，咁咪唔好再同佢地傾囉。咁仲有助妳及早過慮左 d 人。
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<br>好過同一 d 懶係話唔 care how you look like，just care about communication，傾一大輪，出到來亦扮曬 gentleman，但見完後又係淡曬，不了了之。
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<br>邊種好受 d？
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chloe replied @ 2008-04-14 3:00 am
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<br>我唔係因為人地唔揀我, 就走上黎 gwa gwa 嘈, 鬧神鬧鬼 <---我諗大家都明白既~
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chloe
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<br>我想知道妳認為點樣既過程先叫正常 ?
<br>妳對 nf 又做唔做到妳所講既野 ?
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minnie replied @ 2008-04-14 2:59 am
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<br>the one deleting others usually doens't know the basic manner in deletion.
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<br>yes ar... 最難受就只不過係這一點
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by the way, i will be deleting some 200+ chatters in 1 of MSN list soon.......without hurting others, or, I was being deleted long time ago....
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<br>usual POOR behaviour in Net chatting
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rule, 兩種撞過, 兩種都唔好受~
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除左1 同2, 人同人之間相處係唔係應該都有3,4,5,6,7 種方法呢??
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<br>係好直接之間同好虛偽之間, 係咪仲有好多發揮空間?
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passerby, are you "peter" or "tommy"? 40+/50+ old man, working in IT field?
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阿龍 ,
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<br>我想知道妳認為點樣既過程先叫正常 ?
<br>---> we never mention the term "正常" in this chat, it is not the issue
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rule replied @ 2008-04-14 3:01 am
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<br>chole，其實佢地表現得咁直接，而妳感受到唔受到尊重或感到被傷害既話，咁咪唔好再同佢地傾囉。咁仲有助妳及早過慮左 d 人。
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<br>好過同一 d 懶係話唔 care how you look like，just care about communication，傾一大輪，出到來亦扮曬 gentleman，但見完後又係淡曬，不了了之。
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<br>邊種好受 d？
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chloe replied @ 2008-04-14 3:04 am
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<br>rule, 兩種撞過, 兩種都唔好受~
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minnie replied @ 2008-04-14 3:04 am
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<br>除左1 同2, 人同人之間相處係唔係應該都有3,4,5,6,7 種方法呢??
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<br>係好直接之間同好虛偽之間, 係咪仲有好多發揮空間?
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<br>sure, at least 10+ styles
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chole，其實妳係想佢地點樣對待妳呢？最後見到妳唔岩眼緣繼續敷衍妳？但好多時敷衍都要係背後有推動力喎，如果佢地都無曬呢股推動力去應酬妳，妳仲 expect 佢地繼續去同妳 keep in touch，好似未見前咁既態度既話，似乎有 d 一廂情願.. 勉強佢地喎
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各位, it's time to ZZzzZZ ~
<br>謝謝你地同我傾左一晚~
<br>有緣再見~~