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  • 與SL 一起已有半年時間, 當中有好開心既片段, 亦有痛苦, 傷心, 好想離開, 但雙腳不受控制地走向他處, 開這個topic 是希望有朋友想結束SL關係, 一齊入來亙相開解,互相支持, 我地要重見光明



  • hi sisi! it's a good topic which our sl can share the eperience. I also got a sl and we started for two months. will you talk little bit more about you and your sl?



  • But is SL a secret lover but you have a BF / GF?



  • 好想放手, 明知沒結果,不要說我有事要找他幫忙,  就連一個電話我都唔可以打俾佢, 咁樣我地又算係咩關係, 連普通朋友都比不上.



  • want a better substitute?





  • Sisi: 我好明白有SL的快樂和痛苦, 因為我上個月才結束了一段SL的關係.


    快樂時要放手真係好困難, 但原來當你能狠下心結束, 所以你一直看不清和不願面對的事實, 會慢慢地看清楚. 你才能從困局中走出來.



  • I am interested being part-time BF...add me: drbriankcau@hotmail.com



  • 人地post個thread不是在搵食呀, 你班搵食男唔好搞人地啦好心.



  • sisi replied @ 2008-03-23 3:58 pm





    好想放手, 明知沒結果,不要說我有事要找他幫忙,  就連一個電話我都唔可以打俾佢, 咁樣我地又算係咩關係, 連普通朋友都比不上. 








    我 mo SL...但我希望你可以放到手...好明顯你同佢已經係處於不平等關係...你再係甘落去只會不停付出










  • i am interest why dont you let the sl be your bf/gf but just keep it in sl stage?



  • 我同我個SL都一年多喇~因為我O地都係識O左好耐好多年.就算唔再SL關係都應該會繼續朋友. 曾經都怕繼續落去就會泥足深陷又驚自己根本玩唔起,怕有一日佢有另一半既時候又要BYEBYE......果時都好想好想放手.但我知道放O左手唔等於開心,既然冇咩野咪繼續先LOO~ 第日既野冇人知O架嘛~ 同我個SL一年多既時間裡面,佢係一日比一日錫我,如果當初自動棄權,我想沒有今日既幸福LO~


    到而家都怕佢離開我,我好蠢咁有著一個想法就係:以後發生咩事我都會O係佢身邊,除非係佢唔需要我.


    唔好意思呀~ 突然感觸打O左篇少少離題既野,,,SORRY~


    PS~ 相信一齊到點都算緣份! : )



  • 想放棄是因為我覺得越來越依賴他, 習憤了他在身邊,我唔可以繼續下去, 我怕有一天我離開不了他,  現在努力中, 我經常想他的不好, 我想這樣會有幫助吧



  • 今天忍到無聽過電話,好開始



  • 靚仔想找SL, 有興趣add我msn





    msn: williamhk2007@hotmail.com







  • 我是初來的…其實咩係SL?…



  • SL elements as following








    Time is an important factor





    Love is a 2nd factor





    Communication is 3rd factor





    Other things are money, pain and other




  • SISI.我都覺得我越黎越依賴我個SL......


    冇O左佢真係唔知點算......


    ANYWAY,,你覺得開心咪做LOO,努力呀~~~


    祝~幸福.快樂!! : )



  • wostess: SL= secret lover.



  • sisi


    sl呢d關係並唔易處理


    有時比正常一段男女感情仲難handle


    又要有感情, 又要好理智, 仲要講默契...


    搵到一個同妳夾到既人, 係會好開心....


    但如果妳係呢段關係入面覺得唔舒服, 或者過唔到自己, 就唔好再繼續, 遲早都辛苦...


    玩唔起呢個遊戲既人, 就唔好玩喇...



  • 飯桶兄果然有見地!





    講得好arm 呀~



  • 我同佢一齊個零月,但真係好開心,雖然大家都有另一半,但係我唔想要求咁多,對我好已足夠.



  • I hv been with him for more than a year. Wanna give him up.



  • sabrina


    點解要 give him up?



  • It is because he doesn't care of me.





    I would rather treat him as a playmate rather than a SL.





    Btw, I am just boring.



  • ic


    咁唔 care 就真係無計... 走得~


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