I wanna chat with someone...



  • .....



  • anyone...still up?



  • i am someone~



  • hi sam...





    thanks for dropping by...





    do u have anyone in your mind now?



  • not yet~



  • hi, how come still here so late? cant sleep?



  • sam





    good for u..i think it's good that..


    u don't miss anyone..or don't have anyone in your mind now....





    love is pain...







  • i just try to forgot~


    and don't make it stay in my mind only



  • bluegirl,


    Dont be so blue.





    Love is really a pain, it gives pain much more than happiness in my past experience.


    People say Love is sweet and it will stay in your heart for a long time. While I just tried once and it only stay at my hand, afterward, they're all bitter and pain



  • ic...





    are u dating with anyone ?





    or going after any girl?



  • still looking for la~




  • manlatiger,





    tks for your msg...i dunno...i'm so lost now..





    i'm seeing someone lately....but we're not in a relationship yet... just causal dating..he said, he likes me ...and he would call me couple times a day....





    but today, he's leaving for vacation, will be gone for couple weeks... i dunno..i feel kind of missing something...





    but i know, i don't love him..



  • I'm dating with someone that i'm no longer love, but there's no reason to break, as we already become part of other's life.





    I used to love a girl, but her behaviour was so unstable that I dont know if she likes me or just wanna fool me.



  • sometimes, i think he's doing 'tricks' on me... he calls me so many times a day...so he makes it becomes like a habit..





    so i'll miss him if he doesn't call...





    ...i dunno..but i wouldn't tell him that....





    that i miss his calls...



  • bluegirl,





    That's just like what I was facing. We seems like friend, but seems like a bit more than a friend, I told the girl I love her and i miss her, she didnt reject it nor accept it.



  • I used to sms her everyday and when she online i'll msn her, but she never reply me



  • manlatiger,





    oh...i think that's sad...being with someone who u no longer love....





    that's sad..... i don't want to end up in a relationship like this...


    but isn't that the 'gum ching' that we talk about? maybe every love relationship will end up with gum ching only...



  • i guess both men and women know how to paly tricks...



  • manlatiger,





    i think she doesn't love u..





    in my case, at least, i do reply him...


    i never call him though....





    i'd at least sms him once a while...







  • yea...you cant say I dont love her, but I do miss her sometimes, but i cant say I love her. so that's just Gum Ching....





    For that girl, I am now thinking coz she could get some opportunity from me, so she would show me at that time, I'm really not sure, as she seems got a bf and some chaser in her office.



  • your case is different, u told the girl u love her, but u're actually not available, u're WITH someone..if i were the girl, i wouldn't respond....







  • The point is, sometimes when I expect she wont reply me, she will.


    And last week, she had to went for a business trip and I asked if i could go with her, she let me do so and even allow me to share a room with her. But than she rejected me coz she said her parents not allow. Afterward she still ask if I wanna go..That's confusing



  • ar, I'm so confusinig and I think that's so annoying, so I quited and I prefer to be single now



  • who wants to be the third person...





    i guess, no one right!





    so of coz, the girl ignores u...



  • She didnt know I hv any gf. And I was preparing to break up with the recent one.


    But it seems I was too emotional and that was too jerk of doing that.


    So i didnt do that at last.



  • Hello Blue.. how's going?



  • manlatiger,





    good that u didn't do it...





    u shouldn't lie or (hide) to her in the first place....








    but about your recent one...u better make the rigth decision...







  • 藍妹~你番緊工呀?^^



  • yes king5





    long time no c



  • bluegirl....u miss him but u don't love him....





    i don't understand..maybe i am not mature enough



  • when he was at the aiport...





    he didn't give me a call before he depart...





    if he really likes me..he would call...





    glad that..i didn't accept him...







  • hey,





    i miss him...maybe becoz he calls me everyday.... u know....


    if u're seeing someone everyday...then all of sudden, this person disappear..u'll miss it right??



  • haha~估唔到你仲記得我啵


    我同你d時間唔同嘛,我訓覺時你做野,我做野時你又訓左覺,所以無咩時間撞到^^


    今次到你有感情煩惱呀?



  • oh, so you just got used to being called by him a couple times a day.





    maybe a lot of girls fall because they get used to what a man does to her.





    He didn't call u in the airport so you think he doesn't love u? i doubt that.





    but if he misses you too, he would be calling you on his vacation too. it is not hard to make a phone call



  • hey,





    that's my point...





    when he was at the airport, he sent me an sms. but he just told me he was at the airport, that's it...





    and i replied him, have a safe trip...





    no, i'm sure, he won't call me during the trip becoz he said there can hardly make outcoming call, but he asked me to call him..he said he could receive calls, but the funny part is..he didn't give me the number to call...







  • i dunno what he's thinking..





    but maybe it's good that..he's gone for few weeks....so can give us time to think what we really want...





    but i still think...if he really likes me..he would call me at the airport , the last moment b4 he left... but he didn't...



  • hi blue girl.........



  • ...hi ram..








    .....





    all of sudden, feel so depressed....



  • I just come in and read all u type above



  • So cold today and tonight





    and tmr too





    and maybe ur heart inside is even more colder





    how re u my girl?





    what are u thinking about now?







  • ram,





    tks for coming in...










  • hey~



  • 三個原因啦...


    1.你係佢心目中可能有地位...但係未至於話重要


    2.佢可能想吊下你癮,等你掛住佢...擔心�


    3.佢可能同其他女人去,所以唔方便覆你,佢個sms只係想話你知,佢會離開一段時間





    不過我肯定佢有睇到你覆番佢既message,佢唔再覆你即係代表佢番黎時先會搵番你



  • as a man, i would think...whether he called you in the airport doesn't show whether he loves you. but whether he calls you in the trip tells more.





    guys and girls think differently.....



  • a guy who used to call me couples time a day, but didn't call me b4 he left at the airport....








    i really can't understand...





    not even a goodbye...



  • He calls u everyday coz he need to


    i mean he calls u for his own sake, he calls u will make him


    feel better





    when now he not call u


    for his own sake too


    he not feel like to call u


    so he not call


    he is doing things for himself


    not u



  • king5,





    all three are possible! i agree too..





    becoz..i really can't find any excuse why that he dind't call me lor...





    and u're right that too..becoz he almost never call me at night.... he only calls me during day time or afternoon time...





    when he's at home...he seldom calls me...





    but he told me, he has no wife..or not hiding anyone... anyway... who knows ....





    first, i really thought of giving him chance....but as what i see now....maybe i really shouldn't ....



  • hey,





    really? why's that?? wouldn't you want to hear her voice once b4 u take the 14 hours flight???



  • Ram,








    oh...yea....sometimes i feel that way too...he's just doing for his own good sake...





    becoz..i have once told that that....can u pls call at night instead of day time...





    but he never did...he only calls when he wants to...and sometimes, if i want to talk longer..... he'd just hang me up...he wouldn't care what i said.....



  • why no wife and no gf





    but not call u when he is home and at night





    u can think of the reason urself la...............


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