我覺得好辛苦,我知我犯賤....(謝絕搗亂,需要真的協助)



  • 我跟男友一起快四年.

    由跟他一起的第一天已知道他有個快結婚的女友.

    跟著,我看著他結婚.....心也痛了好久...

    最近剛得悉他新添了個嬰兒....這次我真的崩潰了!

    我真的很愛他,我從未曾騷擾過他的那個女人.

    一直都很順從他,對他也沒有特別要求,只會在他有空時才陪伴我.



    他一直對我說和那個女人結婚只是個責任,而且甚少會跟他有性.

    那為何會了孩子?為何要騙我?

    我現在只覺得心被掏空了,這星期也失眠,吃也沒胃口,上班時也沒勁.



    心中一直存有個幻想,有一天他會離婚,然後我可以堂堂正正跟他一起.

    突然夢想幻滅,墮進無底的深淵.



    我真的無法離開他,他對我真的重要,我愛他甚多於一切.

    但我現在真的不知下一步怎麼走,人生好像再沒希望,再沒目標了...

    我問自己,我是否很不濟?為何連愛一個人也要這麼拆磨我?

    走在街上,看見很多婦女,自問條件不比她們差,為何她們也可以有自己的丈夫兒女....

    為何我卻不可以?為何幸福偏要離我遠去?



  • what do u want for help?



  • 因為你選擇一個不會為你負責任既男人


    所以你失去同痛


    可以點幫?



  • 就別再拿別人比較,別再鑽牛角尖吧!


    懂得放手,才是妳的新生!



  • 小姐


    一開始已經係咁


    係你選擇錯


    冇乜好講喎





    你應該到左清醒既一日啦



  • 快d放低果個男人~重新開始自己的新生活啦~



  • Hello,





    I saw a similar case today in newspaper and let me share the suggested solution with you. It's cleared from the very beginning that this man has been occupied, and all you can get from him is be with him once in a while when he's free. Speaking of responsibilities, giving birth to babies can be considered as responsibility as well. If you think you cannot leave this man, then just admit the fact and enjoy these moments. Otherwise, you better quit asap. Hope this can help.



  • seems he doesnt love u as he should know u feel sad and pain.but, he doesnt care...may be, he just want to keep the relation with u.....to have sex with u only.


    think thoroughly... if he loves you, will he see u sad and pain and doing nothing?....



  • if u can....u better leave him a.s.a.p and start a new life...u know, u wont have future with him..



  • 食得鹹魚抵得渴


    賤女人, 抵你有今日


    俾人當係洩慾工具咁耐都仲唔醒



  • 因為你將自己困咗响個牛角尖度。





    或自己行入條掘頭巷度,跟住自己整埋度閘,再加多把鎖,等人嚟救。忘記咗其實自己keep 住條key。





    快D攞返條key出嚟啦。



  • 夠薑咪去同佢老婆講lor, 有膽攪人老公無膽見大婆呀?


    一係就坐定定做你既二好奶, 唔好咁多野講, 知冇?



  • Oh....no sexy but have a baby? Do you mean his wife also has a man outside? very complicated!



  • 開始時你已經知道遊戲既規則係咁啦..


    由男方可以同另一個女人結婚, 而唔同你,


    你都應該知道你在佢心目中既地位啦.


    而家對方連小朋友都有埋, 一家人開開心心.


    你呢?弧獨一個. 為你自己唸下啦,


    留係e個男人身邊, 你同一個呼之則來, 揮之則去既玩伴.


    你都講你唔差, 為咩要自己節磨自已?





    感情唔係你有幾愛就可以work家..


    係要2方面都愛先可以.


    好明顯, 付出愛既係你. 但對方根本就愛佢既太太, bb多.





    傻妹, 放手啦, 比個機會你自己..


    放過你自己啦. 話唔定你既mr. right好快會出現呢..


    你浪費左4年係e個人身上, 你問下自己仲有幾多年可以咁浪費呀?




  • 依家佢太太有咗BB,佢可能更加需要你,因你是他的sex provider。





    我都見過有男人响太太有BB時同other girl一齊,目的又是sex,BB出世後,未分開law...........





    Don't be his sex doll, please. Don't let him hurt u again.



  • the longer u stay with him, the longer u will be suffered...


    nothing cant be solved,


    i know your feeling..however, the only solution is face the problem...


    leave him la....


    if u want to chat further, u can send me email


    stevejohn321@yahoo.com.hk



  • 當月球擋著太陽, 日全蝕


    當地球擋著太陽射到月球, 月全蝕





    當甚麼擋著投射到你心的光, 變成心全蝕呢


    不是愛情, 不是對方, 是你的執念.





    執著對方能帶給你的喜悅...


    執著感情投放而不能收回...


    執著你認為的那為一...





    只要 "移開", 那東西便不會擋著你, 不是你有沒有 "能力", 而是 "願意" 問題.



  • 其實他的嬰兒已出世,我也是剛剛才發現.


    我知道離開是唯一的解決辦法,可惜我無法做得到....


    我想知道為何男人可以這樣做?


    為何他說愛我,但又跟另一個生兒育女?


    現在腦海中常湧現他一家三口快樂的畫面,心便痛得不能再痛,是真正感覺到痛楚的.



  • .:


    我看到你的留言,淚便不由地淌下,


    然而真的可以這麼容易放下嗎?



  • 佢點講, 佢點做, 都唔等於你要跟佢意思, 如果係其他人, 可能一把星埋去就走, 點解你會痴埋去? 點解走唔到? 麻鷹唔管, 管雞仔?


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