認真,有無女仔可以同我傾下我同我女友既問題



  • 拍左拖7年,同居左4年,開始發覺有點悶
    其實自兩年前我已經同佢傾過不如佢返屋企訓,
    對大家既感情都好d,小別勝新婚,係搬返去兩個星期之後佢又搬返返黎住.
    我明白好大原因係因為3年前俾佢發現我同第二個女仔sms,但係o個時我同個女仔無乜野,只係見過面,現下性質,無同個女仔一齊過又無sex過
    我自問唔係好花心o個隻,因為試過有好多機會可以識女仔/同第二條女一齊我都無,但係佢始於唔明白點解我要佢返屋企住
    我要既係私人空間,我覺得好辛苦..



  • 我有時會企o係佢既角度去諗


    佢由我識佢100lbs到而家130lbs,變左肥妹仔


    但係相反我就變得fit左,因為成日去做gym同玩運動


    但係佢就唔明白,以為我玩到咁fit係想去溝女


    但其實我係因為工作壓力要做運動同gym解壓


    佢對自己無信心,所以管得我越黎越嚴




  • 我喺呢2年都不知同佢講過幾多次我要私人空間


    但係佢就死都唔聽,成日以為我想出去玩


    我認我係貪玩,但係我知道條bottom line係邊度



  • 点解你會覺得無私人空間



  • 佢一個星期係我屋人止訓7日


    sat同sun我一定會同佢一齊


    如果我話我同我d同事去玩(游水/飲野)佢就會發脾氣話我唔理�


    我weekday去街去夜少少11點倒佢就打黎問我去左邊,做乜咁夜仲唔返


    如果同佢講我可能要12點-1點返,佢就會發脾氣


    你覺得點



  • 吓,佢又誇D嘅.......





    咁有時有啲活動你可以同她一齊去嗎?



  • 点解做gym唔揾埋佢。



  • 有,我同d識左好耐既朋友(中學同學)出黎一定會同佢一齊咁滯


    但係我而家轉左做新公司,有時我覺得介紹我d同事俾佢識唔係問題


    但係我唔想介紹左之後佢第時又話"你d同事我都識啦,做乜唔可以帶埋我一齊去呀?!"



  • 做gym我梗係有叫佢啦...我話我出埋錢添


    但係佢話佢唔鐘意喎


    我覺得可能佢覺得自己肥,無信心卦



  • 咁.................我諗佢實無乜嘢嗜好,同無乜朋友,right?



  • 咁我都明你点解唔喜歡次次都帶佢出去嘅。



  • 可以咁講


    應該話佢為左我放棄同多朋友同啫好


    其實我地唔係好夾


    我鐘鐘做運動佢唔鐘意


    我鐘意睇書佢唔鐘意




  • 咁佢鐘意乜嘢,你知唔知吖?



  • 我真係好辛苦


    係呢1年係我腦海閃過分手呢個念頭不下10次


    但係到最後我都唔忍心


    同埋..佢為左付出左太多了..



  • 我知


    佢鐘意化妝


    我同佢講過"其實你鐘意d乜野,你可以去學下,做人要學多d野架"


    佢成日都有諗過,但係..到最後都無action...


    係呢排好d同d同事去報左yoga玩下



  • 我諗你哋有共同的朋友,right?嘗試揾佢地去同gf傾吓。



  • 試過啦..我有同佢講過"不如你同xx傾下,佢可能會俾倒d答案你"


    不過...佢鬧我做乜將我地d野講俾人知


    搞到人地以為佢咁衰..




  • 幸好,你都明白現在你就係佢嘅一切。







  • Actually, 我都唔認同佢嘅生活方式。



  • 照你咁講,你都想同佢分手,祇係唔忍心啫。



  • 我而家係苦惱緊


    如果繼續係咁,我怕我會忍唔住同佢分手


    你都明白現在我就係佢既一切


    到時我真係好怕會有咩發生..



  • 我愛佢,但係我現在的生活實在係太辛苦了...


    我怕有天我忍受不了會分手




  • 真心果句,你依家有無有feel或覺得好嘅對像?



  • 無,


    但係身邊其實好多走馬看花(有無錯?)既女仔




  • 但係有feel同埋覺得好既女仔就無



  • 有無心動



  • 如果去到咁,分手是必然的...太多不滿,太多怨氣了..



  • 如果就咁計某方面就梗會有沖動既(如玩下ons咁)


    但係做女友既真係無,問題係我無feel係唔可以同一個唔熟既女人sex的



  • 唔知呀,


    唔知係好事定壞事,我係一個好樂觀既人


    今日我o係度"申",聽日我又覺得無乜野


    跟住第日又係咁,不過我覺得如果要結婚就唔可以係咁



  • 你覺得問題係你令佢唔放心,如果真係想一齊的話,而又唔夾的話,就一定要有人犧牲,即你令佢放心囉............





    其實我認為健康D嘅做法係俾D精神記"talk"佢,例如你同佢話鍾意食"Cake"叫佢去學。佢做完facial又要讚吓等,等佢去多D,多D嘢攪,你亦要主動D去接佢,间接支持佢



  • um...privat你都講得幾岩


    但係...如果要我去接佢,到頭黎我咪又係無左private time




  • 佢返学做facial時,你咪有law



  • 其實老實,我覺得我對得佢太耐了...


    我想佢搬返屋企住係想大家都有種拍拖既新鮮感


    佢成日問我做乜唔同佢sex(我係一個性慾都幾強既人)


    我唔通答佢"日日見住你..咩feel都無曬啦.."咁咩..



  • 我想不是太健康



  • 分開住=分手



  • sorry la, my boy home, 下次再談!!



  • private,





    ok bb





    girl,


    咁健康就一定唔健康架啦..


    問題係點樣令到佢健康




  • edit,





    As a female, I can't stand your girl friend too.


    Well, I think both of you should talk together one night (of course, when she's in a good mood) & let her understand the situation and will see then........good luck!



  • mscc,





    yes, i tried it before many times..


    but after we talked, it will be improved for a short time only...


    then returned to original..


    now i really dont know what can i do


    i tried to find sl to escape this problem,but..no feeling and hard to find a good one



  • why do u think sl can help u ?



  • wind,





    男人有時諗野都幾天真


    sl可能我對佢既新鮮感從新發掘出黎卦



  • haha..


    ur gf don't complain.. that u hvn't slept tim



  • the main reason..


    if things keep going..


    just waste your time


    i guess. later on..


    she will ask u for marriage...


    will u warry with her??



  • i dont know


    my bottom line is that dont play anymore after marriage


    then depend on i play enough or not




  • what else do u want to play??



  • everthing law


    i like to try new thing


    female,clubbing,play with fd, drink etc.



  • well..


    may be u like to enjoy your life more







  • indeed, yes


    i like do something lonly at sometimes.




  • well, communication is the most important thing for a relationship





    If you think no use, then no point to maintain this relationship, right?





    If yes, then separate....but make sure to have a warm conversation, then your gf won't suicide (I don't know but of course don't wish to happen).



  • why don't u go to sleep now??


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