Mid 30s Single woman



  • 女人到咗呢個年紀,無人無物,如果有一份工係第二個國家(non asian, non-english and non-chinese speaking),要你一個人去,錢同香港差不多,但工作的exposure 幾好,你會唔會take 呢?你會離開香港去個完全陌生的地方嗎?

    Any comments?



  • Depends which country,


    India ...no


    Thai .....May be


    South africa ... I will go



  • It is europe.



  • But how about aging mother?



  • 咁你唔識果度D語言,會好難喎,而家去做野,唔係去旅行喎,你受唔受倒壓力先?不過如果exposure好,咁可以試下,但係你都要諗下,如果你捱唔倒,咁你返返黎會唔會好難搵野做?



  • I don't know what is going to happen. I am just hoping that I will be able to transfer back to HK later, or I can meet a good man there. Well, who know? But I worry about my aging mother.



  • 你係咪獨女無brother & sisters 可以照顧佢呀>?如果你想去試下,咁你可唔可以接埋你媽咪去?同埋佢可唔可以一個人係香港照顧倒自己?佢幾多歲呀?



  • 我有個妹,但係佢已結咗婚,無同屋企住,而我呀媽五十幾歲,但係佢好倚賴,所以 都好煩......



  • 咁五十幾歲都好後生啫,但係如果佢好倚賴,咁就煩D,你有無同你亞妹商量過,睇下佢可唔可以照顧倒佢.同埋你有無同你媽咪傾過呀?你多唔多親戚,如果有亞姨舅父果D,我諗你亞媽會無咁悶lor



  • don't go there, stay in HK



  • 究竟女人到咗這個age and stage,應該look for or focus on what? Family or career? Family or marriage can't really control, but career we can. 好煩呀. Any comments?



  • 其實要睇下你追求D咩野lor,唔係個個都一樣ga ma



  • 我知人人都唔同,但係我都唔係好知我自己想點,我只知道如果我唔take lee 份工,就好難先至會再有, 但係我自問我又唔係gum aggressive, 所以都好煩, sigh....



  • 咁你都係時候要諗下啦,你都有30+ 啦,你可以例個表出黎,睇下如果去,有咩野好同唔好,跟住再同屋企人相量lor



  • 我已經做過,但係都仲唔知. 我諗fundamentally我人生好似無咗方向,都唔知做人爲咩,can anyone share his/her experiences? Many thanks.




  • 如果工資高, 當然去啦. 去搵幾年錢, 再回香港都台�.



  • After all the tax and necessary cost of living expenses, the net income is pretty much the same as what I can get in HK....



  • 我之前都有做人無方向,好似都唔知為左D咩野咁,但係後來我發覺,其實做人咪係為左開心快樂lor,我諗無一樣野可以比開心快樂更好,咁我咪諗下做D咩野先會領到自己快樂,然後向住呢個方向去做lor





    其實你主要都係唔放心留低你媽咪一個係香港,係咪?如果你媽咪有人照顧,咁你仲會唔會考慮咁多野?



  • 35, thanks for your comments. Are you a woman? Just curious.


    Since my dad has passed away, and I have my mom only, so as a daught or a woman, what should I do will make me happy or at least won't feel regret?



  • 大家都係女人,我諗我都明,因為暫時仲未有自己既一頭家,而希望事業果方面可以好D,但係又未必係去到好女強人果隻,所以先會咁迷茫。我都係只有媽咪,但係我仲有其他屋企人可以一齊照顧佢,我媽咪都成七十幾歲啦。


    我睇你寫既野,我覺得你幾重視你媽咪喎,um.......其實我都唔知點樣話比你知點先可以領到自己開心D,不過我可以同你分享下我自己既野,好似我同我D朋友一齊覺得好開心,咁我就同佢地一齊lor,我食雪糕會開心,咁我咪去食lor,我見倒我媽咪開心,咁我咪開心lor,有時見倒係街上面果D細佬仔開心,咁我都會覺得開心嫁,就係咁lor


    只要你覺得果樣野係開心,而又唔會影響倒其他人,領到佢地唔開心既話,咁你就去做啦,通常都唔會後悔嫁


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