我提出分手後, 男友仍很念念不忘.....

成日打電話嚟講佢自己有幾慘, 幾唔開心, 日日生不如死, 仲強迫復合, 其實我一直嘅態度都唔係好強硬, 例如佢打電話比我, 我都會同佢好似朋友咁傾, 佢約我出嚟, 我都會搵一兩次出去, 但一出到去, 佢又若無其事咁拖住我, 試過強硬啲, 佢又喊曬口咁, 都唔知點好......

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會唔會...係佢怕寂寞,要'有個人'響身邊?又或者佢慣佐有您響身邊,所以唔肯放手?可能係您唔強硬,佢以為仲有機.

如果強硬啲我又怕佢好傷心...

其實我都想同佢做返朋友, 點樣可以佢唔好咁癡情, 而又可以同佢做朋友?

It is your own wish to "想同佢做返朋友", but sometimes it is impossible because your ex gf/bf can not accept this.

The best way is to declare clearly that there is no chance to be together. Then, if he still disturbs/annoys you, you need to "disappear", i.e. do not let him find you.

If there is really no chance of reconciliation, you shouldn't be seeing this guy again! Do you know that what you are doing is really dangerous? It is hard for him to get over you if you keep giving him false hope. Furthermore, there is a change that he may be getting more aggressive and do something to endanger your life ! There are lots of cases where gals are being disfigured or even killed by her ex-boyfriends ! I agree with 男 that you should disappear !

你而家唔絕...可能仲害左佢呢

快d俾佢諗清楚啦