一個28好仔分享自己既故事,同時亦想識番一d唔係玩玩下既女仔,無野做咪當入去睇下故仔law



  • 她叫D...3年前係friendster識, 最初我都無諗過網友原來真係可以變成女友,

    果時我岩岩大學畢業,佢仲讀佢a-lev,記得第一次見面之前我地傾左一晚通頂,

    發現原來佢間中學就係我屋企附近,大家原來每日都差唔多係同一時間,係同一個地鐵出口出入,

    於是就約左第二朝見面...佢真人好靚,個樣好似阿嬌(真係架,試過幾次有人問佢攞簽名...),

    大家係mtr講左幾句,佢就番學,我就番工....

    之後幾日,我地都約左係mtr見一見, 夜晚亦會講下電話,

    後尾有一日, 我病到七彩,諗住唔番工去睇醫生,佢就話唔番學陪我去...

    當時好感動...就係咁我地就係果日開始左...

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    一個月後, 佢有一日突然問我會唔會介意佢唔係virgin,

    我有乜可能介意,講真今時今日我諗要小學先搵到virgin,同嘛係唔係又如何??

    原本佢同我講佢之前好壞,14歲已經唔係,果時成日莆,係好多地方同條仔都做個,

    (k房,公廁,巴士....條仔亦迫佢做個好多野,用口,吞x,3p,什至後面)

    講真可能依度好多bro都好想搵到d咁激既女sp/sl,

    問題係佢係你條女,而佢講緊既係同之前條仔既野,

    我當時感覺有d唔知點,但諗諗下,每個人都有過去,又何必計較??

    最重要係而家大家鍾意對方

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    期間同D拍拖都好有壓力,因為實在太多狂風浪蝶,而佢又唔識得避忌,我只可以對依段感情有信心

    a-lev完結,佢屋企唔想佢讀u,要佢快d搵$,

    我同佢講今時今日,有個學位點都會好d,

    佢話屋企唔會俾$, 於是我就話我供,

    有d fd覺得我要幫人養嘛女好白痴, 而且我亦唔係搵好多...

    但我真係好愛佢, 而且好多野唔可以計住計住

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    1年前自己27歲,覺得都係時候諗下結婚, 於是大家就計劃係我32歲果年結,

    拍左5次拖, 唯一今次我有好認真思考依個問題,畢竟身邊有好多朋友都結婚...

    之後我就同佢買左一對鑽石介指....

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    5個月前佢突然問我可唔可以早d結婚, 我話我地唔係已經計劃好咩?

    原來佢老母成日去賭$,番到屋企就小個女唔搵工,佢想快d搬出哩住,

    我其實都好想快d,但結婚要$,我又未儲到,

    慢慢佢開始嫌棄我搵得唔夠, 我無怪佢, 一個未打個工既人係唔知搵$難,

    我同佢講,我又要俾屋企,又要俾你(我每個月都會俾$3000佢當零用),又要幫佢交學費,自己都要娛樂消費,

    唔係咁易儲到$....佢就問我點解唔炒股票, 我話炒股票都唔係赚梗, 佢就話我唔敢搏無發達,

    我真係好無耐....點解一個人會突然變成咁.....我開始有d不祥感

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    最後終於俾我發現佢係出面有第2個,仲係一個有$仔二世祖,

    係我無品我check佢電話,但我真係無辨法,

    好多時打俾佢唔聽,次次都話收唔到,

    但係個電話明明打得通又點會收唔到??

    同佢攤牌,我同佢講,你要出去玩你都玩得醒d,

    唔好留低d record俾人跟到,一個月500幾個sms…

    佢竟然同我講話係明俾我知…勁無奈,我真係啞曬,

    但我仲好鍾意佢,因為真係好想同佢有將來,

    我問佢仲鍾唔鍾意我,佢又話鐘意,

    但我叫佢唔好再搵條仔,佢又話唔得,

    咁即係點??佢叫我俾d時間佢,我無問題,

    我剩係同佢講希望佢識點做,

    依段時候,我唯有當無野,扮傻仔,

    仍然咁出街睇戲食飯…….

    隔左一個月,我問佢條仔有無搵你,佢話有但無理佢,

    我真係好想信,但試過俾另一伴出賣既人都知果種惶恐感,

    我忍唔住再check佢,其實我知道大家關係去到依個位同玩完無分別,

    但我唔介意俾人呃,只要我俾人呃得快樂…係我認我白痴,

    點知又俾我摷到,今次佢delete曬d sms,

    但我係佢本album見到一d我唔想見到既野….

    佢同條仔既合照…仲要係攬住果隻…

    我繼續扮無野,但一個人唔開心真係好難扮…

    佢竟然仲要小我話如果早知你咁無mood就唔好出街…

    我再一次同佢講問佢其實想點,佢又話我迫佢,

    大佬,我都係人哩架,我都有感受架,

    佢就話如果依家有個人同你求婚有層樓俾你,問我係佢會點,

    佢咁樣講我個心已經死左一半….

    我話睇下你點去衡量$同3年感情,

    佢無答….跟住又拖拉左1個月,我終於忍不住,分手…..

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    分左手一個月好唔習慣,以前因為成日陪佢,fd好多function都唔去,有女既場合因為唔想佢誤會,更加唔會到…所以我識好少女仔,電話phonebk唔多個10個女仔電話,我哩she.com唔係想搵女友,因為我覺得自己仲未ready去開新關係,但係又好怕無乜機會識人,所以希望係到識番d女仔….

    我自問都算好仔,28歲有份正當職業,5’7-8”, 155lbs,食煙飲酒我係會,但絕唔係bar既常客,我好憎人賭$,亦唔鐘意睇波,我真係好想識番d女仔21-26歲,最好係已經做緊野,希望大家可以係度傾下了解下,我唔係靚仔個隻,d 女性朋友都認為我係型型地有style果隻,我無乜太大要求,只要你唔好高過我就得…



  • 依度係咪根本無人會真心認真咁對人?



  • 唔係無


    係睇你遇唔遇到



  • 人唔經歷過,唔會知道自己需要0既係咩





    如唔係你0既ex,你依家就唔會list 到你想識咩女仔



  • 終於有人肯應下,愛情的確會令一個人成長,


    可惜係當二人步伐不一致,問題就出現...



  • 多謝兩位指教,我都仲有好多野諗唔通...



  • um...what's a pity...this story sounds so upset and disappointed... someone love truely and give the most good stuff to his lover...however, what's the result? full of tears and pains..


    best wishes....好仔



  • siuchek


    絕對同意





    當兩個人無共識,無共同目標,一齊落去根本無意思


    世界上好小有談一世0既戀愛


    戀愛後,係需要感情維繫


    如何維繫,必須思想一致,無太大距離





    好仔


    只想講....拍幾多次拖都好,遇到咩女仔都好,每次完結戀情後,你自己都無任何改變.....你自己都無成長....





    諗唔諗得通,係自己問題,任何人同你將同一段說話講100次都好,你唔想通就唔想通



  • 同情一下好仔,不過d咁o既女,嫁比他咪仲大鑊....唔好怪我坦白



  • sigh...this is life...


    人生就係要經歷...


    好多野唔到你控制...


    每一樣野既發生都有佢既原因...你就當係"愛一個上一課"吧...





    d到真係可以搵到真心既朋友,睇你好唔好彩 ^.<



  • Actually, if there are more choices for the girl, the story will be like that...dont think that having a pretty gf is good. Frankly speaking, if there are better choice, it is normally the girl will choose the better one.



  • ^^


    totally agreed!! d咁既女仔,你應該開心你未同佢結婚



  • cc


    agreed but not all gals are like that gei...



  • 而家真係有好多女仔係咁樣架啦...



  • 其實我覺得個女仔係愛你的話便唔會同其他人一齊,又唔會咁對你(唔聽電話,避開你)。





    女人都唔係個個係好人,下一次你搵個真係愛你的吧。













  • 其實你ex gf要乜野,佢已經好明確咁話左比你知,既然佢想要bread,你同佢講愛情,根本係2樣野黎,早表態好過遲丫.....



  • 個女仔要既似乎唔係only bread...you should be glad...依家好多女仔都係咁,不過當然都仲有好既女仔既 ^^ think positive!



  • 好仔


    I just broke up w/ my bf too..we r totally different kind of ppl...


    I give a lot for this relationship...but the result?


    Life is like this. I blame no one.


    Hope you'll get happier.



  • sigh...



  • 好仔...呢個故事真係...作為一個女仔, 我都唔爭佢...


    其實我有時都好唔明, 點解個心可以容納多過一個人? 一個人既心只可以愛一個架咋, 冇其他空位架喇! (或者有d女仔都唔可以話愛, 所以先同時時幾個一齊啦!) 我唔想批評你既ex...不過, 你決定同佢分手真係明智架! 有時, 你對人好, 人地唔識珍惜, 只係單方面既愛, 唔會長久開心架! 正如單戀一個人既痛苦一樣!! 唔使擔心呀! 如果你真心對待人, 一定會有人欣賞你架!



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