父母正人渣, 佢地就過足幾年手癮, 我地就慘足一世, 讀完書就同人家d仔女爭飯食

樓上, 我好遲熟, 我早讀書, F3 仲係得13 歲, 不過中三選科學校都會同大家開曬會, 介紹下, 班主任點都會講下, 同學之間又會講, 除非你係自閉, 冇同學肯睬你, 老師放棄你啦! 問唔到阿媽就憎阿媽, 冇野呀? 而家又唔係阿媽迫你讀你唔想讀既科, 有得揀都可以抱怨既。你仲好細個呀?

識得咁主動, 就唔洗只懂問父母啦! 一個人被動, 又冇人啓發, 起步係較慢

一過好被動學生, 老師都未必鍾意

樓上 = by ...... - 05/08/07 10:50 or by 村姑 - 05/07/07 12:58

得啦, 知你叻, F3 仲係得13 歲, 大姐, 人人唔同, 你極端本事

識得主動問父母, 又唔識得主動問老師, 究竟你係主動定被動?

係喇, 個個, 人地話佢自閉, 好唔好

如果個個問, 你咪話佢過度活躍

得啦, 知你叻, F3 仲係得13 歲, 大姐, 人人唔同, 你極端本事

by ...... - 05/08/07 11:07

原來係細路仔, 唔怪得咁幼稚!

係喇, 一個人都唔問, 人地話佢自閉, 好唔好 ?

如果個個人問, 你咪話佢過度活躍?

hahahaha

你係橫蠻老屎忽思想姐

都費事睬你, 搵交黎鬧, 咁都怨一餐, 中三選科阿媽俾唔到意見都要憎阿媽, 咁你自己憎飽佢, 自己 lor 黎賤。

你識唔識字呀, 我怨乜呀? 你係咪有燥狂症呀 ? 係又吠, 唔係又吠

...... - 05/08/07 11:14 呢段

to

by hahahaha - 05/08/07 11:13

你呀

I am an adult now but I still like to ask/listen my father's advice in all aspects.

上面一眾只識得怨天尤人的人﹐註定你們失敗﹐中三選科都賴﹐言詞重要咁惡毒﹐真是令人大開眼界

你識唔識字呀, 我怨乜呀? 你係咪有燥狂症呀 ? 係又吠, 唔係又吠

by ...... - 05/08/07 11:14

恕我多嘴﹐似乎係你有燥狂症﹐係又吠﹐唔係又吠

中三選科都賴﹐<<即係中四讀唔讀呀?

I am an adult now but I still like to ask/listen my father's advice in all aspects.

by sentor - 05/08/07 11:23

問人意見﹐同人地比唔到意見而憎恨對方﹐係兩回事

你識唔識字呀, 我怨乜呀? 你係咪有燥狂症呀 ? 係又吠, 唔係又吠

by ...... - 05/08/07 11:14

恕我多嘴﹐似乎係你有燥狂症﹐係又吠﹐唔係又吠

by -_- - 05/08/07 11:27

hm..........除左以上一段, 我一開始好好討論, 從來冇鬧過你, 冇乜咩賤, 惡毒字眼鬧過任何人

I am an adult now but I still like to ask/listen my father's advice in all aspects.

by sentor - 05/08/07 11:23

問人意見﹐同人地比唔到意見而憎恨對方﹐係兩回事

by -_- - 05/08/07 11:29

有啲野一家唔知一家事

中三選科問父母,有乜唔妥!?,仔女徵詢父母意見,父母子女亙相溝通係好正路。問呢D好羞恥咩?父母俾倒意見與否,跟徵詢父母意見中三選科係兩回事。

講到去邊呀? 佢地講緊呀媽比唔到意見，唔好怪呀媽，唔係唔比問，有得問咁緊係好啦，冇得問咪問老師lor

見到呢個topic真係感囑良多, 自己對父母,又愛,又恨, 呢種覆雜情緒困擾了我20幾年.

自己從小被領養, 對於身世問題,從小受盡呢個屋村白眼. 媽無維護我半句

反而一直係我面前底毀我親父母,說盡難聽說話.目的怕我尋找佢地

要我不斷發誓再發誓忠於佢, 小小唔聽話, 就成日冷嘲熱瘋話我將來會反骨,會晤要佢,忘記佢大恩大德,

佢自己被阿爸打大, 對我一樣, 不問因由,痛打發洩. 哭唔準, 駁嘴唔準.

恐嚇我, 唔要我. 惡死我. 唔識做功課打到喊, 喊住做,

孟塞, 唔講道理, 死要面, 固步自奉, 專制, 強迫. 疑心大, 有事無事講好多器官粗口, 鬧我又係, 臭x, 臭x, 乜都鬧得出. 你地阿媽有無咁??

0第報紙, 電視, 見到d人唔順眼, 就句句pk 前, c臭x , 死佬後.同隔離臨舍傾喝更係鬥講, 我細佬仲細由細到大聽到佢講粗口, 叫佢唔好咁, 佢會答, 我鍾意點就點, 關你x 事. 你地咁愛你父母, 佢地係唔係咁??? 阿爸好日唔返來,返來窮到濃, 佢自己生存都無能力. 但仲要我.

從我15歲開始, 一直自己做pt 供自己生活. 後來家庭發生大問題,

所有家庭重擔係我身上, 日日家嘈屋閉,我讀唔到入腦,成績越來越差.

又無能力走. 但仍死死借政府讀埋個大專, 你地能否想像係巨大壓力之下讀書, 係何等辛苦??????

而盡管我對於自己自小未嘗過咩叫父母親的愛. 溫柔, 鼓勵, 支持的成長.

但我仍要為著20幾年來果兩餐飯而要唔可以唔理佢地,

呢d 係要還, 係多謝佢地係我有病時帶我0第醫生, 比飯我食, 比

3我著,

然而, 我可以講, 我心靈創傷, 要自己未來用好長時間來修補.

我的自卑, 我不懂自己思考, 我的被動怕事, 我的自我形像低落

我完全唔知自己係邊個, 從來無自我. 可言.

而家, 我就快會搬離佢地.

我無特別興奮, 但有解脫感覺.

我要獨立, 要揾到自己, 建立自己人生觀, 正確價值觀同思想.

睇左村姑msg , 村姑選科果part , 只係同媽媽唔岩其中一條導火線 , 跟本唔係單為選科一個問題而憎媽媽 , 佢做埋prefect , 我相信佢有問其他人意見, d人搵黎嘈,又冇禮貌.

我覺得用到"橫蠻老屎忽思想" 好不要得﹐可能依家D小朋友唔會認為咁叫無禮貌啦﹐唉

無人話唔比問父母意見﹐係講緊﹐母親不能比意見就將責任推落母親度﹐總之﹐有起問題﹐自己永遠無問題的﹐有問題﹐要負責的﹐一定係父母﹐唉

-_-

我而家同你呢種顛倒是非既人講野, 等同跟一個精神病人講野

真係要講句﹐家家有本難唸的經﹐之不過﹐觀乎上面大部份對自己父母有意見的人的留言﹐本人都認為佢地父母真係唔識得教仔/女﹐好失敗

-_-

一早同你講"一家唔知一家事, 版主/村姑件事我地唔知

你有冇家庭問題而導致你亂咁插人, 我地唔知

真係家家有本難念的經

......﹐如果以上言論你不同意﹐本人只好講句對不起﹐無必要見人就鬧咁燥

-_-

你唔睇頭, 你都不要產生幻覺

請問我何時亂咁插人？唉

用到"橫蠻老屎忽思想" 兼係咁寸人同鬧人﹐不見得有禮貌﹐總之﹐不想跟你糾纏不清﹐

閣下喜歡分身同鬧人﹐自便

再見

youth,

if you think that i am lucky, i can tell u i am nothing when compared with those 3-5 yrs older than me. i was born in 1967 and by the time when i finished my uni, it's already 1989, almost the end of the peak of the economy. all my seniors in the firm were in fact only 2-3 yrs older than me, but they were earning at least a double of mine. And most of them could buy their own flats after 2-3 yrs' work, while i, could only see the housing price increasing in a rate much faster than my salary. While u young ppl are jealous of us having many opportunities, i am also jealous of u guys having enjoyed a much better childhood and youth. In our times, we all need to work for summer jobs in factories since 14 to earn our own pocket money. nowadays? many of u are busy planning all kinds of extracurricular activities for your summer vacation. for those in "poorer" families, they still get what they regard as very limited pocket money from parents, and playing with friends everyday. In our days, a flat in a housing estate means 100-200 sq ft. nowadays, it means at least 400-700 sq ft. i just want to say that every generation (and every person) faces its/his own problem. u may not be getting the best, but definitely u are not getting the worst.

-_- ,你應該都係hahaha ,我地睇唔出點點冇禮貌在先,反之 ,hahaha一開始已經冇乜禮貌, 你加把咀最無釐頭.

to: 上面幾位幸福既小朋友

我地唔係覺得問父母意見係羞恥, 相反, 我地覺得有得問係好幸福, 但, 幸福唔係必然既, 無得問或父母俾唔到意見, 唔等於父母欠左你, 我自己小六升中都係自己幫自己揀中學

我咁睇,

聽你講完, 我再睇多左一次上面既留言

無錯, 大家言詞上都有互窒對方, 但第一句有問題既留言我覺得係呢句.....

hahahaha

你係橫蠻老屎忽思想姐

by ...... - 05/08/07 11:12

唔知你又點睇呢?

我自己冇問父母升中問題, 同樣自己解決, 我只係明白有啲人好被動, 如果有人覺得問父母等如羞恥, 是否閣下同父母溝通不足?

我大學選科都有同父母商量.

一開始hahaha對村姑msg段章取義 , 否則唔只幾個人質疑F.3問父母 why not?.

而家d 人, 真係身在福中不知福, 一尾覺得自己最慘最慘, 除左幸兒既經歷之外, 其他人簡直睇到我想笑, 真係唔明點解有人會咁諗野! 有人同你地講你地幾幸福, 就要鬧人係老屎忽, 呢一代既小朋友, 俾父母縱壞曬就有大把... 父母關心, 又可以嫌棄父母管住曬, 父母俾自由咩, 又可以blame 父母唔理你, 父母唔識得教, 俾錢請人教, 都可以 blame 媽咪淨係識得用錢解決問題... 你地係咪太細個? 到你地大個 d, 成熟 d, 就會明白今日所講既說話係幾咁過份!

我70年代尾出世

中三升中四有淘汰試，兩個人有一個會被篩走，可能冇書讀，要做車房

去到中七畢業，學校都冇電腦堂上

大學係自己做野供自己讀

兜兜轉轉行錯左好多路

父母都冇能力比意見我

但真係從來都冇諗過怪佢地

自己嘅路自己揀

父母都會揀錯

唔通到時又怪父母比錯意見?

不過我都聽聞而家讀書好大壓力

既然都生左出黎

睇開d啦

wow

就要鬧人係老屎忽,

老屎忽係我講, 你想對我講, 出聲, 仲有你係咪妄想, 你可以將幾不同人幾段說話, 幻化成一個人背景,大家出來社會工都有壓力, 你係咪壓力過大, 你諗得咁精彩既

閱讀理解...

唔好意思, 我唔覺得hahaha有任何問題, 事實上, 我睇完村姑成段野我都覺得佢媽媽只係欠缺知識, 但都尊重個女叫佢自己揀科同坦誠講出黎話自己唔識, 點能夠怪媽媽? 媽媽唔識得教, 都肯俾錢請識得教既人教個小朋友, 又有咩問題? 真係唔理就連呢d錢都唔會俾啦... 講真, 你分身咁鬧hahaha, 我都睇唔過眼囉...

明白你感受

cheer up

wow

原來我一路跟同一個人講野? 哦! 令到你有咁豐富想像力幻想一餐

喂, 你好喇喎, 係咪而家留言要你批准? 唔可以有感而發? 一定要一個一個咁回應先可以留言? 唔幫你就要俾你鬧埋一份? 除左你, youth 都有鬧人老屎忽, 你係咪想認埋有呢個分身? 上面有人講得冇錯, 你似有狂躁症, 狗都唔會亂咁咬人啦! 無端端鬧埋我, 真係...

wow

重申, 我只針對中三選科問父母問題, 不是村姑問題

wow

你係狗我地最多攞去人道毁滅, 你係精神有問題, 我地先驚, 你無情情所謂有感而發鬧人在先, 仲要幻想力咁豐富, 你加插乜都得, 或者只有網上先可令你有滿足感, 現實生活你冇

而家完全明白曬, 唔係父母唔識得教, 係而家 d 小朋友根本就俾人縱壞曬, 就算同佢地講道理, 唔o岩聽就鬧返你轉頭, 唔好話教, 唔俾個小朋友打已經要去還神...

總之要增加社區援助, 幫助一啲精神有問題既人

總之要增加社區援助, 幫助一啲精神有問題既人

by ...... - 05/08/07 12:56 <--- 第一個咪係要幫助你lor