我同男朋友, 分開3個月冷靜期, 係呢3個月裹面有乜野方法同做乜野可以令大家和好如初?





  • 咁就要睇下你同佢因咩事分開, 不過分開3個月都係好事, 你唔洗去做d咩去令大家和好如初, 不如比時間大家去唸清楚對方係唔係適合自己.



  • 佢話順其自然...但呢段時間唔想一齊, 我同佢講大家不如分開冷靜3個月...


    佢話我都可以搵佢出黎食飯



  • 咁好明顯, 個男仔對你已經變�髐艉F. 你都瀟灑D, 留返個好印像比佢.



  • 大家一齊時..佢覺得冇曬自己既空間, 為左我佢冇左好多發展機會,佢覺得好大壓力, 見到我好唔開心, 我可以點做?



  • 做咩都無用了. 佢都覺得見到你唔開心, 你不如由得佢靜下啦. 你自己都靜下來唸下佢係唔係�琝A.



  • 點解要冷靜期?不如直接分手罷啦.





    我都好唔開心.



  • Jane sorry,妳唔駛理我,我唔開心發up風.



  • What's happened to you??


    大家一起已5年了..我不想相信就咁冇左



  • You already said this is a 冷靜期, let's clam down and think if you still love him (not jus because of 大家一起已5年了..)





    If your bf can live well without you, then let him go la




  • 冇嘢可以做......99.9%會分手!!



  • 冷靜期係俾大家一個空間去想清楚俩人之間的問題所在. 如果只係麻木地想盡辦法怎樣和好如初, 問題依然存在, 終有一日大家也會感覺很累.



  • ((佢話順其自然...)) he is right





    ((我同佢講大家不如分開冷靜3個月...)) also good idea





    ((做乜野可以令大家和好如初?)) no need to do, just 順其自然...



  • 你應該勞力去upgrade自己﹐擴闊你的眼目﹐發展自己的興趣。做個獨立﹐有個性的女人。你以前就係缺乏這些令你男友“窒息”﹐他需要出來吸下新鮮空氣﹐你就放過他啦﹗


    去等他知道你無了他﹐你的生活還充實和精彩過以前﹐讓他看見新的你﹐可能他會後悔﹐回頭追返你。造女仔要馨香D﹐死纏只會令他覺得你煩加無曬做人尊嚴﹗



  • 事實就係:當佢離開咗你,佢會覺得好舒服,好自由。唔使成日諗住要點樣氹你,講野做野都要驚你唔中意。





    雖然佢好欣賞你嘅優點,雖然佢好中意你,





    但一想到以前嗰五年點樣受管束,點樣冇曬自己。 就乜嘢復合嘅意願都冇曬。





    所以你最緊要諗下自己係唔係認爲


    服從 = 愛!




  • 3個月冷靜期?? 係唔係即係分手呀? 3個月後可能同你講"沒有你可能已經習慣了"嗎?? 如果, 佢係因為沒有空間, 你就這3個月學習擁有自己空間, 大家都好獨立, 你也要學習自己顧自己, 咁真係係返一齊才會長久同解決大家之間的問題.





  • 佢話要 3 個月黎 calm down 定你 suggest.





    我覺得如果係佢 suggest... 其實佢係想分手... 但又唔想太 hurt 你.... 因為如果話分就即刻分... 仲 hurt..





  • 佢話要 3 個月黎 calm down 定你 suggest.





    我覺得如果係佢 suggest... 其實佢係想分手... 但又唔想太 hurt 你.... 因為如果話分就即刻分... 仲 hurt..



  • 我都係咁諗...因為佢依家有野煩緊



  • 我覺得佢重有小小關心我....今日我見過佢, 佢問我上次download D野點...我話唔成功...佢叫我今晚打比佢, 佢教我...但我知道佢見到我時好似好大壓力.



  • 三個月冷靜係我suggest



  • 好多謝你地比咁多寶貴意見我...我諗我知點做



  • Jane~怎樣呀...你們有無和好如初...?不如試下求月老昇君...好多人拜左都和好如初or 感情好左~



  • agree replied last month :





    ((做乜野可以令大家和好如初?)) no need to do, just 順其自然...


    ......





    But if they need to be together again, there must be someone who takes the FIRST step to do something wor.





    RH replied last month :


    .........................................





    你應該勞力去upgrade自己﹐擴闊你的眼目﹐發展自己的興趣。做個獨立﹐有個性的女人。你以前就係缺乏這些令你男友“窒息”﹐他需要出來吸下新鮮空氣﹐你就放過他啦﹗


    去等他知道你無了他﹐你的生活還充實和精彩過以前﹐讓他看見新的你﹐可能他會後悔﹐回頭追返你。造女仔要馨香D﹐死纏只會令他覺得你煩加無曬做人尊嚴﹗


    ......





    "upgrade自己﹐擴闊你的眼目﹐發展自己的興趣。做個獨立﹐有個性的女人。" is good, but it may not be related to your attitude/manner and act towards your boyfriend. Your boyfriend may still feel "窒息”if you still keep your way/style.





    "等他知道你無了他﹐你的生活還充實和精彩過以前﹐讓他看見新的你﹐可能他會後悔﹐回頭追返你。" is not correct. If he no longer loves you, no matter 你的生活還充實和精彩過以前, he still will not return to you.



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