男....女.....real friendship??





  • it could be, but difficult. I had one male fd for 2 yrs, but eventually, he said he wants me to be his GF.





    However, I still have one good male fd, we have been good fd for 10 yrs.



  • 究竟男同女friendship係未真係存在??


    好想聽下你地的睇法, 經驗



  • 朋友關係好容易建立


    但係男同女好容易過界


    之前嘅朋友關係都沒有了



  • are u male or female?





    Do you have good fd before? I means in different sex.



  • 存在. But hard to keep since their bf/gf/hd/wife would try everything to kill the friendship.



  • may





    你同the male who want you to be his gf


    之後點??. 仲可唔可以做朋友?



  • "之前嘅朋友關係都沒有了"





    U are right, I didn't keep contact with my 2 yrs fd once he proposed.... I am not angry or else... only I feel that I can't share my thinking with him anymore because I didn't want him misunderstand.



  • i am male





    唔係係未我係男仔.


    有時同女仔傾傾下會有好感..... 不知所措



  • dent


    also I feel that what he did or talked to me in the past is not becuase friendship; those are because he wants me to be his gf...... I didn't say that is wrong.... only the meaning changed.



  • 所以我覺得. 同一個人的關係


    真係好單向. 一定由朋友開始. 情人...


    如果唔可以做情人.... no reture



  • dent


    yes, at the beginning, we are really good friend, I treated him and even he treated me is pure friendship.... but when time goes by, he said he start having good feeling to me....





    I beleive that guy is more easy to out of control then female.



  • e





    係因為唔係好多人會認為有real friendship


    好難explain the difference between friendship and love if there is misunderstanding



  • hi, may i join?



  • dent


    do you having a good feeling to your Female friend now?



  • 大家要有一段relationship


    就唔可以有誤會 either love or friendship


    no confusion



  • but be truth, other then very old good friend, I feel that having guy friend is easiler then having girl friend. I didn't know why other then my high school friend, all my new friends are male.



  • ANYONE WELCOME





    I think most ppl have doubt on this topic


    sometimes.




  • sorry, I mis type "dent" in last post.





    I am may



  • dent





    haha, u have the same Nickname with me



  • 大家要有一段relationship


    就唔可以有誤會 either love or friendship


    no confusion





    very agree. actually a good friend will treat you very good, (otherwise, you won't call good friend la); therefore, you must be very clear mind that what he/she did to you or even what yourself did to him/her is from friendship, not Love.





    I beleive that under this logic, you can have good friendship in different sex.



  • 因為同異性start a relationship一定會容易d,我之前都會同唔同嘅女仔做friend,


    但係好多時,個女仔會有feel.有時又會有誤會.... so make friend with girl真係要有學問



  • dent





    haha, u have the same Nickname with me





    by Dent - 03/19/07 15:25





    no la, that is me, May, I mistype your nickname. sorry



  • 因為同異性start a relationship一定會容易d





    yes,I feel the same way, but don't know why?



  • 你可以control yourself what u think


    but sometimes others' mind is out of your control



  • my 10 yrs guy fd still my fd la, perhaps we know each other too well, so won't misunderstand lor



  • 因為依個係天性





    男同女攻生就係吸引對方



  • 你可以control yourself what u think


    but sometimes others' mind is out of your control





    so when I feel that he is having other thinking to me, I will slow down or not contract, since I don't like to give him wrong signal. In this case, you will lose a friend ga la.



  • 當大家都知道無可能進一步





    friendship buildup



  • dent


    what will you do when you find your female friend having other thinking to you?



  • 但係唔係個個都去到"大家都知道無可能"





    過程中有好多人已經giveup







  • 當大家都知道無可能進一步





    friendship buildup





    what do u means??




  • i need to Leave fro while , come back later





    May, Thank u for sharing with u





    hope that i meet you when i come back



  • may be I am very simple person, I did not feel that he is treat me like GF until he speak out. I always feel that he treats me nice due to we are pure friendship.







  • dent


    sure! good day!



  • may.





    所以唔想有誤會


    最好唔好對異性朋友咁好...







  • Latte??





    你有冇類似問題??



  • 但係好多時我都係做唔到


    時時都會有誤會



  • Dent





    我都覺得係.....對佢地好d,陪佢地多小小.就俾左錯覺佢.........到佢開口個時.都唔知點算好



  • 妹豬





    你身邊會唔會有好多男性朋友?



  • Dent





    我比較男仔頭,份人好直接,所以身邊男多過女...........不過好在咁耐以黎都係得2個fd誤會左~



  • 妹豬





    可能係同你個性格有關


    如果你同身邊所有人都係咁好


    自然誤會會少啲




  • 妹豬





    你會點同個fd講, 如果你feel到有啲問題?



  • to all visitors.





    如果大家對依個topic有咩view


    都可以leave message


    大家共同建立real friendship between boys and girls



  • Dent





    一黎啦~二黎我當佢地係兄弟咁~佢地都覺得我似男仔多過女仔



  • 你都係當佢係兄弟都無所謂





    反之, 如果the one u love當你係兄弟, 仲難受




  • Dent





    我咪同佢講我地永遠都係好朋友lo~再整個


    friendship forever俾佢~等佢冇得講



  • hi Dent, you are back!!





    I also go check out my stock, the stock market raise up very quick nearly close time.





    所以唔想有誤會


    最好唔好對異性朋友咁好...


    Sorry I don't agree, if the guy is really good person, I won't avoiding him simply because I am afraid he will misunderstanding wor.







  • Dent





    我就覺得冇問題lo~咁我本身個人係咁。如果佢係唔鍾意我的話,我唔當佢兄弟佢都係唔鍾意咖,right~



  • may





    你係stock agent??


    um.... 依個係我朋友俾我嘅advice


    佢地認為我對girls 太快. 會problem making



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