如果一個男仔成日會同你講,驚同你做左情侶或發生關係後,就會冇朋友做,又或者係問搞完之後/玩厭之後會唔會唔理佢,呢個男仔心態是什麼?





  • 呢個男仔心態咪係 '趙完鬆' 囉.


    事前同妳暗示啫, 事後佢當妳心甘情願.



  • 心態低能



  • 吾想做你男朋友,不過想同你發生關係,但又怕你之後會前住他



  • 你地搞錯左啦


    我覺得版主個意思係,個男仔怕個女仔趙完鬆,所以咁講





    好明顯版主係個俾人感覺好playful 既女仔


    而個男仔就想長久既



  • 搞錯左:





    你咁叻既=.=!!


    個男仔好細個,佢20,我26,佢細細個時就識我了,識左6年都有,但只係最近先見,佢成日話覺得同我冇將來



  • 想係想同你做完之後要負責任...





    你叫佢唔好再講啦





    再唔尊重你





    只係想同你上床..







  • 輝仔,唔係好明你講咩





    你係咪叫佢唔好再講,再講即係唔尊重我,只想同我上床,因為你第1句話佢係想同你做完之後要負責任...




  • 唔通我講既野真係好難明咩..?





    你知唔知乜野叫潛移默化(我差D唔記左點打)





    佢一路同你講,你又唔反對,你慢慢就會覺得佢咁講或者咁做都冇乜野問題..呢D係一個說服人的技巧,即係一個人不斷講話呢一樣野係好,你慢慢就會覺得係好一樣





    其實佢講到明只係想同你上床


    只是怕你同佢上完床之後要負責任


    即係只係想玩下你,爽一下..



  • 即係誘導我思想,佢就係驚要負責任或我死纏難打,所以咁樣講



  • 都可以咁講啦...





    你一開頭都可以反感


    之後就會慢慢覺得佢只係講下笑,冇所謂





    再之後真係同佢上床後...哈



  • 版主


    我就唔係咁睇


    我覺得係你係個俾人感覺好playful 既女仔,佢擔心你玩佢,怕你會趙完鬆





    其實,你係咪俾人感覺好playful?





    點解會識左6年,但只係最近先見?


    佢點解成日話覺得同你無將來?因為大家性格、背景問題?



  • 因為係我背景問題.


    年齡,性格反而不是問題.





    比較長篇,唔好意思:





    我同佢係玩online game識,個時冇諗過會出黎,因為佢比較靜,幾乖個種,唔係係game裡面一大班人出黎玩的那些,而且,識佢個陣佢又好細個呢,我不嬲都當佢係細路仔之嘛=.=,到後來,我一早就冇玩隻game,但係大家都會keep住icq/msn,都知道大家近況的.係呢排新年先見第一次,年三廿晚我搵佢出黎睇戲,我當時係同梗兩個fd,佢話覺得我無啦啦叫佢出黎唔知係咪會放飛機.佢性格比較怪,唔知佢諗咩.


    我本身就唔係playful人,係鐘意亂講野,講笑咁囉,咁有時大家做fd,我諗住唔講邊有得笑咋.





    我仲有d比較私人的問題,我可唔可以私底下問你呢?!因為感覺上你會清楚同幫到我解答.




  • 哦, 簡單啦.


    咁睇女板主想收心養性未啫.


    妳覺得呢件 '乖仔' 直得妳定落嚟, 咪ok囉~~



  • 是否佢係剛剛成熟





    想心痕痕試下....而又唔係喜歡你...


    但又怕同你的關係會變差







  • 他有認左係喜歡我,但佢本身係冇乜朋友,真正傾到計那種,佢話怕同左我一齊之後,到時鬧左交會冇fd做,咪成日問我玩厭左佢之後會唔會唔理佢囉,又成日講話識左我好耐



  • 妳係受佢嘅, 使鬼諗咁多野咩.


    要搵水泡, 倍飲倍玩嘅仔,


    唔好攪啲乖架啦.





    繼續做fren囉



  • 如果係咁


    佢都有幾強烈的自卑感





    但不如只繼續同佢做fds...


    佢仲細,佢可以識多D朋友,擴大自己的眼光仲好...





    你當佢係弟弟,咪同佢講清楚


    只係純姊弟關係囉.



  • so funny of tgis boy.





    tell you my ture story, a friend of mine who knew me over 15 yrs, said such similar words to me :





    ' if we are together someday, we better not have sex , because I believe sexless will make our relationship last longer and more pure and happy.'





    the truth is we have sex few days later, so I agree with 輝仔, maybe he is 潛移默化 you now.





    his words let me put down the defense of ''be careful this man may want to cheat u in bed.''





    this ' friend'' now became my husband.^_^



  • that's why most men dun understand women. only a few can ;-)



  • 版主


    想問,私人問題係有關乜野?點解唔可以拎出黎講?





    睇完你既回應,我對佢有兩個諗法:


    有關「放飛機」—


     佢擔心你會放飛機,即係根本佢對你都唔信任,可能因為係初相識


     雖然你話自己唔係playful girl,但可能你既表現俾唔到信心�


     佢係咪覺得你playful 我唔知,但可能佢覺得你唔夠好、乖


     因而覺得你對感情唔太認真,擔心你係玩玩下


    有關「佢無乜朋友」—


     聽你講,佢都應該係一個乖男仔,而且內向、被動、朋友少


     我覺得,佢唔想同你一齊,上面都講過,可能覺得你對感情唔太認真


     仲有,因為佢朋友少,但又覺得你係一個好朋友


     擔心如果一齊之後會鬧交、分手,唔想最後搞到無左你呢個好朋友


    呢一點係個人經驗,我對一個朋友有好感,但因為識左都幾年同埋唔想影響我地之間個友誼關係,我係刻意抑壓對佢既感覺



  • 版主


    但係我又覺得好奇怪,點解佢會提到搞野呢?


    照計如果正正經經一個男仔


    佢會擔心同你做左情侶後,如果有咩事鬧交、分手就會無朋友做


    但唔會提及到如果發生關係、你搞完╱玩厭之後會唔理佢喎





    你地之間成日會講有關sex 既野?








    其實如果諗壞d,其他人講既野都唔係無可能


    佢成日同你提及性,等你習慣左,佢再講時你會覺得無咩野


    又或者,佢成日都同你講擔心你搞完之後會鬆人,咁你為左證明你唔係咁既人,就同佢做(呢個就係佢個目的,等你自動獻身)


    你唔好話誇張╱無可能,有d 女仔就係咁傻,會證明俾人睇








    其實你對佢有無感覺?鍾意佢?


    而你對佢既說話「驚你……會唔理佢」又有咩感想?



  • 其實系唔系版主形像 playful。所以個男仔......"吾想做你男朋友,不過想同你發生關係,但又怕你之後會前住他,"即趙完鬆。



  • 佢呢句同無分別





    係同時佢可以唸住大條道理同你反面





    呢條友智障都無論,你同佢一齊=同白痴.


    連玩女人都要講到甘.要搵件玩玩下既男仔,使搵件咁低b既人?




  • 我驚係度講佢會知,因為佢知我有係度睇開野





    其實我係結左婚,不過我同我老公就有問題,而且佢幾年都唔會掂我,但佢出面一定係冇女人!!佢識我時唔知道的,以為我係有bf,因為我冇返工,以為係bf養我,係後期佢先知,佢係不嬲鐘意d大過佢既女仔





    但係,前幾日我同佢搞左,撇佢反而又冇,仲有搵我,佢同我講覺得大家冇將來,問我有冇諗過佢第時會有gf,我話有,但冇諗你係依家,跟住佢唔知係咪試我,話佢ex最近搵返佢,sms同打電話"銳"佢,想復合,佢諗梗覺得同我冇將來,唔知好唔好同返ex一齊,但又唔知ex返黎係咩心態,動機,想試下先,跟住我話要即刻斬纜,佢話點解我會咁絕,問我係咪玩完就算=.=,我話我唔會夾係你地兩個中間,冇意思,同ex分手原因係因為人地覺得佢冇錢,加上ex又成日同exbf出街,所以拍左幾年就散左,散左都有幾年.





    依家又覺得好煩,佢聽日叫我出街,又唔係咁想出,因為佢本身要比好多錢屋企,同佢出街又覺得要洗好錢唔好,我比又驚佢會自卑(佢係呢類人)




  • 佢同ex分手原因係因為人地屋企人嫌佢冇錢,佢依家就算好d,有份好工,我覺得佢都唔知係咪試我,因為之前問過佢如果ex搵返佢,會唔會一齊,佢話唔會.


    佢又唔係出黎玩既人,成日返工放工放假都係係屋企,佢份人好悶



  • 至於佢成日講話驚我會唔理佢,聽完都冇乜特別感覺既,因為真係識左好耐,佢唔係成日提sex,佢之前係話覺得同我一齊左之後/或發生關係後,大家關係會變左.



  • 即係其實你已經同佢做過..=.=?



  • 你點解要同佢搞?


    你同佢又唔係情侶關係





    點解你聽完都冇乜特別感覺?


    照計好人好者唔會成日同個朋友講有關性既問題



  • 初時仲以為你係好女仔





    點知……


    你結左婚、又唔係佢女朋友,但你……





    我真係對你好失望……


    點解你要搞到咁賤?




  • 版主你都幾好野,結左婚之後同第二個男人上埋床都仲可以話自己唔playful....


    都唔知你開個topic黎做乜,一開頭隱瞞左咁多細節,叫人點樣同你分析? 真係全部人都俾你fig哂



  • 根本一開始你就想同人床


    扮曬受害人、俾人呃



  • 版主去左邊?


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