好矛盾!有冇人可以幫下我呀?





  • 今下個月25歲, 中五學歷, 之前幾年都係做補習老師,一年前做左4個幾月行政文員之後就冇做野喇(因為有左bb), o係有bb 既日子, 我讀左以及考左Book keeping first and second level, 打算生完出黎搵野做都易d, 但我下個月就生bb喇, 我好想自己湊bb, 雖然老公養得起我地, 但我唔想一世做c 奶, 如果我而家唔做野之後都好難搵到野做, 但如果我做野, 我真係唔知邊個可以幫我照顧bb( 我媽咪話幫我但我想bb o係我身邊, 如果媽咪幫我湊bb就要去媽咪度住)





    點好呀,有冇好主意??


    PS: 我唔會請工人OR俾奶奶湊




  • 邊有咁兩全其美的方法架, 又想全職照顧bb又想全職做野~?



  • 我就係想一係湊仔,一係做野, 唔知點解決




  • Take care of baby for the time being. When baby is 2 you can send him to Nursery in morning and hire a helper to take care of him in afternoon. Don't wait until you started working to hire helper. Hire the helper ahead of times and spend a couple of months to make sure she understands how to take care of your baby. Your mom can also help check up on the baby from time to time.


    Baby grows up so fast, if you don't spend more time with him now, you will surely regret later.


    Don't worry. You'll have no problem finding a job in the future. HK job market is very robust.


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