儲緊錢結婚,點知有左,又唔可以要,好煩呀!





  • 同男朋友儲緊錢結婚,

    因為我阿爸係超古老既人,

    話1定要擺酒先得!



    我男朋友又唔想我阿爸睇唔起佢,

    話1定要努力儲錢,等我嫁得好睇d,



    點知今日驗到有左

    我唔可以要佢呀,點算?好想喊



  • 既然打算結婚, 已經是成年人, 大家亦視對方為終身伴侶, bb只是早了一點來到, 你們要有承擔, 不能光為老父面子, 坦白說出尋求解決辦法. 老父是傳統人, 他不會接受女兒墮胎, 做父母當然想女兒嫁得風光, 但便希望她嫁後會幸福.



  • 咁大個人, 做事要有承擔, 為左嫁得風光好睇, 而唔要一條生命, 作為女人及準媽媽, 我會仲睇唔起你地兩個.



    無野比生命更可貴, bb係你兩個既, 你地當然可以決定佢既去留, 但做決定之後, 唔好後悔呀!



    作為已經人, 兼準媽媽的我, 只想話比你知, 婚禮儀式係做比人睇, 個伴同埋bb先係同你一生一世既,











  • Just get married NOW if you really like each other...be responsible, if you guys are not ready, don't give birth.



    Forget about the grand wedding...do what you can afford.



  • 其實我都好想快d結婚

    亦都好想要個BB

    但我阿爸話唔可以咁早結婚

    我唔敢話佢知我有左

    佢話我今年得20歲,未係時候

    之後就話:冇得傾!

    好唔開心呀,男朋同家人點揀?

    如果堅持結婚

    就可能冇左屋企人

    好煩呀



  • 結左婚唔會無左屋企人架!

    你諗清楚個男人係咪可以過人世好過啦!

    你男朋友係愛你的話,點解性行為時唔帶套?

    佢係錫你的話,會關心你,會為你著想!!



    你爸爸可能會好嬲,

    因為你地係做錯左,唔應該咁快就有bb...

    你地兩個都未有心理準備的話,

    性行為就要小心啦!

    而家都有左了...你又唔會唔要bb

    咁為有就係同屋企人講...遲早都要講

    點解唔早d講呢?



    有左bb要萬事小心,心境開朗~

    笑住去面對吧 ^^ 傻妹!



  • 你男友點睇件事?



    你得20歲, 唔怪得你爸爸會覺得早婚, 但家下bb都有埋, 你一定要老實同佢地講





  • 20歲真係細左d既, 我都係20歲生bb, 雖然結左婚, 不過好後悔好後悔呀, 後悔冇落到呢個bb, e+搞緊離婚



    祝你地好運, 唔好行我條舊路



  • If you are only 20, you really have to think if ur boyfriend is a responsible type and take care of BOTH of you for the REST of your lives. Also do you really love him that much? R u mature to be a mother?



  • 男朋友既家人唔介意我地結婚

    不過唔建議我地生個BB出黎

    佢地話唔想個BB辛苦,咩都冇喎



    阿爸

    到左今時今日都係唔敢講

    佢好唔鍾意d人未結婚就有左

    我怕佢會打死我呀

    而且,我唔想佢對我男朋友不滿



    就2個月啦

    落定唔落好?



  • 雖則話你得20歲, 但都叫做成年人, 做左既事就要負擔後果同面對, 個bb係條生命, 唔係小朋友玩泥沙, 話落就落.



    自己做崏事, 就自己去決定, 問我地做乜呀!



  • 你係 BB 既媽咪, 話真, 個決定權係你到, 有乜話邊個鐘唔鐘意o者, 你老豆只係你個 BB 既公公, 你有得咁大個女, 唔通一條人命唔緊要得過其他人鐘唔鐘意咩?? 就算係你結左婚之後先生, 都唔好指示其他人要 take care 個 bb 啦, 唔通仲要上一輩既人同佢帶大個 bb??? 個 end result 都係一樣, 都係 BB 既爸爸媽媽 take care + 安排 take care 佢既一切架啦. 咁大個女, 仔都有 law, lee d 係緣份, 老人家見到 BB 多數會心軟, 世事無一定, 就算點都好都係要靠自己架啦, 佢地幫到手咪當係 bounus law, 大個女啦, 仔都有就要堅強 d, 做乜都好都唔會個個人都滿意架啦, 最緊要係你 + 你老公溝通好架o者.


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