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  • 我同佢係中學同學,係中三時拍拖,拖左幾個月後就散左!!! 事隔一年後,佢問我可唔可以做返朋友,我話冇問題.......................





    後來,我同佢間中都會傾電話同出街食飯,但只限朋友關係,佢有咩唔開心或者解決唔到的事都會找我,有時仲係深夜打電話來,一講就幾個鐘。佢連同佢男朋友閙交以及同屋企人唔開心的事都同我講,每次同男朋友分手都會找我訴苦。甚至唔够膽去買事後藥,都會叫我去陪佢買,有次佢以為有左,但又剛好同男朋友分手,仲夜晚點幾打來問我點算好.......





    到現在都有成十年啦,佢剩係會在有事的時候搵我,連MPF都要我幫佢填。有時認為佢都幾煩.............



  • she asked for your help


    and you didn't refused


    so what's the problem?



  • CONTINUE...................





    雖然覺得佢好煩,但始終放心唔落,因為佢有時唸野都幾單純。但性格就唔係太好,係我朋友心目中佢係個比較濫的女仔,而且性格偏激,冇咩人緣。所以,我都冇同我的朋友講仲有同佢連絡。有次,佢同佢男朋友分手,打來同我訴苦,仲問我打唔打"友誼波",我即時拒絕左佢,仲同佢講話以後唔好提呢樣野,否則反面。老實講,我同佢從來沒發生過關係,連KISS都沒試就已經分左手啦....





    可能日子內左的關係,習慣左佢有事會打俾我,並冇咩問題,後來仲當佢好似妹的看待。不過係舊年,我公司突然間話要一個月後CLOSE,咁啱屋企又有問題,真係屋漏偏逢連夜雨,個人好DOWN, 於事打個電話找佢傾下,點知佢話唔得閑,叫我遲D打給佢。OK, 隔左幾日打給佢,問佢可唔可以傾幾分鐘,佢話等住同男友出街,話夜D打返給我,結果等到我間公司CLOSE左,佢都未打返給我,當時真係心都淡埋,發現自己連幾分鐘的時間都唔值。







  • looks like she's selfish


    ask yourself, you think she treat you as a friend? or just use you as a free 'bun bun'?



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    唸返以前,同佢出街食飯都係我俾錢,其實都冇咩所謂,但佢同我講佢男朋出街食飯都會慳D,很可惜以我觀察所得,佢同我去食飯從來都唔會睇價錢牌的,有時我都會唸有種給人搵笨的感覺,你男朋友的係錢,我的就唔係錢..........





    舊年佢生日,因為我剛好轉新公司,工作比較多,冇時間去簡禮物給佢,(其實我每年都記得佢生日,唔得閑送禮物都會SENT SMS給佢,祝佢生日快樂。) 於是,上網訂左份禮物給佢,因為唔想留全名係個網站度,所以張卡個署名都係留個姓,其實我個姓係香港冇咩人有,我估佢會知啦。點知佢收完都唔知係邊個送,到個網站的員工打來話我知已經送左去,我跟住問佢收唔收到,佢仲問我點知佢會收到禮物,話唔知係咩人送,佢問過曬D人都話唔係。我問佢記唔記得我姓咩,佢居然答唔出,仲問我問來做咩,真係給佢激死...................最可憐的係佢從來都唔記得我幾時生日.....













  • forget it, she does not care about you. if i were you, i would leave her for a period of time. Due to her bad personailty, she will break up with her bf shortly again and she will call you again. Don't pick up that phone, just treat her the way she treated you.





    btw, I think you still in love with her. not a sister / brother relationship... i may be wrong, that's how i feel it...





    sorry....



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    前幾日,以前女朋友(中學畢業後的,下文用"她"表示)打電話來,問我近況如何,話她就來結婚,問我去唔去飲。回首以往,其實她對我很好,而且肯為我付出同改她的小姐脾氣,又識為我地的未來打算.....好可惜自己冇好好珍惜。同她傾完電話後, 唸左幾日,自己係人際關係的處理實在太差..............





    應該擺更多的時間以及精神去珍惜自己的屋企人以及關心自己的人,記得以前佢叫我出去時,我連同我阿媽飲茶都推左,真係有D不孝。





    有D人無論你對佢幾好,佢都唔會對你好的。正所謂你當人係寶,人當你係草。雖然佢現時打來找我時仲係哥前哥後,但連呢個哥姓咩都唔知,可想呢個哥在她心目中的地位.............





    講到呢到,我好想問下呢度的網友,如果我想結束左呢段自以為是的兄妹情會否太不近人情或太絶,希望各位能給些意見...............





    因為我真係想將來能夠用多點的時間去珍惜真心待我的人.............



  • That is the end of my story............





    I hope that you can give me some advise.



  • 咁都得 ?


    我睇完仲以為你講緊我既朋友添


    佢又係間唔中會同我食下飯


    食飯九成九係我請


    同男朋友唔開心先搵我


    性格單純又任性又係比較濫既人


    直至兩星期前


    有次佢約我出黎我叫佢以後唔好再搵我


    我唔覺得自己太不近人情同太絶


    因為我知道


    我響佢身上既時間已經用完


    要做既要比既已經做哂比哂


    係時候離開�


    比佢同比自己一個新既空間去接觸其他人


    我就係咁諗



  • 版主





    我覺得我有啲似你朋友


    有咩問題, 小問題, 我又係好鍾意搵果位朋友


    你好似我某個朋友對我好好


    不過呢你朋友仲離譜, 而你對佢仲好好多


    而我會分清友誼, 咩友誼波, 我唔會


    如果人地對我咁好, 我一定記得


    就算我今日唔得閒搵呢個朋友, 日後有日我點都會打電話問候一聲





    但係以你情況, 我覺得你朋友都好過份


    我認為你同佢絶交, 係好正路


    反正你同佢交往仲要令到你唔開心, 何苦




  • 我認為你同佢絶交, 係好正路


    反正你同佢交往仲要令到你唔開心, 何苦


    by .. - 01/24/07 10:49





    yup, don't waste your time anymore,


    she doesn't deserve your attention,


    she is very selfish and just use you,


    you're right, you should care more about your family & REAL friends










  • 唔好主動同佢決絕....等佢下次搵你個時先講: 無時間, 一陣覆.





    低處不算低, 深處未見底



  • 佢點對你, 你點對番佢就得啦...駛咩煩喎


    佢搵你時, 你有心情有時間就應酬下佢, 冇心情冇時間既就收佢線, 耍走佢囉, 反正你唔同佢維持朋友關係, 對你似乎都冇咩損失呀, 將你d心思去對d值得你去愛護, 同珍惜你care你既人把啦



  • wfl2006





    唔好對一個唔重視你既人咁上心啦,就算你而家開始唔再理佢,佢都可能無乜所謂,係你自己一路介意唔係佢介理, 你要對自己好d!



  • thanks a lot!!!!





    可能真係自己以前太執著同心軟...............



  • 聽完你講, 覺得個女仔係一個有便宜唔洗頸既人. 其實就算你對佢幾好, 佢都睇唔到架, 你對佢黎講, 難聽 D 只係一個用黎懾時間既人. 所以當你有唔開心搵佢傾訴既時候, 佢就唔願同你傾.





    試下以其人之道還自其人之身喇. 希望佢會感受到佢之前咁對你係幾咁唔岩啦!



  • 雖然我想結束呢種咁既關係,但我都唔想傷害度佢。所以用其人之道還自其人之身呢招就無謂啦 ...............





    不過都多謝你的忠告!!!!!!!!



  • 約左佢今個星期食飯,想問有咩方法或技巧唔會hurt到佢之餘又能解決件事................





    萬分感謝!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



  • most likely she won't feel being hurt,


    she might angry with you


    because she lost a free maid


    no more free gifts


    no more 'jetso'





    if i were you, i'll call her and cancel the dinner date, pointless to see her anymore.


    dinner with a friend ok, but with her? no la,


    cherish yourself, your time and your $ la


    invite your mom for a nice dinner instead of her la, so call friend shouldn't and won't treat you like this


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