拍拖10年, 無諗過會咁
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><font size="3"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">咁多年黎身邊既朋友都離離合合</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我一直都覺得自己係幸運既一個</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">同女朋友拍左</span><font face="Times New Roman">10</font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年拖</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">計畫好將來生活</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">畢業後用左幾年時間去準備結婚</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="ZH-TW"> </span>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">但係</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">有一日女朋友突然同我提出</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我所有既計劃只係我一個人既自私</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">我地之間原來已經無左愛既感覺</span><font face="Times New Roman">. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">而家所有所有都幻滅喇</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">而我</span><font face="Times New Roman">, </font><span lang="ZH-TW" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">得返一個人</span><font face="Times New Roman">……</font></font></p>
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唔好唔開心啦
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hi girl...
<br>你都係10年果位?
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係我見到你係我thread留言
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係呀..
<br>本來好唔開心, 但係而家知道無得回頭, 死左心返而可以重過新生, 再搵過一個大家都鐘意既人
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祝你成功
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有時拍左太耐拖唔結婚都唔係咁好
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版主你都幾識諗喎
<br>死心呢d野，唔係咁易做到
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係呀, 拍左太耐而唔去改變大家既生活方式, eg, 結婚 or 同居, 大家都會開始悶, 慢慢咩感覺都無曬喇
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好奇一問
<br>咁你而家同ex係咩關係?
<br>會唔會成日都搵大家?
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我就係o禁開始冇咩感覺
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jill,
<br>本來以為做到朋友,不過因為佢朋友閒言閒語令到佢好憎我, 見都唔想見lu
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相識十年的人突然變得陌生...個感覺好難受
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girl, 細水長流原來唔work架...
<br>我其實攪到結婚既地步, 但係一句 "我唔係要呢d" 就推番左我咁多年既心血, 講起上黎我應該要嬲.
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可以一下子反反曬面, 仲話要去識過第二個. 其實, 我都花左10年時間, 唔只係佢. 佢要一個有錢, 又唔洗要供樓既男人, 我仲未做到
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me
<br>但係你ex話你自私喎，結婚係你自己想，定係本身大家有共識？
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佢咁勢利，就算結左婚都係D只可以共富貴，不能共患難的人啦，你甩到身咪當自己好彩囉
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Me and girl seems pretty matched each other ... maybe you two can try try ^o^
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我同你剛相反我同佢o禁耐,身邊朋友都結婚,唉同佢講佢反問我你想我點.我又可以點.
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恭喜版主......自由無價......
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咁你同佢讀書時代已開始?
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yanyan, 係大家有左共識, 只不過係大家未到目標時, 佢已經捱唔住話要放棄喇. 佢話我地到左呢一刻只係為左結婚而結, 而唔係因為好愛而結.
<br>我好想有一個家, 一個屬於兩個人既家, 有個小朋友, 一直對將來係充滿希望的....佢一直對我都好淡, 可有可無, 所以我都好想改變呢個關係
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selma1689
<br>係呀, 讀大學時識.
<br>當年細個果陣, 只考慮夾唔夾, 但係到而家, 再搵過另一個時, 就多左好多野要考慮.
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girl, 好多男人都好似係個case唔想結婚, 但係我個case就相反wor, haha...
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me
<br>我覺得你已經好勁喇
<br>時間同環境可以改變一個人好多好多，我自己都唔肯定係咪可以對住同一個人十年咁耐......
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突然想起
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<br>日夜做 儲的錢 都應該夠 到聖誕 正好講 跟我白頭
<br>誰知她開了口 未能挨下去 已恨我很久
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<br>錯失太易 愛得太遲 我怎想到 她忍不到那日子
<br>盲目地發奮 忙忙忙從來未知 幸福會掠過 再也沒法說鍾意
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yanyan, 10年好快就過, 唔覺唔覺就過左. 雖然大家都會改變, 但係始終對身邊一個有責任, 就唔會再睇到其他人既好....
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Me
<br>愛得太遲...呢個係咪你呢次既致命傷呀？
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可能 "愛得太淡"先係致命傷....唉
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算啦心淡了
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所以如果我遇到下一個, 一定要早d同佢講結婚
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淡左又真係麻煩d既，尤其係大家都仲後生既話
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Me,你好似我男友...
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he's one of those who wants to settle down early but i'm not.
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<br>he thinks that i'm selfish but the fact is i still love him but i'm still young and getting married and having kids are definitely not my top prioirty.
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<br>i guess somehow i know how your ex feels - its the pressure that ruined the relationship.
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愛情就係咁架啦,宜家你地結婚前分開都唔係一件壞事呀,起碼可以睇清楚大家所追求既原來唔係一樣既...
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Would you like to marry me?
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No thanks!......kikikikiki......
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yee, 我ex gf 成30歲架喇.....仲邊後生呢
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Zoe, 你問邊個?
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30 years old...normally it's time to settle down for women. i think she refused to because she's still searching for someone else (someone richer who can buy a house without paying mortgage in your case). that's why no matter what u do or how good you treat her, she will not settle down with you.
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<br>Me,trust me, you derserve much better girl,
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yee, 我都曾經怪過自己,點解我唔係有錢人. 而家令到我好驚, 係唔係個個女仔都係咁, 真係好驚.
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女死女還在......整個件喇.....kikikiki.....
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我都同女朋友拍左十年，
<br>而家大家仲好好，都計劃緊結婚，
<br>大家中間都經歷好多必然既階段先可以有今日~~
<br>版主吾好灰心，呢d野吾係一個人掌握得曬，
<br>安慰你既同時我諗你有需要反思一下，
<br>事出總有因，要搵到問題出係邊，先可以避免重蹈覆切，
<br>不過你有無盡力挽留呢?
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我都同女朋友拍左十年，
<br>而家大家仲好好，都計劃緊結婚，
<br>大家中間都經歷好多必然既階段先可以有今日~~
<br>版主吾好灰心，呢d野吾係一個人掌握得曬，
<br>安慰你既同時我諗你有需要反思一下，
<br>事出總有因，要搵到問題出係邊，先可以避免重蹈覆切，
<br>不過你有無盡力挽留呢?
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可以點...一定要搵過一個好女朋友, 問題係,仲未遇到
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女之麻......家陣女多男小......擇女都擇到你眼花......
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而家令到我好驚, 係唔係個個女仔都係咁, 真係好驚
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<br>Me
<br>睇完你講既野，我夠會好驚第時萬一有個男人同自己咁耐，表明上好安穩，但原來實質上係愛得好淡，可有可無......
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<br>邊有得驚咁多！自己做完賽後檢討咪算囉
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小白,
<br>一開始已經係錯, 佢大部份時間都唔係陪我, 有時只係一個星期見一兩次, 係我要求佢"陪"我, 因為佢花大部份時間陪佢阿爸 食lunch, dinner or 去街. 我咁多年已經習慣呢種冷淡既生活, 以為結婚會改變, 點知佢應承左結婚之後一直都好後悔, 唔想離開老豆. 佢仲想結婚要威過佢d朋友,想花好多錢, 因為我要留返d錢做首期, 同佢講結婚唔好用咁多, 佢就唔高興, 想洗埋個首期, 積積埋埋,攪到反曬面
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乜你信地久天長?dodo呂方16年都分la,why you會feel 100%幸運既一個?曾經有冇諗過分?
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佢好索ga咩?you ex gf 成30歲憑咩揾有$佬?