遇唔o岩....
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<p>我, 女, 32歲, 美國大學畢業, 现工作於地產界. 性格爽朗 亦温柔.<br />我喜歡成熟, 有事業, 上進心的叻男人; 偏偏有此條件便已婚或不婚主義者.<br /><br />而身邊, 也有不少like 我的人, 但不是我杯茶.<br /><br />不止我, 我有些認識的, 與我差不多條件的女士也是單身.<br /><br />總係遇唔o岩.......</p>
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人越大要求越高
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應該係話人越叻, 眼界越廣;
<br>要求自然高.
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某個程度上.. 都係可惜的..
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你身材樣貌如何呢?
<br>呢兩樣野比學歷,工作. 性格....可能更重要
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其實你係要求高, 自己有返咁上下, 米不甘於人囉, 不過女人都係搵個條件差少少(不過又唔可以太差)不過鍚自己既人好d.
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<br>成熟+有事業+有上進心+想結婚, 哇, 呢個combination, 我自問身邊真係冇幾個. 就算結左婚既都冇幾個. 要一個咁既條件既男人鐘意你並對你專一, 我唸你冇返李嘉欣咁既樣, 鐘嘉欣咁既學識, 林嘉欣既嬌俏, 徐子淇咁既智慧, 個個男人都有太多更好的選擇
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Hi June,
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<br>Nice to meet... i am young then you abit but running own business, for myself, because of the working environment , its bit hard for me to meet different same age range ladies and only some married and old man & women ... sometime , it really depends on luck i think
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<br>樣and身材重要, 不過我覺得人品也非常非常重要. 做地產多多少少有點大女人and超拚博, 男人還是希望超級小鳥依人.
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<br>做女強人, 當然要付出代價嘛
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成熟+有事業+有上進心+想結婚, 哇, 呢個combination, 我自問身邊真係冇幾個. 就算結左婚既都冇幾個. 要一個咁既條件既男人鐘意你並對你專一, 我唸你冇返李嘉欣咁既樣, 鐘嘉欣咁既學識, 林嘉欣既嬌俏, 徐子淇咁既智慧, 個個男人都有太多更好的選擇
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<br>我bf有哂呢幾樣:D
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咁恭喜曬, 要好好珍惜喔.
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其實就算係客觀條件, 都要係睇自己既尺點度.
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<br>之前有個男朋友都叫做一個月幾萬, 成熟又溫柔, 又顧家. 可是後來識左一堆都是這樣的人, 然後有一個比較outstanding, 有自己正職都差唔多十萬, 自己仲有間公司, 極之無敵上進. 然後就覺得幾萬蚊個d好濕碎.
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<br>不過我自問唔算係超大洗, 自己讀得咁上下書又自己養得到自己. 所以都係簡返對我至好個一個. 基本條件ok, 然後有你欣賞的地方, 最重要係好愛好愛你, 咁樣就夠了.
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<br>如果看條件, 永遠是無窮無盡.
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撇除外在條件, 喜歡一個人好講feel 的.
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<br>我自問係中環OL中,外表都唔差. 有已婚男人撲來, 我即撇, 過唔到我果関, 否則上市CEO 都識到幾個做埋SL了.
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<br>可能自已都有d 本事, 我喜歡那些男人係更有本事, 處事冷靜成熟, 才可head 到我而成為小女人.
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Hi June,
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<br>I am interesting to make fds and continue more chat with you, can we chat more in private and let's share more ?
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<br>[email protected]
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咁其他你都應該有好多途徑去色到呢d男仔... 同時照咁睇唔係多男仔真係match到你..
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有時見到d 又靓女又叻, 係無男人敢埋身.
<br>低過女, 怕襯唔起;
<br>叻過女, d 男人又大把choice.
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vivian.. 男人揾老婆係通常唔會揾好靚的女仔...
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基本條件ok, 然後有你欣賞的地方, 最重要係好愛好愛你, 咁樣就夠了.
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<br>agree Santa Girl
<br>講真，條件最好既５一定岩你，除左一ｄ基本既外左條件，尊一，愛你係最緊要
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我覺得佢應該唔係好靚, 不過幾ok同埋幾叻. 不過有少少大女人, 就算有本事既男人都唔鐘意女人咁. 其實你睇下ceo個老婆係咩人, 你就知道做成功男人則邊個女人要係咩女人.
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男仔~~ 如果個老婆又靚又叻, 做男人果個即係話比人聽: "我好有本事先讨到個咁正既老婆翻來"
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<br>咁, 自已貼金lor.
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搵伴侶, 應該搵一個同你最夾得黎0既, 而唔係搵最完美0既.
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Vivian replied @ 2008-09-22 3:54 pm
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<br>男仔~~ 如果個老婆又靚又叻, 做男人果個即係話比人聽: "我好有本事先讨到個咁正既老婆翻來"
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<br>Agree, 不過個女人亦都要識做, 再叻得好低調, 唔好成日覺得自己DESERVE everything, 呢個態度會好黑男人憎.
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哈哈．． 通常如果係咁個男人唔止一個女人架啦．． ｖｉｖｉａｎ
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讀書多, 對物質, 名聲等要求越多, 同簡單既心靈需要逐一遠離, 就算搵到另一個更有學識, 更有錢有地位既人, 最終都係繼續追逐冇止境既虛幻世界.
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<br>退一步, 當你可以欣賞到自然既美好, 就算有冇身邊人, 你都會活到快樂.
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好愛好愛你, 都要當事人懂得欣賞先可以成事...
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版主, 有無諗過自己點解年過三十都仲未有著落呢?
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<br>不如試下降低自己要求先.
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佢都唔會ｌｏｗｅｒ個ｒｅｑｕｉｒｅｍｅｎｔｓ我估．．．
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我都覺.
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<br>我明白0既, 有返咁上下質素0既女人, 又係好難0既.
<br>但係, 真係歲月不留人0羅, 總之唔好後悔就得喇.
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有0的野, 真係好視乎自己睇唔睇得開.
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<br>以我為例啦~ 我係一個好普通0既女人, 讀書唔太多, 又唔係特別高質素, 不過以前追我0既人, 都係0的比我較高質素0既男士, 有有錢0既, 有係外國留學0既 (唔係野雞大學), 有大學生...... 但係我一個都唔鐘意... 直至遇到我依家呢個男朋友~
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Hello, June and Santa Girl, Kity, Dan and everyone
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<br>I am glad to see this thread. This is exactly what is happening.
<br>Congratulate to Kity who get his bf who is 成熟+有事業+有上進心+想結婚
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<br>i am happy to see Santa girl mentioned that 如果看條件, 永遠是無窮無盡.
<br>It might be good to find an optimal person and be satisfied and love each other.
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<br>June, 自已都有d 本事, 我喜歡那些男人係更有本事, 處事冷靜成熟, 才可head 到我而成為小女人. <---- That is the difficult thing.
<br>Somehow a guy who is similar to your age or career level , you just can't find you are willing to be "lead" by him...
<br>You want a strong leader role, like what you see in some CEOs, however, they are just not available.
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其實根本就係供求問題，用我做個 example。我發覺自己呢類人其實可以有好多其他機會，因為係好渴市。你諗下一個男人可以有幾個女人都好有興趣同自己發展，證明 d 咩？自己條件好好？其實我只係一般男人，唔係 d 所謂 dream men type。
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<br>妳地可能會話調返轉自己或有 d 女仔都好多人溝喎，個分別就係溝囉。溝妳唔等於係想同妳永遠一齊個 d，我諗大家都明我既意思。
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luke replied @ 2008-09-22 4:00 pm
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<br>讀書多, 對物質, 名聲等要求越多, 同簡單既心靈需要逐一遠離, 就算搵到另一個更有學識, 更有錢有地位既人, 最終都係繼續追逐冇止境既虛幻世界.
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<br>退一步, 當你可以欣賞到自然既美好, 就算有冇身邊人, 你都會活到快樂.
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<br>I agree.
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搵伴侶, 應該搵一個同你最夾得黎0既, 而唔係搵最完美0既.
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<br><---right. However, maybe the girl in my similar situation is looking for something better... It is just hard to find matching couples and they really happy and satisfied with each other
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Love is not a game of better off.
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Santa Girl Santa Girl replied @ 2008-09-22 4:59 pm
<br>Love is not a game of better off.
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<br><---- as chatmates here mentioned, it is also about feelings. If the feeling is not alright, even if the "so called qualities" match or exceed, it is just not alright.
<br>So the difficulty increases further.
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luke replied @ 2008-09-22 4:02 pm
<br>好愛好愛你, 都要當事人懂得欣賞先可以成事...
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<br><----agree... If the second party love the first party as well, then it is a sweet thing. However, if the second party don't love the first one, it become annoying or even irritating thing.
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Santa Girl replied @ 2008-09-22 4:59 pm
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<br>Love is not a game of better off.
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