遇唔o岩....



  • 我, 女, 32歲, 美國大學畢業, 现工作於地產界. 性格爽朗 亦温柔.
    我喜歡成熟, 有事業, 上進心的叻男人; 偏偏有此條件便已婚或不婚主義者.

    而身邊, 也有不少like 我的人, 但不是我杯茶.

    不止我, 我有些認識的, 與我差不多條件的女士也是單身.

    總係遇唔o岩.......



  • 人越大要求越高



  • 應該係話人越叻, 眼界越廣;

    要求自然高.





  • 某個程度上.. 都係可惜的..



  • 你身材樣貌如何呢?

    呢兩樣野比學歷,工作. 性格....可能更重要



  • 其實你係要求高, 自己有返咁上下, 米不甘於人囉, 不過女人都係搵個條件差少少(不過又唔可以太差)不過鍚自己既人好d.



    成熟+有事業+有上進心+想結婚, 哇, 呢個combination, 我自問身邊真係冇幾個. 就算結左婚既都冇幾個. 要一個咁既條件既男人鐘意你並對你專一, 我唸你冇返李嘉欣咁既樣, 鐘嘉欣咁既學識, 林嘉欣既嬌俏, 徐子淇咁既智慧, 個個男人都有太多更好的選擇



  • Hi June,



    Nice to meet... i am young then you abit but running own business, for myself, because of the working environment , its bit hard for me to meet different same age range ladies and only some married and old man & women ... sometime , it really depends on luck i think




  • 樣and身材重要, 不過我覺得人品也非常非常重要. 做地產多多少少有點大女人and超拚博, 男人還是希望超級小鳥依人.



    做女強人, 當然要付出代價嘛



  • 成熟+有事業+有上進心+想結婚, 哇, 呢個combination, 我自問身邊真係冇幾個. 就算結左婚既都冇幾個. 要一個咁既條件既男人鐘意你並對你專一, 我唸你冇返李嘉欣咁既樣, 鐘嘉欣咁既學識, 林嘉欣既嬌俏, 徐子淇咁既智慧, 個個男人都有太多更好的選擇

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    我bf有哂呢幾樣:D



  • 咁恭喜曬, 要好好珍惜喔.



  • 其實就算係客觀條件, 都要係睇自己既尺點度.



    之前有個男朋友都叫做一個月幾萬, 成熟又溫柔, 又顧家. 可是後來識左一堆都是這樣的人, 然後有一個比較outstanding, 有自己正職都差唔多十萬, 自己仲有間公司, 極之無敵上進. 然後就覺得幾萬蚊個d好濕碎.



    不過我自問唔算係超大洗, 自己讀得咁上下書又自己養得到自己. 所以都係簡返對我至好個一個. 基本條件ok, 然後有你欣賞的地方, 最重要係好愛好愛你, 咁樣就夠了.



    如果看條件, 永遠是無窮無盡.



  • 撇除外在條件, 喜歡一個人好講feel 的.



    我自問係中環OL中,外表都唔差. 有已婚男人撲來, 我即撇, 過唔到我果関, 否則上市CEO 都識到幾個做埋SL了.



    可能自已都有d 本事, 我喜歡那些男人係更有本事, 處事冷靜成熟, 才可head 到我而成為小女人.







  • Hi June,



    I am interesting to make fds and continue more chat with you, can we chat more in private and let's share more ?



    [email protected]



  • 咁其他你都應該有好多途徑去色到呢d男仔... 同時照咁睇唔係多男仔真係match到你..



  • 有時見到d 又靓女又叻, 係無男人敢埋身.

    低過女, 怕襯唔起;

    叻過女, d 男人又大把choice.







  • vivian.. 男人揾老婆係通常唔會揾好靚的女仔...



  • 基本條件ok, 然後有你欣賞的地方, 最重要係好愛好愛你, 咁樣就夠了.

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    agree Santa Girl

    講真,條件最好既5一定岩你,除左一d基本既外左條件,尊一,愛你係最緊要



  • 我覺得佢應該唔係好靚, 不過幾ok同埋幾叻. 不過有少少大女人, 就算有本事既男人都唔鐘意女人咁. 其實你睇下ceo個老婆係咩人, 你就知道做成功男人則邊個女人要係咩女人.



  • 男仔~~ 如果個老婆又靚又叻, 做男人果個即係話比人聽: "我好有本事先讨到個咁正既老婆翻來"



    咁, 自已貼金lor.





  • 搵伴侶, 應該搵一個同你最夾得黎0既, 而唔係搵最完美0既.





  • Vivian replied @ 2008-09-22 3:54 pm



    男仔~~ 如果個老婆又靚又叻, 做男人果個即係話比人聽: "我好有本事先讨到個咁正既老婆翻來"

    ==========================



    Agree, 不過個女人亦都要識做, 再叻得好低調, 唔好成日覺得自己DESERVE everything, 呢個態度會好黑男人憎.



  • 哈哈.. 通常如果係咁個男人唔止一個女人架啦.. vivian



  • 讀書多, 對物質, 名聲等要求越多, 同簡單既心靈需要逐一遠離, 就算搵到另一個更有學識, 更有錢有地位既人, 最終都係繼續追逐冇止境既虛幻世界.



    退一步, 當你可以欣賞到自然既美好, 就算有冇身邊人, 你都會活到快樂.



  • 好愛好愛你, 都要當事人懂得欣賞先可以成事...



  • 版主, 有無諗過自己點解年過三十都仲未有著落呢?



    不如試下降低自己要求先.



  • 佢都唔會lower個requirements我估...



  • 我都覺.



    我明白0既, 有返咁上下質素0既女人, 又係好難0既.

    但係, 真係歲月不留人0羅, 總之唔好後悔就得喇.



  • 有0的野, 真係好視乎自己睇唔睇得開.



    以我為例啦~ 我係一個好普通0既女人, 讀書唔太多, 又唔係特別高質素, 不過以前追我0既人, 都係0的比我較高質素0既男士, 有有錢0既, 有係外國留學0既 (唔係野雞大學), 有大學生...... 但係我一個都唔鐘意... 直至遇到我依家呢個男朋友~



  • Hello, June and Santa Girl, Kity, Dan and everyone



    I am glad to see this thread. This is exactly what is happening.

    Congratulate to Kity who get his bf who is 成熟+有事業+有上進心+想結婚



    i am happy to see Santa girl mentioned that 如果看條件, 永遠是無窮無盡.

    It might be good to find an optimal person and be satisfied and love each other.



    June, 自已都有d 本事, 我喜歡那些男人係更有本事, 處事冷靜成熟, 才可head 到我而成為小女人. <---- That is the difficult thing.

    Somehow a guy who is similar to your age or career level , you just can't find you are willing to be "lead" by him...

    You want a strong leader role, like what you see in some CEOs, however, they are just not available.



  • 其實根本就係供求問題,用我做個 example。我發覺自己呢類人其實可以有好多其他機會,因為係好渴市。你諗下一個男人可以有幾個女人都好有興趣同自己發展,證明 d 咩?自己條件好好?其實我只係一般男人,唔係 d 所謂 dream men type。



    妳地可能會話調返轉自己或有 d 女仔都好多人溝喎,個分別就係溝囉。溝妳唔等於係想同妳永遠一齊個 d,我諗大家都明我既意思。



  • luke replied @ 2008-09-22 4:00 pm



    讀書多, 對物質, 名聲等要求越多, 同簡單既心靈需要逐一遠離, 就算搵到另一個更有學識, 更有錢有地位既人, 最終都係繼續追逐冇止境既虛幻世界.



    退一步, 當你可以欣賞到自然既美好, 就算有冇身邊人, 你都會活到快樂.

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    I agree.



  • 搵伴侶, 應該搵一個同你最夾得黎0既, 而唔係搵最完美0既.



    <---right. However, maybe the girl in my similar situation is looking for something better... It is just hard to find matching couples and they really happy and satisfied with each other



  • Love is not a game of better off.



  • Santa Girl Santa Girl replied @ 2008-09-22 4:59 pm

    Love is not a game of better off.



    <---- as chatmates here mentioned, it is also about feelings. If the feeling is not alright, even if the "so called qualities" match or exceed, it is just not alright.

    So the difficulty increases further.



  • luke replied @ 2008-09-22 4:02 pm

    好愛好愛你, 都要當事人懂得欣賞先可以成事...



    <----agree... If the second party love the first party as well, then it is a sweet thing. However, if the second party don't love the first one, it become annoying or even irritating thing.



  • Santa Girl replied @ 2008-09-22 4:59 pm



    Love is not a game of better off.

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    Certainly


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