如果你女朋友要同你講分手, 你最希望佢點同你講?

[小芬]

<p>究竟點講會好受d?</p>

[小芬]

有冇人可以俾意見我呀?

[男同學]

模擬中
<br>
<br>"我識左第二個男仔喇！人地又靚仔過你又有錢過你仲要攪得我好舒服，你係愛我既就今日分手啦！"
<br>
<br>一般咁樣講完都可以死心，唔使拖拖拉拉，good！

[小芬]

但個男仔未會好傷心囉....
<br>傷左佢的自尊心....

[cool7002]

乜都唔駛講就最好 hehehe~

[小芬]

即係點?
<br>即係只係講分手就咩都唔講?

[DICK]

小芬
<br>
<br>咩都唔好講,剩係話分手,叫佢唔好再搵你,我諗會係最好的

[cool7002]

小芬 replied @ 2008-03-25 10:31 am
<br>
<br>即係點?
<br>即係只係講分手就咩都唔講?
<br>
<br>係...講同唔講, 結果一樣, 咁講同唔講都係一個借口...right?

[男人]

妳錦問咪即係妳要飛人？
<br>
<br>最常用的藉口都係ｏ個個：
<br>
<br>我地根本唔夾！性格、生活、興趣都唔夾。和平分手係最好。
<br>
<br>到左某一日，佢先知妳係識左另一條仔。到時佢就會話妳：賤格！

[小明]

佢會打黎問架喎

[Den_Nis]

小芬... 呢d野..你自己用下腦啦....
<br>
<br>如果你好鐘意一個男仔...而果男仔又想同你分手...
<br>
<br>then 你覺得聽到d咩會好受D既..你咪同返你想分手既對像講lor....

[小芬]

其實我唔係想一定永遠分開,
<br>不過我覺得佢唔夠成熟拍拖,
<br>所以想分開等佢應付到自己的事時,
<br>再睇下會唔會有機會再一齊返,
<br>我冇諗過同第二個一齊

[rlcm_she]

小芬,
<br>呢ｄ野要好黎好去，軟硬兼施就最好!

[Den_Nis]

其實我唔係想一定永遠分開,
<br>不過我覺得佢唔夠成熟拍拖,
<br>所以想分開等佢應付到自己的事時,
<br>再睇下會唔會有機會再一齊返,
<br>我冇諗過同第二個一齊
<br>
<br>=====>咁識諗..good ar...你咪將以上既野同佢講....

[小芬]

佢未夠成熟take care我,
<br>為我好或為佢好, 分開都好似比較好
<br>
<br>但我知道,
<br>佢已經好努力咁成長,
<br>所以我唔想打擊到�
<br>

[小男]

我覺得你應該同佢講話有d野係我地之間你發唔發覺
<br>係你同我之間我有幻想過好遠既將來
<br>
<br>但係呢個將來出現之前我想0係我地之間好似仲未準備好
<br>
<br>你最愛既人係我我明
<br>
<br>已我最愛既都係你
<br>
<br>但0係永永遠~遠一齊之前我想比個考驗大家
<br>
<br>如果我唔0係你身邊你會唔會一樣咁愛我
<br>你証唔証明到比我睇

[男同學]

再模擬
<br>
<br>"我地結婚啦！如果你唔想結婚就分手囉"
<br>
<br>hehehe

[cool7002]

小芬 replied @ 2008-03-25 11:14 am
<br>
<br>其實我唔係想一定永遠分開,
<br>不過我覺得佢唔夠成熟拍拖,
<br>所以想分開等佢應付到自己的事時,
<br>再睇下會唔會有機會再一齊返,
<br>我冇諗過同第二個一齊
<br>===============================
<br>
<br>你連怎麼樣減到最低傷亡既說話, 你都未識, 你有幾成熟呀...請問?

[尼絲]

我地撲多鍋先分手啦

[@@]

.

[阿龍]

既然佢都成長緊
<br>點解唔陪佢一齊 ?
<br>艱辛既日子妳選擇離開
<br>到一切安定既時候妳就返去
<br>會唔會有點兒那個 ?

[男同學]

阿龍
<br>
<br>愛，係有條件限制架！
<br>係版主既事件就已經講得好明白啦！
<br>而且版主講得分手，佢都要 take 個 risk 佢男朋友會搵過第二個
<br>我諗版主都諗得好清楚架喇！hehehe

[rosy_shadow]

分手無論你點講都係hurt...但為左你自身既安全，你最好係分手果陣多d踩下自己，讚佢多d,如果佢激動發脾氣你千奇唔好同佢硬碰，唔好同佢嘈...最好好似好可憐甘...

[阿龍]

男同學
<br>
<br>我就係想版主諗清楚
<br>妳想分手就可能以後都冇機會復合
<br>分手就係分手
<br>邊有咁好既如意算盤可以打得響....

[cool7002]

阿龍
<br>
<br>自以為玩弄係自己手掌之中個d米打得響羅.

[小芬]

阿龍 replied @ 2008-03-25 3:28 pm
<br>
<br>既然佢都成長緊
<br>點解唔陪佢一齊 ? <------我已經陪左佢好多年, 但佢都仍是不會照顧我
<br>艱辛既日子妳選擇離開 <-------- 當你認為有可能艱辛的日子會是永遠, 還有甚麼可盼望?
<br>到一切安定既時候妳就返去 <-------佢成長了, 都可以不選擇我的, 或者陪住佢, 佢反而不會成長呢
<br>會唔會有點兒那個 ?

[小芬]

其實我會怕,
<br>和他在一起,
<br>他成長會更困難,
<br>我又怕我的希望,
<br>有意無意之間,
<br>會成為他的壓力
<br>我真係好愛他,
<br>所以想佢自然/自由咁成長
<br>
<br>我承認我都有要求/需要,
<br>就係可以被保護/被照顧
<br>唔想成世好似教仔咁...

[cool7002]

佢成長了, 都可以不選擇我的, 或者陪住佢, 佢反而不會成長呢
<br>
<br>
<br>
<br>決心好大 + 好漂亮的借口. 佩服佩服.
<br>

[阿龍]

要成全人地
<br>就要有心理準備犧牲自己
<br>要人成長唔一定要分手既
<br>呢個方法係 work 不過太 hurt 人啦
<br>妳諗下其他方法好過啦

[男同學]

cool7002
<br>
<br>好中！hehehehe
<br>好靚既理由，幾咁美好！如果版主一世都唔搵第二條仔，成件事就更型喇！

[飯桶]

版主...
<br>立一立眼睇妳 d msg,
<br>又成長又唔成長又努力成長....
<br>我以為妳講妳個仔添.... 乜原來講妳條仔.....

[飯桶]

其實妳....
<br>係唔係真係有決心分手架呢??

[FongFong]

but i dun know how you show here 我真係好愛他? only 1 side's idea.....after all, it seems it's only becoz he can't meet yr expectation.....

but i dun know how you show here 我真係好愛他? only 1 side's idea.....after all, it seems it's only becoz he can't meet yr expectation.....

[小芬]

cool7002 replied @ 2008-03-25 11:52 am
<br>
<br>小芬 replied @ 2008-03-25 11:14 am
<br>
<br>其實我唔係想一定永遠分開,
<br>不過我覺得佢唔夠成熟拍拖,
<br>所以想分開等佢應付到自己的事時,
<br>再睇下會唔會有機會再一齊返,
<br>我冇諗過同第二個一齊
<br>===============================
<br>
<br>你連怎麼樣減到最低傷亡既說話, 你都未識, 你有幾成熟呀...請問?<----我都知自己唔成熟, 所以更加冇可能照顧多另一個未成熟的人...

[小芬]

點解一定唔可以分手?
<br>分手一定錯咩?
<br>唔適合分開真係對大家都有好處囉!!
<br>

[FongFong]

actually, no matter how u say, the other side should feel not good unless he doesn't love you. but if actually u just consider mainly for yr benefits, why have to be such superficial to say it's for his own good....? only if u dun say something it's offensive, it's enough....so better dun say too much but say not matched since it implies a lot....the more u say, the worse the situation may be.

[小芬]

如果版主一世都唔搵第二條仔，成件事就更型喇！<----搵唔到有咩問題? 好過一齊大家都唔開心, 分手冇話一定要搵第2個

[小芬]

Fongfong, because i really love him...... although many of guys here may say this is my excuse
<br>i have my weakness too
<br>i waited and be tolerate for years
<br>but i really still can't feel better
<br>
<br>i think most guys would want to make their gf happy,
<br>if i really can't feel happy, i think he must know and he can't really enjoy the relationship.....

[cool7002]

小芬 replied @ 2008-03-25 4:39 pm
<br>
<br>點解一定唔可以分手?
<br>分手一定錯咩?
<br>唔適合分開真係對大家都有好處囉!!
<br>
<br>====================================
<br>
<br>無話錯呀...咁個大前題米即係唔一定係個男仔唔成熟既問題羅. 你同個男仔咁多年, 就算個男仔唔成熟, 你都有方法令他明白某程度上既問題...如果你自己都唔成熟...我又唔明你怎樣區分成熟既定義?

[男同學]

小芬
<br>
<br>我一直都以為妳想同妳個男朋友講一大堆好偉大好冠冕堂皇既說話令妳分手分得安心 D，我一直都以為妳好愛佢，只不過妳覺得依家阻住左佢成長，所以先忍痛離開佢。我又一直都以為妳好愛妳既男朋友，會好似一般既 MODEL ANSWER 咁分手係為佢好，其實妳一宜都會等�
<br>
<br>原來我 GET 錯左，妳只係覺得大家唔 MATCH，唔 Q 想一齊，不如大家各自搵更好既發展。變心唔一定要鍾意左第二個，感覺變了，就已經是變心，無需要太多理由，因為結果已經出來，諗下點解決同善後就 OK 啦！
<br>
<br>直接同佢講︰我唔想同你一齊喇！唔需要問原因，總之呢個 MOMENT 我同你一齊我覺得唔舒服，分手啦！

[飯桶]

妳只係覺得大家唔 MATCH，唔 Q 想一齊
<br><-- 男同學講得岩, 呢個咪係妳真正既理由囉
<br>講咁多冠冕堂皇既野又有咩用?
<br>話妳點樣愛佢, 點阻住佢成長... 都只係妳自己以為呃到人既理由
<br>妳只不過係唔想做醜人啫....
<br>
<br>如果我係妳bf, 妳同我講一大堆咁既野, 我真係寧願妳同我直接講句唔match好過
<br>
<br>

[小芬]

最慘唔係變心,
<br>係咁多年一齊都唔開心,
<br>我都唔想咁,
<br>可以點呀?

[cool7002]

小芬 replied @ 2008-03-25 5:22 pm
<br>
<br>最慘唔係變心,
<br>係咁多年一齊都唔開心,
<br>我都唔想咁,
<br>可以點呀?
<br>
<br>======================================
<br>
<br>單睇你今日既說話, 好難捉摸你真正原因, 既然你自己去向已決, 就一於分手, 不過...我唔覺你分左手會開心喎.

[飯桶]

小芬,
<br>可能其實妳已經唔鍾意佢.... 已經淡左.....
<br>妳唔想分手. 可能只係因為可惜, 同埋難面對...
<br>
<br>如果係既, 咁再一齊都無用啦...

[小芬]

以前以為自己咩都可以忍, 只要為左佢....
<br>但原來, 當自己忍到一個時候,
<br>對方都係咁,
<br>真係會害怕以後的日子都係咁
<br>
<br>認真咁愛一個人,
<br>一定想有將來,
<br>但當你發現將來都好似而家咁唔開心,
<br>繼續又係為左咩?
<br>

[男同學]

小芬
<br>
<br>妳都講到個 situation 咁差，唯有分手先至救到妳同妳男朋友
<br>講真，拍拖都係為開心，functional 少少咪當係結婚既 probation 囉！唔 match 分手有咩野問題？妳都唔想繼續忍，妳逼自己都冇用。先唔好諗對方點諗，妳自己都要俾個答案自己架！妳自己係段關係中都冇 satisfaction 既話，再玩落去都係嘥時間
<br>
<br>分手要狠，唔好諗住有機會返轉頭，呢個就係妳對妳男朋友最大既仁慈，放生佢啦！

[小芬]

自己係段關係中都冇 satisfaction <---幾年前已經係咁, 我以為習慣下會冇野, 點知到而家都係咁....
<br>
<br>分手要狠，唔好諗住有機會返轉頭<---真係好難做...

[男同學]

小芬
<br>
<br>呢個世界，想得到一樣野，相對地必定會失去一樣野，呢 d 叫 trade off
<br>如果妳覺得同佢分手比同佢一齊痛苦，咁咪繼續一齊囉，反之亦然
<br>妳依家既情況係最差，妳又唔開心，佢都唔見得會開心。妳點都要 make decision 架啦！去留都好，拖得愈耐，個情況愈 worse
<br>
<br>妳要點決定，只有妳自己先知

[cool7002]

感覺....個源頭唔係單一思想問題咁簡單?!