Anyone, have a chat?
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My bf and I had been together for 8 years. I guess we aren't too satisfied with each other but i don't want to cheat on him..
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hihi..how are u ?
<br>add msn to chat ?
<br>[email protected]
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what u had hide for him?
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hi i am leo
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so..what u want
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why don't you just talk with him??
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你覺得你地點唔夾呀?
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actually same situation on me
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8-year is not short..
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shybabe,
<br>you don't have to cheat on him. face the problem and talk to him
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thanks all,
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<br>yes, we actually talked but it's not been solved!
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<br>He is always tired from work and said do not have mood to ml, but i am quite sure he doesn't have another girl cause i am always with him. Yet, I think he might have some problems with erecting or may be a lot of pressure!
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sounds that you and him has different kind of unsatisfication..
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<br>Hello~~
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<br>I'm lonely too~~
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<br>Shall we talk ?
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<br>★[email protected]★
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If this is due to psychological or physiological problem, you may consult appropriate professionals....
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shybabe : 錦你接受唔到沒有性愛 ?
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shybabe,
<br>there must be something he cannot voice out. e.g. he don't want to ml with you anymore... men are like that.
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I have thought so actually to seek for professional advise but it is embarassing to ask him to go.
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<br>I am trying to live a life w/o sex! In fact, we used to have it like everyday but now it's like 2-3 times per year! Is that normal for guys to have problems like that when it's too much pressure at work?
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is that really so? How can I know what things he is hiding from me?
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hi shybabe, i thin it is not normal la
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babe : i think not for all guys
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mostly he'd lost interest on you. do you think so?
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2-3 times per year? That stranger!
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2-3 times per year is far below average
<br>do you try to have vacation with him outside hk?
<br>so he can be more relax and improve his erection problem
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I don't know, we have been very well in all aspects except the topic of sex. He has told me that he has some problems with the penis not being hard. Last few times, he cannot finish and it might be because of this, he rather not have it.
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<br>I don't know how I can help him out of this.
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when he sex with u, u feel got any problem of his "sex power"?
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babe : 我認識一個女仔 佢同男朋友拍拖 7 年 同居 3 年 , 一路都性愛唔多 , 因為個男仔冇乜興趣 , 近呢年幾都沒有 , 個女仔都有 d 想 , 最後佢.......
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Yes I do, in fact, the last couple times were the times when we are on vacation. When he is in HK, even we sleep together, even he touched on me, he wouldn't do the "actual thing"...
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<br>I am quite puzzled with this...
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shybabe,
<br>the only way is to ask him to see a doctor. it is nothing serious/embarrass.
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shybabe, I think he don't interest on you or sex
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babe : do u love him??
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what happened at the end, leo?
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seek professional advice is a good idea
<br>but you may need to presuade him to go
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babe : 我同她發生關係
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Yes, I do love him. To be honest, he is my first bf till now. So I really don't know whether it's my problem or his..
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shybabe,
<br>bottomline is don't have sex with other men to solve your problem.
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that's ridiculous, no wonder...
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<br>is that girl regret then?
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<br>I don't know where I can seek professional advice indeed...
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if on vacation he has no problem
<br>so it seems that the problem is really coming from the "pressure"
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babe : 錦有時香港地生活 壓力太大都可以影響好多野
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shybabe
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<br>can we talk in msn
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<br>[email protected]
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家計會, family doctor or 性治療師
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sl: thanks a lot for your advice. That's what I have tried not to do, sometimes, it is really tempting. But I have tried to stick with my bottomline. May be find couple pals here to talk will help to soothe me.. :P
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shybabe... i think a guy has some reasons that cannot turn hard is very painful in mind.
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<br>I can tell you that i do have same problem before
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<br>maybe the 病 and tireness make him cannot hard
<br>you can tell him you do not mind suddenly he cannot finish it inside
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<br>at least, try his best to do it.. and let him build up the confidence
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yes, it might be a way. I guess I need to find a way to persuade him to go...
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<br>I am not sure, so that's why I wanted to ask whether pressure will really affect the so-called "sex power"?
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shybabe,
<br>as i said, look for professional advice is the clue. sex with other men only make you guilty and cannot face your bf, whom is your first and only love.
<br>it's tempting, but not uncontrollable.
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build up confidence!that the key points
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pressure and confidence will affect the sex power,
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<br>草_草, last time how u solve your problem?
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i m so glad that I can hear all of your opinion here as I can't talk to anyone not even my close friends..
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<br>草_草: that's what I tried to do, tell him that I don't mind last few times. He has backpain always, so I think it's a lack of confidence plus tireness. How can you solve the problem at the end?
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thanks sl, I almost cried when I read your comments. Yes, that's what I have been doing. Controlling myself...I do treasure what we have built up. Sometimes I feel guilty for thinking too much about sex..
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shybabe,
<br>thinking about sex is not a guilty thing. we all do that. just don't let it overrule other important things.
<br>maybe next time when you have intimacy with your bf, starts with something gentle like kisses and hugs but don't get into real sex. not sure if that makes him feel better.
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babe : do u have msn?/