認真,有無女仔可以同我傾下我同我女友既問題

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拍左拖7年,同居左4年,開始發覺有點悶
其實自兩年前我已經同佢傾過不如佢返屋企訓,
對大家既感情都好d,小別勝新婚,係搬返去兩個星期之後佢又搬返返黎住.
我明白好大原因係因為3年前俾佢發現我同第二個女仔sms,但係o個時我同個女仔無乜野,只係見過面,現下性質,無同個女仔一齊過又無sex過
我自問唔係好花心o個隻,因為試過有好多機會可以識女仔/同第二條女一齊我都無,但係佢始於唔明白點解我要佢返屋企住
我要既係私人空間,我覺得好辛苦..

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我有時會企o係佢既角度去諗

佢由我識佢100lbs到而家130lbs,變左肥妹仔

但係相反我就變得fit左,因為成日去做gym同玩運動

但係佢就唔明白,以為我玩到咁fit係想去溝女

但其實我係因為工作壓力要做運動同gym解壓

佢對自己無信心,所以管得我越黎越嚴

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我喺呢2年都不知同佢講過幾多次我要私人空間

但係佢就死都唔聽,成日以為我想出去玩

我認我係貪玩,但係我知道條bottom line係邊度

[private]

点解你會覺得無私人空間

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佢一個星期係我屋人止訓7日

sat同sun我一定會同佢一齊

如果我話我同我d同事去玩(游水/飲野)佢就會發脾氣話我唔理�

我weekday去街去夜少少11點倒佢就打黎問我去左邊,做乜咁夜仲唔返

如果同佢講我可能要12點-1點返,佢就會發脾氣

你覺得點

[private]

吓，佢又誇D嘅.......



咁有時有啲活動你可以同她一齊去嗎？

[private]

点解做gym唔揾埋佢。

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有,我同d識左好耐既朋友(中學同學)出黎一定會同佢一齊咁滯

但係我而家轉左做新公司,有時我覺得介紹我d同事俾佢識唔係問題

但係我唔想介紹左之後佢第時又話"你d同事我都識啦,做乜唔可以帶埋我一齊去呀?!"

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做gym我梗係有叫佢啦...我話我出埋錢添

但係佢話佢唔鐘意喎

我覺得可能佢覺得自己肥,無信心卦

[private]

咁.................我諗佢實無乜嘢嗜好，同無乜朋友，right？

[private]

咁我都明你点解唔喜歡次次都帶佢出去嘅。

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可以咁講

應該話佢為左我放棄同多朋友同啫好

其實我地唔係好夾

我鐘鐘做運動佢唔鐘意

我鐘意睇書佢唔鐘意

[private]

咁佢鐘意乜嘢，你知唔知吖？

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我真係好辛苦

係呢1年係我腦海閃過分手呢個念頭不下10次

但係到最後我都唔忍心

同埋..佢為左付出左太多了..

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我知

佢鐘意化妝

我同佢講過"其實你鐘意d乜野,你可以去學下,做人要學多d野架"

佢成日都有諗過,但係..到最後都無action...

係呢排好d同d同事去報左yoga玩下

[private]

我諗你哋有共同的朋友，right？嘗試揾佢地去同gf傾吓。

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試過啦..我有同佢講過"不如你同xx傾下,佢可能會俾倒d答案你"

不過...佢鬧我做乜將我地d野講俾人知

搞到人地以為佢咁衰..

[private]

幸好，你都明白現在你就係佢嘅一切。

[private]

Actually, 我都唔認同佢嘅生活方式。

[private]

照你咁講，你都想同佢分手，祇係唔忍心啫。

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我而家係苦惱緊

如果繼續係咁,我怕我會忍唔住同佢分手

你都明白現在我就係佢既一切

到時我真係好怕會有咩發生..

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我愛佢,但係我現在的生活實在係太辛苦了...

我怕有天我忍受不了會分手

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真心果句，你依家有無有feel或覺得好嘅對像？

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無,

但係身邊其實好多走馬看花(有無錯?)既女仔

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但係有feel同埋覺得好既女仔就無

[private]

有無心動

[girl]

如果去到咁，分手是必然的．．．太多不滿，太多怨氣了．．

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如果就咁計某方面就梗會有沖動既(如玩下ons咁)

但係做女友既真係無,問題係我無feel係唔可以同一個唔熟既女人sex的

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唔知呀,

唔知係好事定壞事,我係一個好樂觀既人

今日我o係度"申",聽日我又覺得無乜野

跟住第日又係咁,不過我覺得如果要結婚就唔可以係咁

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你覺得問題係你令佢唔放心，如果真係想一齊的話，而又唔夾的話，就一定要有人犧牲，即你令佢放心囉............



其實我認為健康D嘅做法係俾D精神記"talk"佢，例如你同佢話鍾意食"Cake"叫佢去學。佢做完facial又要讚吓等，等佢去多D，多D嘢攪，你亦要主動D去接佢，间接支持佢

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um...privat你都講得幾岩

但係...如果要我去接佢,到頭黎我咪又係無左private time

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佢返学做facial時，你咪有law

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其實老實,我覺得我對得佢太耐了...

我想佢搬返屋企住係想大家都有種拍拖既新鮮感

佢成日問我做乜唔同佢sex(我係一個性慾都幾強既人)

我唔通答佢"日日見住你..咩feel都無曬啦.."咁咩..

[girl]

我想不是太健康

[private]

分開住=分手

[private]

sorry la, my boy home, 下次再談!!

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private,



ok bb



girl,

咁健康就一定唔健康架啦..

問題係點樣令到佢健康

[mscc]

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As a female, I can't stand your girl friend too.

Well, I think both of you should talk together one night (of course, when she's in a good mood) & let her understand the situation and will see then........good luck!

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mscc,



yes, i tried it before many times..

but after we talked, it will be improved for a short time only...

then returned to original..

now i really dont know what can i do

i tried to find sl to escape this problem,but..no feeling and hard to find a good one

[wind]

why do u think sl can help u ?

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wind,



男人有時諗野都幾天真

sl可能我對佢既新鮮感從新發掘出黎卦

[wind]

haha..

ur gf don't complain.. that u hvn't slept tim

[wind]

the main reason..

if things keep going..

just waste your time

i guess. later on..

she will ask u for marriage...

will u warry with her??

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i dont know

my bottom line is that dont play anymore after marriage

then depend on i play enough or not

[wind]

what else do u want to play??

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everthing law

i like to try new thing

female,clubbing,play with fd, drink etc.

[wind]

well..

may be u like to enjoy your life more

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indeed, yes

i like do something lonly at sometimes.

[mscc]

well, communication is the most important thing for a relationship



If you think no use, then no point to maintain this relationship, right?



If yes, then separate....but make sure to have a warm conversation, then your gf won't suicide (I don't know but of course don't wish to happen).

[wind]

why don't u go to sleep now??