認真,有無女仔可以同我傾下我同我女友既問題
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拍左拖7年,同居左4年,開始發覺有點悶
其實自兩年前我已經同佢傾過不如佢返屋企訓,
對大家既感情都好d,小別勝新婚,係搬返去兩個星期之後佢又搬返返黎住.
我明白好大原因係因為3年前俾佢發現我同第二個女仔sms,但係o個時我同個女仔無乜野,只係見過面,現下性質,無同個女仔一齊過又無sex過
我自問唔係好花心o個隻,因為試過有好多機會可以識女仔/同第二條女一齊我都無,但係佢始於唔明白點解我要佢返屋企住
我要既係私人空間,我覺得好辛苦..
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我有時會企o係佢既角度去諗
<br>佢由我識佢100lbs到而家130lbs,變左肥妹仔
<br>但係相反我就變得fit左,因為成日去做gym同玩運動
<br>但係佢就唔明白,以為我玩到咁fit係想去溝女
<br>但其實我係因為工作壓力要做運動同gym解壓
<br>佢對自己無信心,所以管得我越黎越嚴
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我喺呢2年都不知同佢講過幾多次我要私人空間
<br>但係佢就死都唔聽,成日以為我想出去玩
<br>我認我係貪玩,但係我知道條bottom line係邊度
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点解你會覺得無私人空間
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佢一個星期係我屋人止訓7日
<br>sat同sun我一定會同佢一齊
<br>如果我話我同我d同事去玩(游水/飲野)佢就會發脾氣話我唔理�
<br>我weekday去街去夜少少11點倒佢就打黎問我去左邊,做乜咁夜仲唔返
<br>如果同佢講我可能要12點-1點返,佢就會發脾氣
<br>你覺得點
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吓,佢又誇D嘅.......
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<br>咁有時有啲活動你可以同她一齊去嗎?
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点解做gym唔揾埋佢。
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有,我同d識左好耐既朋友(中學同學)出黎一定會同佢一齊咁滯
<br>但係我而家轉左做新公司,有時我覺得介紹我d同事俾佢識唔係問題
<br>但係我唔想介紹左之後佢第時又話"你d同事我都識啦,做乜唔可以帶埋我一齊去呀?!"
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做gym我梗係有叫佢啦...我話我出埋錢添
<br>但係佢話佢唔鐘意喎
<br>我覺得可能佢覺得自己肥,無信心卦
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咁.................我諗佢實無乜嘢嗜好,同無乜朋友,right?
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咁我都明你点解唔喜歡次次都帶佢出去嘅。
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可以咁講
<br>應該話佢為左我放棄同多朋友同啫好
<br>其實我地唔係好夾
<br>我鐘鐘做運動佢唔鐘意
<br>我鐘意睇書佢唔鐘意
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咁佢鐘意乜嘢,你知唔知吖?
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我真係好辛苦
<br>係呢1年係我腦海閃過分手呢個念頭不下10次
<br>但係到最後我都唔忍心
<br>同埋..佢為左付出左太多了..
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我知
<br>佢鐘意化妝
<br>我同佢講過"其實你鐘意d乜野,你可以去學下,做人要學多d野架"
<br>佢成日都有諗過,但係..到最後都無action...
<br>係呢排好d同d同事去報左yoga玩下
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我諗你哋有共同的朋友,right?嘗試揾佢地去同gf傾吓。
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試過啦..我有同佢講過"不如你同xx傾下,佢可能會俾倒d答案你"
<br>不過...佢鬧我做乜將我地d野講俾人知
<br>搞到人地以為佢咁衰..
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幸好,你都明白現在你就係佢嘅一切。
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Actually, 我都唔認同佢嘅生活方式。
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照你咁講,你都想同佢分手,祇係唔忍心啫。
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我而家係苦惱緊
<br>如果繼續係咁,我怕我會忍唔住同佢分手
<br>你都明白現在我就係佢既一切
<br>到時我真係好怕會有咩發生..
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我愛佢,但係我現在的生活實在係太辛苦了...
<br>我怕有天我忍受不了會分手
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真心果句,你依家有無有feel或覺得好嘅對像?
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無,
<br>但係身邊其實好多走馬看花(有無錯?)既女仔
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但係有feel同埋覺得好既女仔就無
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有無心動
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如果去到咁,分手是必然的...太多不滿,太多怨氣了..
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如果就咁計某方面就梗會有沖動既(如玩下ons咁)
<br>但係做女友既真係無,問題係我無feel係唔可以同一個唔熟既女人sex的
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唔知呀,
<br>唔知係好事定壞事,我係一個好樂觀既人
<br>今日我o係度"申",聽日我又覺得無乜野
<br>跟住第日又係咁,不過我覺得如果要結婚就唔可以係咁
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你覺得問題係你令佢唔放心,如果真係想一齊的話,而又唔夾的話,就一定要有人犧牲,即你令佢放心囉............
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<br>其實我認為健康D嘅做法係俾D精神記"talk"佢,例如你同佢話鍾意食"Cake"叫佢去學。佢做完facial又要讚吓等,等佢去多D,多D嘢攪,你亦要主動D去接佢,间接支持佢
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um...privat你都講得幾岩
<br>但係...如果要我去接佢,到頭黎我咪又係無左private time
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佢返学做facial時,你咪有law
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其實老實,我覺得我對得佢太耐了...
<br>我想佢搬返屋企住係想大家都有種拍拖既新鮮感
<br>佢成日問我做乜唔同佢sex(我係一個性慾都幾強既人)
<br>我唔通答佢"日日見住你..咩feel都無曬啦.."咁咩..
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我想不是太健康
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分開住=分手
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sorry la, my boy home, 下次再談!!
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private,
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<br>ok bb
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<br>girl,
<br>咁健康就一定唔健康架啦..
<br>問題係點樣令到佢健康
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edit,
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<br>As a female, I can't stand your girl friend too.
<br>Well, I think both of you should talk together one night (of course, when she's in a good mood) & let her understand the situation and will see then........good luck!
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mscc,
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<br>yes, i tried it before many times..
<br>but after we talked, it will be improved for a short time only...
<br>then returned to original..
<br>now i really dont know what can i do
<br>i tried to find sl to escape this problem,but..no feeling and hard to find a good one
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why do u think sl can help u ?
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wind,
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<br>男人有時諗野都幾天真
<br>sl可能我對佢既新鮮感從新發掘出黎卦
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haha..
<br>ur gf don't complain.. that u hvn't slept tim
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the main reason..
<br>if things keep going..
<br>just waste your time
<br>i guess. later on..
<br>she will ask u for marriage...
<br>will u warry with her??
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i dont know
<br>my bottom line is that dont play anymore after marriage
<br>then depend on i play enough or not
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what else do u want to play??
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everthing law
<br>i like to try new thing
<br>female,clubbing,play with fd, drink etc.
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well..
<br>may be u like to enjoy your life more
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indeed, yes
<br>i like do something lonly at sometimes.
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well, communication is the most important thing for a relationship
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<br>If you think no use, then no point to maintain this relationship, right?
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<br>If yes, then separate....but make sure to have a warm conversation, then your gf won't suicide (I don't know but of course don't wish to happen).
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why don't u go to sleep now??