我同男朋友, 分開3個月冷靜期, 係呢3個月裹面有乜野方法同做乜野可以令大家和好如初?
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咁就要睇下你同佢因咩事分開, 不過分開3個月都係好事, 你唔洗去做d咩去令大家和好如初, 不如比時間大家去唸清楚對方係唔係適合自己.
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佢話順其自然...但呢段時間唔想一齊, 我同佢講大家不如分開冷靜3個月...
<br>佢話我都可以搵佢出黎食飯
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咁好明顯, 個男仔對你已經變�髐艉F. 你都瀟灑D, 留返個好印像比佢.
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大家一齊時..佢覺得冇曬自己既空間, 為左我佢冇左好多發展機會,佢覺得好大壓力, 見到我好唔開心, 我可以點做?
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做咩都無用了. 佢都覺得見到你唔開心, 你不如由得佢靜下啦. 你自己都靜下來唸下佢係唔係�琝A.
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點解要冷靜期？不如直接分手罷啦.
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<br>我都好唔開心.
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Jane sorry,妳唔駛理我,我唔開心發up風.
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What's happened to you??
<br>大家一起已5年了..我不想相信就咁冇左
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You already said this is a 冷靜期, let's clam down and think if you still love him (not jus because of 大家一起已5年了..)
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<br>If your bf can live well without you, then let him go la
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冇嘢可以做......99.9%會分手!!
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冷靜期係俾大家一個空間去想清楚俩人之間的問題所在. 如果只係麻木地想盡辦法怎樣和好如初, 問題依然存在, 終有一日大家也會感覺很累.
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((佢話順其自然...)) he is right
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<br>((我同佢講大家不如分開冷靜3個月...)) also good idea
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<br>((做乜野可以令大家和好如初?)) no need to do, just 順其自然...
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你應該勞力去upgrade自己﹐擴闊你的眼目﹐發展自己的興趣。做個獨立﹐有個性的女人。你以前就係缺乏這些令你男友“窒息”﹐他需要出來吸下新鮮空氣﹐你就放過他啦﹗
<br>去等他知道你無了他﹐你的生活還充實和精彩過以前﹐讓他看見新的你﹐可能他會後悔﹐回頭追返你。造女仔要馨香D﹐死纏只會令他覺得你煩加無曬做人尊嚴﹗
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事實就係：當佢離開咗你，佢會覺得好舒服，好自由。唔使成日諗住要點樣氹你，講野做野都要驚你唔中意。
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<br>雖然佢好欣賞你嘅優點，雖然佢好中意你，
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<br>但一想到以前嗰五年點樣受管束，點樣冇曬自己。 就乜嘢復合嘅意願都冇曬。
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<br>所以你最緊要諗下自己係唔係認爲
<br>服從 = 愛！
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3個月冷靜期?? 係唔係即係分手呀? 3個月後可能同你講"沒有你可能已經習慣了"嗎?? 如果, 佢係因為沒有空間, 你就這3個月學習擁有自己空間, 大家都好獨立, 你也要學習自己顧自己, 咁真係係返一齊才會長久同解決大家之間的問題.
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<br>佢話要 3 個月黎 calm down 定你 suggest.
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<br>我覺得如果係佢 suggest... 其實佢係想分手... 但又唔想太 hurt 你.... 因為如果話分就即刻分... 仲 hurt..
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<br>佢話要 3 個月黎 calm down 定你 suggest.
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<br>我覺得如果係佢 suggest... 其實佢係想分手... 但又唔想太 hurt 你.... 因為如果話分就即刻分... 仲 hurt..
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我都係咁諗...因為佢依家有野煩緊
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我覺得佢重有小小關心我....今日我見過佢, 佢問我上次download D野點...我話唔成功...佢叫我今晚打比佢, 佢教我...但我知道佢見到我時好似好大壓力.
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三個月冷靜係我suggest
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好多謝你地比咁多寶貴意見我...我諗我知點做
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Jane~怎樣呀...你們有無和好如初...?不如試下求月老昇君...好多人拜左都和好如初or 感情好左~
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agree replied last month :
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<br>((做乜野可以令大家和好如初?)) no need to do, just 順其自然...
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<br>But if they need to be together again, there must be someone who takes the FIRST step to do something wor.
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<br>RH replied last month :
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<br>你應該勞力去upgrade自己﹐擴闊你的眼目﹐發展自己的興趣。做個獨立﹐有個性的女人。你以前就係缺乏這些令你男友“窒息”﹐他需要出來吸下新鮮空氣﹐你就放過他啦﹗
<br>去等他知道你無了他﹐你的生活還充實和精彩過以前﹐讓他看見新的你﹐可能他會後悔﹐回頭追返你。造女仔要馨香D﹐死纏只會令他覺得你煩加無曬做人尊嚴﹗
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<br>"upgrade自己﹐擴闊你的眼目﹐發展自己的興趣。做個獨立﹐有個性的女人。" is good, but it may not be related to your attitude/manner and act towards your boyfriend. Your boyfriend may still feel "窒息”if you still keep your way/style.
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<br>"等他知道你無了他﹐你的生活還充實和精彩過以前﹐讓他看見新的你﹐可能他會後悔﹐回頭追返你。" is not correct. If he no longer loves you, no matter 你的生活還充實和精彩過以前, he still will not return to you.
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