如果一個男仔成日會同你講,驚同你做左情侶或發生關係後,就會冇朋友做,又或者係問搞完之後/玩厭之後會唔會唔理佢,呢個男仔心態是什麼?





  • 呢個男仔心態咪係 '趙完鬆' 囉.

    事前同妳暗示啫, 事後佢當妳心甘情願.



  • 心態低能



  • 吾想做你男朋友,不過想同你發生關係,但又怕你之後會前住他



  • 你地搞錯左啦

    我覺得版主個意思係,個男仔怕個女仔趙完鬆,所以咁講



    好明顯版主係個俾人感覺好playful 既女仔

    而個男仔就想長久既



  • 搞錯左:



    你咁叻既=.=!!

    個男仔好細個,佢20,我26,佢細細個時就識我了,識左6年都有,但只係最近先見,佢成日話覺得同我冇將來



  • 想係想同你做完之後要負責任...



    你叫佢唔好再講啦



    再唔尊重你



    只係想同你上床..





  • 輝仔,唔係好明你講咩



    你係咪叫佢唔好再講,再講即係唔尊重我,只想同我上床,因為你第1句話佢係想同你做完之後要負責任...



  • 唔通我講既野真係好難明咩..?



    你知唔知乜野叫潛移默化(我差D唔記左點打)



    佢一路同你講,你又唔反對,你慢慢就會覺得佢咁講或者咁做都冇乜野問題..呢D係一個說服人的技巧,即係一個人不斷講話呢一樣野係好,你慢慢就會覺得係好一樣



    其實佢講到明只係想同你上床

    只是怕你同佢上完床之後要負責任

    即係只係想玩下你,爽一下..



  • 即係誘導我思想,佢就係驚要負責任或我死纏難打,所以咁樣講



  • 都可以咁講啦...



    你一開頭都可以反感

    之後就會慢慢覺得佢只係講下笑,冇所謂



    再之後真係同佢上床後...哈



  • 版主

    我就唔係咁睇

    我覺得係你係個俾人感覺好playful 既女仔,佢擔心你玩佢,怕你會趙完鬆



    其實,你係咪俾人感覺好playful?



    點解會識左6年,但只係最近先見?

    佢點解成日話覺得同你無將來?因為大家性格、背景問題?



  • 因為係我背景問題.

    年齡,性格反而不是問題.



    比較長篇,唔好意思:



    我同佢係玩online game識,個時冇諗過會出黎,因為佢比較靜,幾乖個種,唔係係game裡面一大班人出黎玩的那些,而且,識佢個陣佢又好細個呢,我不嬲都當佢係細路仔之嘛=.=,到後來,我一早就冇玩隻game,但係大家都會keep住icq/msn,都知道大家近況的.係呢排新年先見第一次,年三廿晚我搵佢出黎睇戲,我當時係同梗兩個fd,佢話覺得我無啦啦叫佢出黎唔知係咪會放飛機.佢性格比較怪,唔知佢諗咩.

    我本身就唔係playful人,係鐘意亂講野,講笑咁囉,咁有時大家做fd,我諗住唔講邊有得笑咋.



    我仲有d比較私人的問題,我可唔可以私底下問你呢?!因為感覺上你會清楚同幫到我解答.



  • 哦, 簡單啦.

    咁睇女板主想收心養性未啫.

    妳覺得呢件 '乖仔' 直得妳定落嚟, 咪ok囉~~



  • 是否佢係剛剛成熟



    想心痕痕試下....而又唔係喜歡你...

    但又怕同你的關係會變差





  • 他有認左係喜歡我,但佢本身係冇乜朋友,真正傾到計那種,佢話怕同左我一齊之後,到時鬧左交會冇fd做,咪成日問我玩厭左佢之後會唔會唔理佢囉,又成日講話識左我好耐



  • 妳係受佢嘅, 使鬼諗咁多野咩.

    要搵水泡, 倍飲倍玩嘅仔,

    唔好攪啲乖架啦.



    繼續做fren囉



  • 如果係咁

    佢都有幾強烈的自卑感



    但不如只繼續同佢做fds...

    佢仲細,佢可以識多D朋友,擴大自己的眼光仲好...



    你當佢係弟弟,咪同佢講清楚

    只係純姊弟關係囉.



  • so funny of tgis boy.



    tell you my ture story, a friend of mine who knew me over 15 yrs, said such similar words to me :



    ' if we are together someday, we better not have sex , because I believe sexless will make our relationship last longer and more pure and happy.'



    the truth is we have sex few days later, so I agree with 輝仔, maybe he is 潛移默化 you now.



    his words let me put down the defense of ''be careful this man may want to cheat u in bed.''



    this ' friend'' now became my husband.^_^



  • that's why most men dun understand women. only a few can ;-)



  • 版主

    想問,私人問題係有關乜野?點解唔可以拎出黎講?



    睇完你既回應,我對佢有兩個諗法:

    有關「放飛機」—

     佢擔心你會放飛機,即係根本佢對你都唔信任,可能因為係初相識

     雖然你話自己唔係playful girl,但可能你既表現俾唔到信心�

     佢係咪覺得你playful 我唔知,但可能佢覺得你唔夠好、乖

     因而覺得你對感情唔太認真,擔心你係玩玩下

    有關「佢無乜朋友」—

     聽你講,佢都應該係一個乖男仔,而且內向、被動、朋友少

     我覺得,佢唔想同你一齊,上面都講過,可能覺得你對感情唔太認真

     仲有,因為佢朋友少,但又覺得你係一個好朋友

     擔心如果一齊之後會鬧交、分手,唔想最後搞到無左你呢個好朋友

    呢一點係個人經驗,我對一個朋友有好感,但因為識左都幾年同埋唔想影響我地之間個友誼關係,我係刻意抑壓對佢既感覺



  • 版主

    但係我又覺得好奇怪,點解佢會提到搞野呢?

    照計如果正正經經一個男仔

    佢會擔心同你做左情侶後,如果有咩事鬧交、分手就會無朋友做

    但唔會提及到如果發生關係、你搞完╱玩厭之後會唔理佢喎



    你地之間成日會講有關sex 既野?





    其實如果諗壞d,其他人講既野都唔係無可能

    佢成日同你提及性,等你習慣左,佢再講時你會覺得無咩野

    又或者,佢成日都同你講擔心你搞完之後會鬆人,咁你為左證明你唔係咁既人,就同佢做(呢個就係佢個目的,等你自動獻身)

    你唔好話誇張╱無可能,有d 女仔就係咁傻,會證明俾人睇





    其實你對佢有無感覺?鍾意佢?

    而你對佢既說話「驚你……會唔理佢」又有咩感想?



  • 其實系唔系版主形像 playful。所以個男仔......"吾想做你男朋友,不過想同你發生關係,但又怕你之後會前住他,"即趙完鬆。



  • 佢呢句同<我講明先啦,我上左床,有可能唔理你架啦>無分別



    係同時佢可以唸住大條道理同你反面



    呢條友智障都無論,你同佢一齊=同白痴.

    連玩女人都要講到甘.要搵件玩玩下既男仔,使搵件咁低b既人?



  • 我驚係度講佢會知,因為佢知我有係度睇開野



    其實我係結左婚,不過我同我老公就有問題,而且佢幾年都唔會掂我,但佢出面一定係冇女人!!佢識我時唔知道的,以為我係有bf,因為我冇返工,以為係bf養我,係後期佢先知,佢係不嬲鐘意d大過佢既女仔



    但係,前幾日我同佢搞左,撇佢反而又冇,仲有搵我,佢同我講覺得大家冇將來,問我有冇諗過佢第時會有gf,我話有,但冇諗你係依家,跟住佢唔知係咪試我,話佢ex最近搵返佢,sms同打電話"銳"佢,想復合,佢諗梗覺得同我冇將來,唔知好唔好同返ex一齊,但又唔知ex返黎係咩心態,動機,想試下先,跟住我話要即刻斬纜,佢話點解我會咁絕,問我係咪玩完就算=.=,我話我唔會夾係你地兩個中間,冇意思,同ex分手原因係因為人地覺得佢冇錢,加上ex又成日同exbf出街,所以拍左幾年就散左,散左都有幾年.



    依家又覺得好煩,佢聽日叫我出街,又唔係咁想出,因為佢本身要比好多錢屋企,同佢出街又覺得要洗好錢唔好,我比又驚佢會自卑(佢係呢類人)



  • 佢同ex分手原因係因為人地屋企人嫌佢冇錢,佢依家就算好d,有份好工,我覺得佢都唔知係咪試我,因為之前問過佢如果ex搵返佢,會唔會一齊,佢話唔會.

    佢又唔係出黎玩既人,成日返工放工放假都係係屋企,佢份人好悶



  • 至於佢成日講話驚我會唔理佢,聽完都冇乜特別感覺既,因為真係識左好耐,佢唔係成日提sex,佢之前係話覺得同我一齊左之後/或發生關係後,大家關係會變左.



  • 即係其實你已經同佢做過..=.=?



  • 你點解要同佢搞?

    你同佢又唔係情侶關係



    點解你聽完都冇乜特別感覺?

    照計好人好者唔會成日同個朋友講有關性既問題



  • 初時仲以為你係好女仔



    點知……

    你結左婚、又唔係佢女朋友,但你……



    我真係對你好失望……

    點解你要搞到咁賤?



  • 版主你都幾好野,結左婚之後同第二個男人上埋床都仲可以話自己唔playful....

    都唔知你開個topic黎做乜,一開頭隱瞞左咁多細節,叫人點樣同你分析? 真係全部人都俾你fig哂



  • 根本一開始你就想同人床

    扮曬受害人、俾人呃



  • 版主去左邊?


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