請大家給我一點意見

[女]

對話內容都給對方同意才放上來. <br /><br /><br />男says:那妳怎去界定一個人好不好?<br />女::唉<br />怎會去界定呢<br />男says:其實我都想問一個問題....<br />女::你怎會問這問題<br />不用去界定啊<br />男says:我總1發覺妳很易3句5句就一個唉字<br />女::這一個唉是給你的<br />男says:<br />真的有那麼愁嗎?<br />女::怎會這樣問啦<br />男says:就當這個是我的, 妳那字出現的頻率也未免太高了....<br />女::界定這些事祇是自找煩惱<br />男says:但我如果識一個人他不到我想要的標準時, 我心會很不安<br />就像妳先前對我的不安一樣<br />女::....<br />你怎會為人定標準<br />對不起<br />男says:<br />每個人心入邊總有一把尺的<br />或多或少<br />女::我不想給你論斷評分考察<br />男says:只係, 大家唔願講出來而已<br />女::不想有一天你跟我說我不及格不夠你標準<br />男says:那麼, 妳不願再聊了?<br />女::不是不願聊<br />是你要將我評分評你的標準<br />太侮辱我啦<br />男says:咁我想問<br />女::你來給我說<br />我為什麼要給你評<br />男says:我講出我既感受,<br />妳不悅<br />那, 是不是亦是在抨價著我呢?<br />如果沒有什麼好與不好, 為什麼會不悅?<br />女::我不是在評價你<br />我就是在劮跟你聊天<br />男says:劮 = 累? = 討厭?<br />女::請不要硬派我跟你的想法一般<br />好嗎<br />男says:我冇要妳一定要同我想法一樣<br />我冇強迫過妳<br />我也不想被人屈<br />己所不欲<br />勿施於人<br />我會明呢樣野<br />女::<br />似乎你真的不明白怎樣與人相處

[yuiop[]

<p>想要哪方面意見? 誰對誰錯?</p>

[女]

任何意見, 我不是要分對錯.

[yuiop[]

覺得係普通既睇法唔同~

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[lover16]

人好唔好在乎意圖
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[女]

其實, 我覺得這種思想很粗暴...

[rainny]

女:
<br>我都遇過這類人,有D明你既心情.
<br>通常呢D人只想人認同自己,如果你唔認同佢,佢就會咬住你唔放.所以同佢講多都嘥氣.

[Hope]

rainny replied at 2010-11-13 12:29 pm
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<br>女:
<br>我都遇過這類人,有D明你既心情.
<br>通常呢D人只想人認同自己,如果你唔認同佢,佢就會咬住你唔放.所以同佢講多都嘥氣.
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<br>其實都係著緊你地既關係佢先會做出呢種愚蠢既行為，女人就係衰在煩，其實你估佢自己唔知佢麻煩咩。不過希望你明白佢同願諒埋佢呢次啦。睇下仲係咪做埋呢d愚蠢問題！唔好放棄，大家都用心去愛先有磨擦。學校都記缺點三次先一個小過，三個小過一個大過踢出校。如果佢有一個優點都好，就一齊正面d而家只係諗大家既優點，而缺點人人都有。能夠茫茫人海中走埋一齊，可能佢今次對份感情亦即係對你用大力左。今日最後同佢講清楚，如果再犯先叫佢離場。咪當俾次機會大家，平常心。我估佢用心既都知點做架！唔好金快判人死刑啦！千祈唔好勞氣。你再三同佢講完，如果大家愛對方一定會經過今次更加明白大家架。星期六同佢去玩下啦！

[男]

難得大家都有緣遇到,不過不失,以後平常心去生活囉. 有時人都只係一時糊塗,提點埋佢呢次,如果係聽咪粉筆字抹左佢,如果日後唔聽既先至唔好令自己勞氣...

[Love Story]

Push, Support you give her once more chance. All relationship also are easy to match. Dont easy give up. you also can feeling the real heart between u and her. This is not easy to find in the world.

[Real Heart]

Love Story replied at 2010-11-13 1:44 pm
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<br>Push, Support you give her once more chance. All relationship also are easy to match. Dont easy give up. you also can feeling the real heart between u and her. This is not easy to find in the world.
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<br>I support LOVE STORY said that...Maybe he/She was typing wrong..."You want to said All relationship also are not easy to find and match...."
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<br>Really Dont easy GIVE UP. Just focus the future and positive. I Hope you and your the one have wonderful life.
<br>Otherway, Your Happy family, I know It must coming soon. All will become GOOD. And I know She/He will settle all Trouble things as soon and only focus your sweet family.
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[女]

I am not in any relationship with him, but started conversation. Found that he doesn't know how rude it is or perhaps I was over reacted. Thus wanna get others' opinion.

[哈哈]

有d男人係咁
<br>自己講左d野令人不安唔開心又唔知
<br>當你表現出對佢既說話不悅
<br>就會話你反應過敏,反應過大
<br>仍會堅持自己冇講錯野
<br>係既, 表面佢真係冇錯架
<br>不過就係唔識tum人過份堅持己見
<br>見人地已經唔開心都仲唔收口囉
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<br>下次再有咁既情況
<br>唔好再繼續同佢討論, 你唔回應佢就冇野架喇
<br>因為再講落去只會你好嬲
<br>而佢就冇野囉

[女]

哈哈 replied at 2010-11-13 11:49 pm
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<br>有d男人係咁
<br>自己講左d野令人不安唔開心又唔知
<br>當你表現出對佢既說話不悅
<br>就會話你反應過敏,反應過大
<br>仍會堅持自己冇講錯野
<br>係既, 表面佢真係冇錯架
<br>不過就係唔識tum人過份堅持己見
<br>見人地已經唔開心都仲唔收口囉
<br>
<br>下次再有咁既情況
<br>唔好再繼續同佢討論, 你唔回應佢就冇野架喇
<br>因為再講落去只會你好嬲
<br>而佢就冇野囉
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<br>Thanks advice and I really don't know this way out.

[youyouyou]

我中文退步緊, 都唔明你地講咩, 唉。
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<br>文字好誤導既, 出來見面如果話不投機, 咩算咯。 唔合嘴型, kiss 都唔得喇， 何況長期相處。
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